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People could cut housing costs to retire early

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ThoughtsQuestions · 26/01/2026 07:51

The statement is "people could cut housing costs to retire early" but I'm not sure how much I believe myself and trying to figure out my priorities.

Here's my situation for context;

I paid off mortgage on a very small home in my late 30s. It's a safe area, close to shops and a park. It's cheap because it's small and not a fancy building. My living costs are quite modest because I don't need to pay for housing. But in some ways, I'd love to live in less cramped conditions

Our annual family income (pre-tax) is over 50% of the value of the house. People on a similar income live in much bigger places, with a big mortgage.

I changed sectors and pay went up more than expected. The big pay feels temporary, ie if I stop working, I doubt I'd be in the position again. But I don't get enough time with my young kids

I'm weighing up my priorities at the moment.
Pros : financially free, could retire early if trajectory is same for a few years.
Cons : work's very stressful for the high pay AND we have a v small space to bring up kids. But really the kids don't notice, yet!

Lots of questions.....
Is a home that's much cheaper than you can afford worth the freedom it enables?
Curious what others would do, I notice the mismatch in finances + stress + free time vs the quality of our living accommodation compared to the norm?
Have you been in this situation and gone through this phase? What did you think in retrospect?
Why are so many older people living in such valuable homes and not making this trade off? I always assumed that if your house went up by so much money (those in detached homes in SE worth close to or way over £1m), people might cash out more. Especially as children moved out.

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JohnofWessex · 28/01/2026 22:33

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 14:55

That's cool, do you have any details on the event? We also have the grotty conservatory and maybe space to extend in other directions. But if pushed the the max, the flow of the house would be awkward and the interior dark, as it's a narrow building with a relatively large garden out back. So advise about light pipes and celling window would be helpful

The Scheme is/was called 'Architect in the House'

My house isnt that different to the one linked to in the thread. We have a rooflight/lantern in the extension so the dining room which is sandwiched between the front room & extension has no natural light but isnt too dark

Uberella · 28/01/2026 22:02

If you need more space is there scope for conversion of your attic or an extension?

Ifusay · 28/01/2026 22:01

It’s a trade off. But I’d opt for a reasonably happy life, with a decent amount of space, while the dc are growing up. You can sell later. Retiring early costs a huge amount.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 28/01/2026 21:59

Dillydollydingdong · 28/01/2026 21:34

It's nicer and less stressful living in a decent size house. And I suppose it's better to live for the moment rather than waiting for a retirement that might never come! There are no guarantees in this life.

Hmm, I'm not sure I agree. Especially when you get older and it all still needs maintaining and cleaning. Houses in the UK tend to be badly designed though, so you need more rooms to make up for crap layouts.

Dillydollydingdong · 28/01/2026 21:34

It's nicer and less stressful living in a decent size house. And I suppose it's better to live for the moment rather than waiting for a retirement that might never come! There are no guarantees in this life.

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 21:27

Hufflemuff · 28/01/2026 20:16

I'd rather have a nice house - im not saying mortgaged up to the eyeballs - but even if you took out a mortgage for £150,000 over 20 years - you'd still only be 50 by the time its paid off and repayments would be incredibly cheap.

I dont see the point of retiring super early but not having a place you're happy with to spend that retirement in?

OK, maybe this is a regional question. Small house + £150k won't get you much around where I live. Probably be around an extra £400k.

The comment about houses in the north is a good point.

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Hufflemuff · 28/01/2026 20:16

I'd rather have a nice house - im not saying mortgaged up to the eyeballs - but even if you took out a mortgage for £150,000 over 20 years - you'd still only be 50 by the time its paid off and repayments would be incredibly cheap.

I dont see the point of retiring super early but not having a place you're happy with to spend that retirement in?

RaininSummer · 28/01/2026 20:03

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 14:33

Would you do it to get a nicer lifestyle or is it something you would only take as a safety net?

Well it would definitely boost my pension to a level where I could afford more trips and tickets etc but, for me, the cost could be not having a garden or a spare room for my family to visit so may not be a good trade off as I love having a small garden to sit in and family aren't local so that is important too. It's a tough decision I will have to make in a few years.

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 20:01

Bimpy · 28/01/2026 16:53

House prices are going to plummet in the long term due to the incoming drop in population. In 30 years big houses will be cheap as chips.

Oooh interesting take. What about inheritance? If lots of people pass with very valuable assets, the inheritance is likely to be used in housing. Depends on the tax rate, that could maintain prices given the strong preference for larger homes here.

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anniegun · 28/01/2026 17:17

Answering questions like this is almost impossible for two reasons. Firstly , everyone's circumstances are different and can change over time. Secondly you can never identify the best investment advice except with hindsight. Increasing house prices and low interest rates meant stretching your mortgage made perfect sense over the last 15 years. As we stand today house price rises are behind inflation and other investments are performing much better

Tryagain26 · 28/01/2026 17:10

ThoughtsQuestions · 26/01/2026 08:02

Depending on the value of your house, your pension might not need to be terrible. But i suppose you always have the option to downsize later in life to unlock funds.

I imagine if I retired, I might still work but with much less intensity and time to invest in skills I enjoyed. I think I would do sport and be more healthy. I'd also do budget travel for a few months over the summer. But there's a high cost now.

