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Women and anyone with a cervix

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Zillyzillyzillymouse · 22/01/2026 17:09

Women and anyone with a cervix is written in my weekly magazine. What absolute rubbish is this? It gives me the rage.

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Catwalking · 22/01/2026 18:41

Are you sure ‘My Weekly’ still exists? 🤔

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:40

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:34

Well actually yes they do.
You probably have walked past many trans men and women and not had a clue they are trans. Nor should you as it really is none of your business.

I mean, I disagree. But even if a woman dressed as a man walked past me and I didn’t notice she was a woman, it still does not make her a man.

She is, and always will be, a woman.

2dogsandabudgie · 22/01/2026 18:39

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:34

Well actually yes they do.
You probably have walked past many trans men and women and not had a clue they are trans. Nor should you as it really is none of your business.

But that isn't the problem. I don't care what anyone looks like, but object to a man or woman expecting me to believe that it's possible for them to change sex.

lifeturnsonadime · 22/01/2026 18:37

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:30

Surely anyone with a cervix is the logical thing to say. Saying women need cervical screening is including those of us who no longer have a cervix.

One of the problems with that is women for whom English is not the first language may not understand that applies to them and also women with low cognitive ability may not know it applies to them either.

The word woman is universally understood and changing the messaging in the way you suggest could mean that minority groups miss out on important health screening.

Most people who are offended by the use of the word woman used in this context are genderists. Trans men know they are woman and should seek out the appropriate healthcare.

MarvellousMonsters · 22/01/2026 18:35

Murriams · 22/01/2026 17:12

It really doesn't bother me, im baffled by people's rage at inclusive language

If you have a cervix, you are a woman. End of.

Men don’t have a cervix, no matter how much oestrogen they take, or how big their breast implants are. And women can’t become men even if they have a mastectomy and no matter how much testosterone they take.

Whilst there are women who don’t have a cervix anyone with a cervix is a woman.

Is that clear enough?

2dogsandabudgie · 22/01/2026 18:35

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:16

It is not nonsense, believe me no one actually sits down and thinks "oh, I might just change my gender today".
If you had any idea of the sheer hard work it is for the trans community then you might be able to stop clutching your pearls and look at the real world.

Of course it's nonsense. You cannot change sex.

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:34

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:28

She is a woman. Nobody actually believes she is a man.

Edited

Well actually yes they do.
You probably have walked past many trans men and women and not had a clue they are trans. Nor should you as it really is none of your business.

viques · 22/01/2026 18:32

JHound · 22/01/2026 18:00

??

What does any of that have to do with acknowledging them in a way that does not erase women.

Well , and there was me trying to be equitable and generous and acknowledge that sex based health issues apply to both sexes.

Next time I will just leave people to wallow and die in the pit of their own ignorance and unreasonable prejudice.

Flounce . Slams door. Comes back, slams door louder.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 22/01/2026 18:31

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:28

She is a woman. Nobody actually believes she is a man.

Edited

I do.

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:30

Surely anyone with a cervix is the logical thing to say. Saying women need cervical screening is including those of us who no longer have a cervix.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:28

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:10

I am the mother of a trans man and he has a cervix.
Are you posting to start yet another rage bait post?
People have cervix's and their cervix is nowt to do with you.

She is a woman. Nobody actually believes she is a man.

Gilead · 22/01/2026 18:28

Dragonasaurus · 22/01/2026 17:54

I’m assuming your friend is a transman? Definitely not male!

of course India Willoughby (transwoman) famously declared having a cervix along with an offer to show it to anyone who didn’t believe it….. 🤷‍♀️

Definitely male. Sorry you’re not comfortable with it.

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:27

MinestroneMacaroni · 22/01/2026 17:45

The word women is inclusive of ALL women. It’s exclusive of men, who don’t have a cervix so no, YANBU. Even women who don’t think they are women, are women. I don’t think we’re doing them any favours by indulging their fantasy.

But not all women have a cervix.

Cyclebabble · 22/01/2026 18:26

Seems okay to me? Mostly it will be women who have a cervix but a small number of trans men might also. I think the language is fine so long as it states women first.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 22/01/2026 18:26

ColourThief · 22/01/2026 18:23

What gives me rage is transphobes making constant tiresome threads like this one.

Awaiting my predictable comment deletion 🥱🙄

What’s tiresome is the ridiculous obfuscation of language to appease delusional individuals and their supporters. It’s not kind to lie.

PatchouliPrincess · 22/01/2026 18:26

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:12

Yes.

Offended by reality?

OttersMayHaveShifted · 22/01/2026 18:26

Murriams · 22/01/2026 17:12

It really doesn't bother me, im baffled by people's rage at inclusive language

There's nothing good about lying in order to include people in groups to which they categorically do not belong. It doesn't even work. Would a transman who didn't consider themselves a woman, and who had had a hysterectomy belong in this group?

viques · 22/01/2026 18:25

Aluna · 22/01/2026 18:05

Why should anyone be defined by a body part?

Because some body parts do define us.

In a thousand years time when fleshed body parts have long gone your sex is identifiable in seconds just by looking at your pelvic bones. That is how important body parts are and how integral they are to defining our sex, and in this case, defining potential health issues.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 22/01/2026 18:24

Cabinqueen · 22/01/2026 17:20

I had a payslip with a health message box for reminders about flu injections, covid vaccination dates etc. and about two years ago, one month was a reminder for "anyone with a cervix to get regular cervical screening tests..."

To be fair, I've had a total hysterectomy and don't have a cervix so no longer need smear tests.

frecklejuice · 22/01/2026 18:24

YANBU “people” don’t have a cervix, women have a cervix.

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:23

EarthlyNightshade · 22/01/2026 17:28

Just "women" would work.
Trans men could dip in to see if it's relevant to them, as health things could be but many things wouldn't be.

No not just women, women with a cervix. I'm still a woman but I don't have a cervix.

ColourThief · 22/01/2026 18:23

Zillyzillyzillymouse · 22/01/2026 17:09

Women and anyone with a cervix is written in my weekly magazine. What absolute rubbish is this? It gives me the rage.

What gives me rage is transphobes making constant tiresome threads like this one.

Awaiting my predictable comment deletion 🥱🙄

lifeturnsonadime · 22/01/2026 18:22

I do think that this pandering with language needs to stop.

If a woman who identifies as a trans man needs to be addressed as a 'person with a cervix' before they go for essential healthcare for women then they clearly need to address their mental health issues.

As someone upthread said the only way you can be a trans man is by being a woman so health literature aimed at women clearly includes women who believe they are not women.

Erosion of language harms women, it is directly led to women's single sex spaces being invaded by men. That is more harmful than any hurt a woman who denies reality might feel.

MrsVBS · 22/01/2026 18:22

Completely agree, it’s biologically impossible for anyone other than a woman to have a cervix, sick to death of women being trampled over by delusional men.

Lifealwaysgetsbetter · 22/01/2026 18:22

Zillyzillyzillymouse · 22/01/2026 17:09

Women and anyone with a cervix is written in my weekly magazine. What absolute rubbish is this? It gives me the rage.

It should say all females who still have their cervix. I’m a woman and have no cervix since my hysterectomy so I could get called for a smear with that language. Similarly a male who thinks he’s now a woman could rock up. They need to use the word female as in sec and then even those who think they are now men will know it’s directed at them too

language really matters in healthcare and trumps feelings