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Women and anyone with a cervix

314 replies

Zillyzillyzillymouse · 22/01/2026 17:09

Women and anyone with a cervix is written in my weekly magazine. What absolute rubbish is this? It gives me the rage.

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Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 20:34

lifeturnsonadime · 23/01/2026 20:26

that's not enough for most Trans identify people, especially males. You would be considered transphobic for not welcoming them in single sex spaces with open arms.

Thanks. it comeback to a reasonable test. My sisters are Nurses. Quite understandably they would want to get changed in a space based on biological sex. This is why we need finalised guidance on single sex spaces. Once we have this clarity I would hope the debate can be less polarised.

lifeturnsonadime · 23/01/2026 20:26

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 20:14

Please see my earlier comments. My work team had a number of trans people. I do not have any issue in using their preferred pronouns or seeing them largely as women. For changing rooms, personal care, some aspects of medical care prisons and some areas we do need spaces based on biological sex. Which is what I said in my second post.

that's not enough for most Trans identify people, especially males. You would be considered transphobic for not welcoming them in single sex spaces with open arms.

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 20:14

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 20:00

What on earth does 'living as a man' (or woman) mean?

And are you saying you support men's 'rights' to use women's single sex spaces?

Please see my earlier comments. My work team had a number of trans people. I do not have any issue in using their preferred pronouns or seeing them largely as women. For changing rooms, personal care, some aspects of medical care prisons and some areas we do need spaces based on biological sex. Which is what I said in my second post.

BIossomtoes · 23/01/2026 20:11

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 20:00

What on earth does 'living as a man' (or woman) mean?

And are you saying you support men's 'rights' to use women's single sex spaces?

I really don’t know why you’re asking her this when she quite clearly said

What we need to be clear on is that a female changing area should be for biological women only and that in certain limited other cases such as personal care, rape support and in some cases prisons should be based on biological sex.

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 20:00

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 19:58

For me a trans-man is living as a man. With some very limited exceptions I would treat him as a man and similarly I would treat a trans-woman as a woman.

What on earth does 'living as a man' (or woman) mean?

And are you saying you support men's 'rights' to use women's single sex spaces?

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 19:58

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 16:58

Trans men are women.

You know this. Why are you pretending humans can change sex?

For me a trans-man is living as a man. With some very limited exceptions I would treat him as a man and similarly I would treat a trans-woman as a woman.

Zillyzillyzillymouse · 23/01/2026 19:23

TheignT · 23/01/2026 19:13

Well if you haven't got a cervix you don't need cervical screening. What's absurd about that?

Only biological women have a cervix.

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TheignT · 23/01/2026 19:13

Illegally18 · 23/01/2026 18:47

I don't find the replies are spiteful. They are responding to the absurdity of 'anyone with a cervix'.

Well if you haven't got a cervix you don't need cervical screening. What's absurd about that?

Illegally18 · 23/01/2026 18:47

Gilead · 22/01/2026 19:57

I cannot believe how petty and spiteful this is.

I don't find the replies are spiteful. They are responding to the absurdity of 'anyone with a cervix'.

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 17:17

PatchouliPrincess · 23/01/2026 17:15

Do trans women have a cervix?

India willoughby says he does. And has threatened promised to show it if needed. But if transwomen are women, surely they’d be included in the “women” bit wouldn’t they? So should definitely turn up for a smear. As it says women and people with a cervix.

PatchouliPrincess · 23/01/2026 17:15

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 17:08

So you’re including transwomen in your definition of woman, or are you saying transwomen don’t need this service abd therefore are not women? Slightly transphobic don’t you think?

Do trans women have a cervix?

PatchouliPrincess · 23/01/2026 17:14

Shedmistress · 23/01/2026 15:20

Just women covered it for years - since language evolved they knew who the women were.

I agree. That we have to pretzel ourselves to be 'inclusive' is madness. Literally.

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 17:08

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 16:53

It is quite possible that a trans man might have retained a cervix. The numbers of course are very small, but I am happy with wording that says women (the vast vast majority) and anyone else with a cervix and then goes on to topic.

So you’re including transwomen in your definition of woman, or are you saying transwomen don’t need this service abd therefore are not women? Slightly transphobic don’t you think?

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 16:58

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 16:53

It is quite possible that a trans man might have retained a cervix. The numbers of course are very small, but I am happy with wording that says women (the vast vast majority) and anyone else with a cervix and then goes on to topic.

Trans men are women.

You know this. Why are you pretending humans can change sex?

