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DD relationship age gap.

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novablast · 22/01/2026 21:03

My DD is 24 and she has recently ended up in a ‘relationship’ with a 36 year old.
He has two children to a previous woman. He only sees the kids every other weekend and lives alone where dd plans to move in with him.
AIBU to think they are at complete different stages of life and it won’t work and that it is a red flag he only sees his children two days out of fourteen? Do I have a leg to stand on by bringing this up to DD if she says she’s happy?

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TheDaringFawn · 22/01/2026 21:05

Tread carefully to avoid isolating her if she is smitten, id be concerned though