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Women and anyone with a cervix

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Zillyzillyzillymouse · 22/01/2026 17:09

Women and anyone with a cervix is written in my weekly magazine. What absolute rubbish is this? It gives me the rage.

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Thelnebriati · 23/01/2026 10:53

If transitioning means women believe they no longer need PAP tests, or men believe they no longer need prostate exams, then transitioning is not benign or neutral.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/01/2026 10:51

You know, I’m all for protecting women’s spaces (as well as making sure everyone has spaces to use that are safe for them) but I don’t buy the “thin end of the wedge” arguments about things like this.

Using language that makes everyone who needs to be feel included is no bad thing in my view. Even if technically the phrase could be more pin point accurate, it’s good if it means trans men realise “ok this includes me, I will seek this healthcare” - which could be lifesaving in some circumstances (say if it was talking about a smear test).

Lots of people might genuinely think “ah well I’m not a woman so that doesn’t mean me”.

DoubleShotEspressox · 23/01/2026 10:49

Floatlikeafeather2 · 23/01/2026 10:33

I'm a woman. I don't have a cervix. In your eyes, does that make me not a woman?

Deliberate rage baiting.

Argument for both - are you biologically female? Born as a female. Had your cervix removed at some stage. You remain a female.

Or

If you believe you are a woman, live as a woman - but were born with a penis. You are biologically a man. And therefore don’t need a cervical screen.

I might be wrong but I’ll assume you’re the former - this is about protecting WOMENS spaces and not erasing women from humanity. Why would you argue semantics when the fundamentals are - men and women are different.

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 10:49

Whoops sorry

People with a cervix indicates that those who aren't women can have a cervix, which is nonsense

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 10:48

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:47

Women with a cervix or people with a cervix both cover the fact, women doesn't.

As I said upthread, either you value accurate language or you don't. People with a cerc

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:47

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 10:46

As you well understand, I'm objecting to the terminology 'people with cervixes'

Women with a cervix or people with a cervix both cover the fact, women doesn't.

Vaxtable · 23/01/2026 10:47

JHound · 22/01/2026 17:29

Trans men .

Who are biological women

LeftieRightsHoarder · 23/01/2026 10:46

_nellie_ · 22/01/2026 17:10

grow up

“Grow up” and pretend to believe bullshit? That’s not growing up, it’s giving in.

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:46

HorrorAndHaagenDazs · 23/01/2026 10:44

Wilfully obtuse in order to produce what they believe to be the trump card.
"I've only got one leg so clearly humans aren't a bipedal species!"

Seen it, sighed at it, rinse and repeat.

Stating facts is so hard to accept isn't it. I'm a woman, I don't have a cervix, I don't need cervical screening.

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 10:46

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:45

Are you so lacking in understanding that saying women need cervical screening is ridiculous as not all women have a cervix so don't need the screening. Women with a cervix need screening, is that hard to understand?

If people want to get in a froth maybe accept that their view isn't the only one.

As you well understand, I'm objecting to the terminology 'people with cervixes'

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:45

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 10:39

And?

Are people so lacking in their understanding of their logic that they think that 'only women can have a cervix' also means 'all women have a cervix'?

Are you so lacking in understanding that saying women need cervical screening is ridiculous as not all women have a cervix so don't need the screening. Women with a cervix need screening, is that hard to understand?

If people want to get in a froth maybe accept that their view isn't the only one.

HorrorAndHaagenDazs · 23/01/2026 10:44

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 10:39

And?

Are people so lacking in their understanding of their logic that they think that 'only women can have a cervix' also means 'all women have a cervix'?

Wilfully obtuse in order to produce what they believe to be the trump card.
"I've only got one leg so clearly humans aren't a bipedal species!"

Seen it, sighed at it, rinse and repeat.

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 10:39

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:28

Doesn't mean all women do either.

And?

Are people so lacking in their understanding of their logic that they think that 'only women can have a cervix' also means 'all women have a cervix'?