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 16:53

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 16:37

Gender non conforming people exist, agreed.

However, I don't understand why, because of this, you would pretend that men can have cervixes.

It is quite possible that a trans man might have retained a cervix. The numbers of course are very small, but I am happy with wording that says women (the vast vast majority) and anyone else with a cervix and then goes on to topic.

TheKeatingFive · 23/01/2026 16:37

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 16:24

I would not see transgender people as being ill. Trans people exist. I accept this and get on with life.

Gender non conforming people exist, agreed.

However, I don't understand why, because of this, you would pretend that men can have cervixes.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2026 16:36

Sartre · 23/01/2026 15:27

Mumsnet is obviously TERF central which is fine, to each their own. This doesn’t offend me because I realise trans men exist. It’s inclusive because it means they won’t think whatever the medical advice is doesn’t count for them now they’re men. If they still have a cervix, they need smears for example.

Anorexic people exist. But they aren’t fat like they believe.

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 16:29

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 16:24

I would not see transgender people as being ill. Trans people exist. I accept this and get on with life.

So if they are not ill why do they need medical intervention?

Cyclebabble · 23/01/2026 16:24

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 14:39

So is anorexia. Do you accommodate anorexic people?

I would not see transgender people as being ill. Trans people exist. I accept this and get on with life.

Aluna · 23/01/2026 15:51

Shedmistress · 23/01/2026 15:48

I know that gender non conformity is not limited to blah blah blah. I am gender non conforming and have been for my whole life, since the early 70s.

You said there had been trans people since the dawn of humanity. So show some evidence of your claims.

I have never said anything of the sort. You have completely misunderstood my posts.

Please quote where I have said this:

there had been trans people since the dawn of humanity.

Namelessnelly · 23/01/2026 15:49

Sartre · 23/01/2026 15:27

Mumsnet is obviously TERF central which is fine, to each their own. This doesn’t offend me because I realise trans men exist. It’s inclusive because it means they won’t think whatever the medical advice is doesn’t count for them now they’re men. If they still have a cervix, they need smears for example.

But it is exclusive language. It’s saying that only females are women and excluding non cis men who believe they are women. I mean, no male has a cervix so by default this language excludes “transwomen”.

Shedmistress · 23/01/2026 15:48

Aluna · 23/01/2026 15:29

This is not very articulate.

The hijacking of cultural practice for a contemporary agenda is cultural appropriation.

The history of Native American tribes and their cultures is simply history.

The practice of gender non-conformity in history is not limited to Turtle Island in any case.

I know that gender non conformity is not limited to blah blah blah. I am gender non conforming and have been for my whole life, since the early 70s.

You said there had been trans people since the dawn of humanity. So show some evidence of your claims.

Shedmistress · 23/01/2026 15:45

Sartre · 23/01/2026 15:27

Mumsnet is obviously TERF central which is fine, to each their own. This doesn’t offend me because I realise trans men exist. It’s inclusive because it means they won’t think whatever the medical advice is doesn’t count for them now they’re men. If they still have a cervix, they need smears for example.

Trans men know they are women. We really need to stop lying to these women.

Not one person on the planet has ever changed sex. This is utter insanity.

justpassmethemouse · 23/01/2026 15:41

This again? I actually thought I was clicking on a thread with some actual information on smears or the like.

Wouldn’t it be a better use of our time to discuss the implications of at-home smear tests or the potential reduction to once every 5 years, than a random use of inclusive language?

lifeturnsonadime · 23/01/2026 15:36

Sartre · 23/01/2026 15:27

Mumsnet is obviously TERF central which is fine, to each their own. This doesn’t offend me because I realise trans men exist. It’s inclusive because it means they won’t think whatever the medical advice is doesn’t count for them now they’re men. If they still have a cervix, they need smears for example.

No one is saying that Trans men don't exist!

We are just saying they are women, which they have to be in order to be trans men!

What I find alarming is this thought that women who identify as trans men think that they have somehow changed sex! How ridiculous. If you are right and this is happening then a lot of responsibility lies on trans activists/ charities for not making it clear that no one literally changes sex. Men who identify as trans women still need prostate exams. Women who identify as trans men still need smear tests.

It's absolutely insane to suggest that people do not KNOW this.

Pandering to ideological delusions harms women. It has directly led to the erosion of single sex spaces and harms to young women who want to opt out of woman hood because some how it is now seen as progressive to adhere to sexist stereotypes of how men and women should act and behave.

No thank you.