It's not that easy to make money by down sizing unless you are also willing to move to a different area or you have a huge house and want to love into a tiny one.
The costs of moving are very high once you take into account estate agent and solicitors fees, tax, removal cost, cost of new curtains, furniture etc for new house.
We have been looking to down size for a few years but because we don't want to move out of the area we live in now we haven't been able to find anything that we would want to live in that would make it worthwhile to move

Bimpy · 28/01/2026 16:53

House prices are going to plummet in the long term due to the incoming drop in population. In 30 years big houses will be cheap as chips.

ContentedAlpaca · 28/01/2026 16:51

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 08:13

This is where there is a big divide based on price of houses when people bought them.

Those that bought their first house in the last 10 years, are unlikely to ever be able to afford that.

Whilst you and all of your friends have and want enough space for guests. Myself and all my friends do not have space for guests.

It's just worth acknowledging that having space for guests is not something most of the country can not afford. Very lucky to be able to prioritise that luxury even if it might feel normal to you

In the north you could get a nice 3 bed house w with garden for about 160, maybe even less.
Eg. This is a quiet estate in Durham city

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/170423567#/?channel=RES_BUY

Check out this 3 bedroom semi-detached house for sale on Rightmove

3 bedroom semi-detached house for sale in Bamburgh Road, Newton Hall, Durham, DH1 for £160,000. Marketed by Robinsons, Durham

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/170423567#/?channel=RES_BUY

YourJustOrca · 28/01/2026 16:49

I’d prefer to live in a bigger house than be mortgage free in a too small house in my 30’s.

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 16:44

That's cool, do you have any details on the event? We also have the grotty conservatory and maybe space to extend in other directions. But if pushed the the max, the flow of the house would be awkward and the interior dark, as it's a narrow building with a relatively large garden out back. So advise about light pipes and celling window would be helpful

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ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 14:55

JohnofWessex · 28/01/2026 14:43

We replaced a grotty conservatory with a nice new single storey extension and the garage is now a bedroom

These are the sort of jobs that might be affordable from savings

Obviously I don't know anything about you house but there is an event each September from memory when you can get an hour's advice from an architect

That's cool, do you have any details on the event? We also have the grotty conservatory and maybe space to extend in other directions. But if pushed the the max, the flow of the house would be awkward and the interior dark, as it's a narrow building with a relatively large garden out back. So advise about light pipes and celling window would be helpful

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TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 28/01/2026 14:55

It depends how I age, but I tend to think that I'd rather live in a small, minimalistic place when I'm older and enjoy the world. We're just about to upsize into a place where we'll be working and raising our family, including hosting our family and friends.

But I'm not worried about hosting my son into my dotage - I'd rather fund a big house for him where I hope I'll be welcome, but at least he'd enjoy it!

JohnofWessex · 28/01/2026 14:43

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 09:41

This is an option! Might be nice.

We replaced a grotty conservatory with a nice new single storey extension and the garage is now a bedroom

These are the sort of jobs that might be affordable from savings

Obviously I don't know anything about you house but there is an event each September from memory when you can get an hour's advice from an architect

Thechaseison71 · 28/01/2026 14:43

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 14:33

Would you do it to get a nicer lifestyle or is it something you would only take as a safety net?

I'd sell my small flat and retire abroad.

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 14:33

RaininSummer · 28/01/2026 13:06

In theory, I could sell my house and move into a small flat and then retire early and live off the equity for a few years. It's an option.

Would you do it to get a nicer lifestyle or is it something you would only take as a safety net?

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RaininSummer · 28/01/2026 13:06

In theory, I could sell my house and move into a small flat and then retire early and live off the equity for a few years. It's an option.

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 13:01

Nourishinghandcream · 28/01/2026 09:54

There is no way I would want to trade our home for a smaller one just to enable an earlier retirement*.
Hopefully we are a long time retired and the thought of doing that in a smaller house is just not appealing as personal space is important. Pottering in the garden, hobby room, OH in his garage, room for guests without it causing upsets or falling over one another etc.
If it came to it, I would rather stay at work a bit longer.

*I did retire early (without the need to downsize) so the question is academic but that is my take on it. I know my OH agrees.

That sounds lovely. Nice to hear your priorities when both options were available to you.

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Nourishinghandcream · 28/01/2026 09:54

There is no way I would want to trade our home for a smaller one just to enable an earlier retirement*.
Hopefully we are a long time retired and the thought of doing that in a smaller house is just not appealing as personal space is important. Pottering in the garden, hobby room, OH in his garage, room for guests without it causing upsets or falling over one another etc.
If it came to it, I would rather stay at work a bit longer.

*I did retire early (without the need to downsize) so the question is academic but that is my take on it. I know my OH agrees.

ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 09:43

gingercat02 · 28/01/2026 08:27

So if they go to uni you will presumably need to be working until your mid 60s to fund their living expenses. So how to you retire significantly early?
DS is 17, I'm 56, he won't finish uni until 2030, I'll be 61. That would be before state pension age but not massively so.
Retiring early is in your 50s in my mind.

I have savings and a well paid job. Mortgage will be high interest. If i don't put more money on a mortgage, by mid fifties, I could retire on savings. If I put money on a new property, I'd need to wait until mid sixties to retire. That factors in costs like kids at uni etc.

That's the trade off from a cramped 2 bed vs what people used to call a big "family home"

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ThoughtsQuestions · 28/01/2026 09:41

JohnofWessex · 28/01/2026 08:50

Could you extend the house? Possibly paid for from savings - and yes it is stressful!

This is an option! Might be nice.

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