Are all fathers creepy?

It seems to so beyond understanding that those feelings are based on real life experiences. They're a direct reaction to how men behave.

I think everyone should give Alex a for his journey back to wherever he came from.

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Of course not.

You know your little incel buddies, the ones you talk about mean and nasty women with, because they have thoughts and opinions of their own and dont fawn all over you, well, as a collective you're MRAs.

HTH

Men really don't care when they're not wanted do they? They just dig their heels in ....

I think it’s a case of “Better safe than sorry”.
I would always rather err on side of caution where my DC are concerned.

As a parent I’d support that - it’s good for children to think stranger danger about me if I’m a stranger for example, and I would never get offended about that.

Simply did not think …. Try using that as your defence in court and let me know how you get on
Adults (female mainly) are required to think. And if they don’t, there are consequences

Don’t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya! 😂

This.

No one has ever suggested my dh os a perv for playing with my dd. I don't automatically assume all men are.

Don't let the door hit your arse on the way out ....

My father was a creep, and was also volubly indignant about women treating him with suspicion.

He used to go on all the time about how sexist it was that he couldn’t go into the women’s toilets to change my nappy, and how if women weren’t OK with this then how could they possibly expect equal rights / equal opportunities, etc.

He viewed all women with utter contempt and preyed on his vulnerable female students.

I haven’t read the thread you’ve posted - but why would any man be in the women’s changing room in the first place?

Of course people will assume he’s a creep, so if he doesn’t like that he should get some bloody self awareness.

I don’t have any sympathy for a man who is labelled a creep, whether he is or not - he shouldn’t be there in the first place making women uncomfortable.

The man’s entitlement is the problem.

I mean look at you on here OP (assume you’re a man?) telling women they’re wrong for assuming a man in the female changing rooms is a creep 🤷‍♀️

Maybe their experiences are that of men being so useless or predatory that they can’t leave a baby with them. That’s not my experience as my dad and my DH were/are hands on and trustworthy. I am able to acknowledge that I am lucky with this rather than in the majority.

Not all men are bad, but this one is.

I don't think there's any excuse for men, particularly fathers, to be ignorant about the potential impact of their own behaviour. I don't believe there isn't a man alive who wouldn't think the changing room situation is inappropriate. Its not ignorance, it's entitlement. When men start holding each other to account, maybe then I'll have a bit more sympathy.

Actually on the subject I have seen men and women validate men who don't have access to changing facilities for their children to enter women's toilets with changing facilities without so much a by your leave. Sometimes someone advocates for an 'I'm coming in'. Never once have I read anyone advocate for a knock on the door, an explanation, and a consensus. That's the kind of thing that feeds into that entitlement. Its directly comparable actually.

Nope, you're problem is being bored and entitled enough to be coming on here to rage bait women so you can cry about it to your little MRA buddies for attention later.

Gotta love the mansplaining.

Ladies, a man is here, know your place.

We might have to make a sign with crayons in capitals to.get across that:
No, not all dads are creepy
Dads who insist on barging into women's changing rooms probably are
Anyone who thinks women are the predatory sex can fuck off.

He's disabled.

Thats what the disabled changing are for.