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To feed the crows?

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BettyWhittaker · 23/01/2026 10:57

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Last year I fell down a rabbit hole regarding crows - funnily enough it happened after reading a thread on here about their behaviour and intelligence.

I decided to start an experiment to determine how long it would take a group of crows to remember my face and start to trust me. So I started feeding a group of crows on the park behind my house. At first, only one crow would hang around but it stayed far away and would only come down for the food when I was safely away from it. Before long another crow turned up. So for months I was feeding two crows who kept their distance but seemed to recognise me. Eventually these two crows started waiting for me at the entrance to the park and if they weren’t there when I turned up - they showed up shortly afterwards. They were now getting a little closer too.

Fast forward to yesterday … 4 crows showed up 😂 I fed them all and they appeared to be following me at a distance.

Today - 4 crows all sat around waiting when I approached the park. As soon as I got in there they all flew closer and started positioning themselves on the ground around me - staring directly at me - watching my hands and getting quite close to me. I carried on walking and kept hearing funny little noises behind me and when I turned around - there they were - following closely behind. I fed them again and carried on walking only to see crows shooting past me and landing in front of me - staring at me. A little unnerved now I fed them again and carried on walking … this behaviour continued until suddenly it was like I’d crossed an invisible barrier that they all stayed behind as I walked away.

Fascinating - they even seem to have memorised my route as once they stopped following they all met up in an area where I need to walk past on my way out.

Am I doing anything wrong here? Are locals likely to complain? Will they start bothering other people and will they suddenly turn on me and attack me for my bird food? 😂

OP posts:
Chaotica · 23/01/2026 11:17

This is excellent, OP. I'm a fan of crows. I feed local ones (sometimes peanuts, or just because they eat up the food the hedgehogs have left) but they are still quite wary of me. (I suspect they know who I am though.) I often feel as if I'm being watched.

toomuchfaff · 23/01/2026 11:16

I want to feed the crows but they like large spaces (and no other small birds feeding in that space), i researched best ways to make it happen of chatGPT and it gave some good tips.

I love youre doing this at the park. I went to the beach over Christmas time, and there were crows who managed to recognise me within a day! They also started to follow me, but I was feeding them meat, offcuts of sausage and other bits, raw dried dog treats, liver etc.

Watching this thread! well done you! Ive not managed to have one land at my house yet, 😒

KilkennyCats · 23/01/2026 11:12

Oh, I love this 😊
Crows are fab, good on you, op.

Placetobreathe · 23/01/2026 11:11

I feed the crows in my back garden.

I purposely started doing this when I moved in because I wanted them " on my side". I found them rather intimidating when I moved here, especially when they had young ones which they protect vigorously. They chase cats out of the garden. But they see me as their friend.

A man from the neighbouring street who walks his dog past my house throws them nuts. And the pair of crows will follow him down the street until he has given them their treat.

They are so clever. And absolutely fascinating.

TheNavyReader · 23/01/2026 11:10

Really love this ,this is you now committed now though .How exciting. Please keep updating

FruitFlyPie · 23/01/2026 11:08

Love this.

I also read that thread last year and became fascinated, I even put a few crow facts on my online dating profile. Some people sent messages about that, and now I've been dating a guy from that app for a year. I'm not sure if he specifically became interested due to the crow facts but it can't have hurt.

HorrorAndHaagenDazs · 23/01/2026 11:04

Nope perfecly reasonable.
I love Corvids and would love to make friends with one.
Hasnt happened yet tho :(

Friendlygingercat · 23/01/2026 11:03

If you have been feeding the crows and then stop they may resent it when you pass that way with nothing to give them. I would be careful of manipulating them.

LaurieFairyCake · 23/01/2026 11:01

I adore crows! Corvids are the most intelligent creatures, keep going. You may end up with your own flock.

ExtraOnions · 23/01/2026 10:59

Corvids are very intelligent birds .. you should start giving them some puzzle feeders to work out. I can’t see why anyone would complain

tinaabbot · 23/01/2026 10:59

Crows are amazing! I’d love to befriend some

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