HorrorAndHaagenDazs · 23/01/2026 10:37

Floatlikeafeather2 · 23/01/2026 10:33

I'm a woman. I don't have a cervix. In your eyes, does that make me not a woman?

Was it present at birth when you were observed to be female?
Or do you not have a cervix because you were observed to be male at birth?

Floatlikeafeather2 · 23/01/2026 10:33

DoubleShotEspressox · 22/01/2026 17:21

Because someone with a cervix - believe it or not - is a woman.

I'm a woman. I don't have a cervix. In your eyes, does that make me not a woman?

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:28

TheKeatingFive · 22/01/2026 22:12

Gender non conforming people have always been around, yes.

That doesn't mean men have cervixes.

Doesn't mean all women do either.

TheignT · 23/01/2026 10:26

lifeturnsonadime · 22/01/2026 18:37

One of the problems with that is women for whom English is not the first language may not understand that applies to them and also women with low cognitive ability may not know it applies to them either.

The word woman is universally understood and changing the messaging in the way you suggest could mean that minority groups miss out on important health screening.

Most people who are offended by the use of the word woman used in this context are genderists. Trans men know they are woman and should seek out the appropriate healthcare.

Edited

It is the most accurate though. I don't feel offended at the use of women but the fact is we don't all have a cervix.

EarthlyNightshade · 23/01/2026 08:37

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:23

No not just women, women with a cervix. I'm still a woman but I don't have a cervix.

Yes, sorry, I agree with this. Presuming the context was cervix related.

Jumpingthruhoops · 23/01/2026 07:37

PatchouliPrincess · 22/01/2026 18:07

Why can't they use 'biological women' if they want to be inclusive.

Because everyone is 'biological' apparently.
(Yup, literally, a real conversation I had with someone once 🤯)

Jumpingthruhoops · 23/01/2026 07:26

Tadpolesinponds · 22/01/2026 17:56

Are you telling us that your partner doesn't realise that she's female? Does she worry about getting prostate cancer, for instance? Of course she doesn't. She knows that if something medical talks about women, it means her. That's because you can't change sex.

Exactly. The word women is perfectly 'inclusive' as it 'includes' ALL those who, biologically, have a cervix.
How they might 'identify' outside of that is really neither here nor there...

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 05:22

Gilead · 22/01/2026 21:55

Some people should perhaps stop being so bloody tribal. Trans people have been around since humankind happened.

How do you know? Do you have proof of Neanderthal trans people? Do please share. That would be very interesting I think? As they were all naked or wrapped in furs, was it the way they wrapped their fur that showed their gender or something different?

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 05:20

Cyclebabble · 22/01/2026 18:26

Seems okay to me? Mostly it will be women who have a cervix but a small number of trans men might also. I think the language is fine so long as it states women first.

But that language supposes that all women are female. In their bid to be inclusive, they are either going to get a lot of males claiming trans identity rocking up, as they believe they are women, or they are being transphobic and stating all women are female. That is where this mangling of language gets us.

Jumpingthruhoops · 23/01/2026 02:22

Sparklybutold · 22/01/2026 17:26

There are many instances where sex based language is important. Even your partner should know this as she/he will have important issues related to her/his biological reality. If his whole concept of self is anchored on social reality he will always struggle.

This! It's always seem odd to me how transmen don't wish to acknowledge their 'womanhood'... but when it comes to medical procedure, they want society to acknowledge their 'womanhood' and that they 'have a cervix'. If they know that, as a biological woman, they have a cervix, presumably they know that, in that instance, they are being referred to, regardless of how they appear on the outside!?

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 22/01/2026 23:33

Can’t see why that would upset anyone or do anyone any harm. If it makes trans men feel included then that’s fine by me.

ShowMeTheSea · 22/01/2026 23:25

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 22/01/2026 17:21

My boyfriend has a cervix. He’s a trans man.

They are including trans men. This is a good thing.

I agree, I can't get worked up over trans men being included as well - I mean, they literally say women as well in the post so we're both included.