my partner wants another child, we both work full time. His job is not flexible to do pick up and unexpected sick children but mine does.
He is saying we will make it work but at whose expense? He earns £1200 and I £2600 after tax pension etc. For us to make this even barely work it means no savings and any luxuries not even a Netflix subscription.
Am I being unreasonable or is he not realising the hidden jobs I do as a mum to keep us afloat?
I believe it will be me burnt out and bending over backwards to make it work not him.
Advice, opinions and experience would be great to hear. How am I supposed to navigate this ?