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Fed up of seeing vehicles with no lights on at 5:30pm

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kolpa · 22/01/2026 06:50

It has been dark at the time since Oct. Yet on my journey home from work - I always see around 3 vehicles with no headlights on. Different cars of different ages.

How dump do you need to be not notice these things?

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Elbowpatch · 22/01/2026 23:03

OonaStubbs · 22/01/2026 20:51

They should bring back the men that used to walk in front of cars waving a big flag to warn everyone that a car was coming.

It was actually that MN favourite, a red flag.

The Locomotives Act 1865.

OonaStubbs · 22/01/2026 20:51

They should bring back the men that used to walk in front of cars waving a big flag to warn everyone that a car was coming.

RudolphTheReindeer · 22/01/2026 18:19

asrl78 · 22/01/2026 15:15

If you are complaining about them you can see them, what is the problem? Do you complain about pedestrians without reflectives and wearing dark clothing who have the audacity to be using or crossing the road? Fallen trees and debris in the road don't have reflectives either, the solution is to pay attention.

People do complain about pedestrians in the road in the dark with a death wish yes

JohnTheRevelator · 22/01/2026 17:18

ChequeredSquares · 22/01/2026 07:30

Why would “dumb” autocorrect to “dump” if “dumb” is a proper word?

My phone frequently autocorrects 'proper' words to another word! The favourite one is changing 'in' to 'on' and vice versa.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 17:02

Netcurtainnelly · 22/01/2026 15:59

They need a newer car

Why? How old does a car have to be before they started making them without headlights?!

Netcurtainnelly · 22/01/2026 15:59

They need a newer car

asrl78 · 22/01/2026 15:15

Sartre · 22/01/2026 07:30

Don’t think this is common. Most vehicles have automatic lights.

It’s bikes that fuck me off. People who don’t even bother with reflectives and wear dark clothing. Maybe have a tiny shit light on the back of the bike if you’re lucky.

If you are complaining about them you can see them, what is the problem? Do you complain about pedestrians without reflectives and wearing dark clothing who have the audacity to be using or crossing the road? Fallen trees and debris in the road don't have reflectives either, the solution is to pay attention.

RampantIvy · 22/01/2026 15:06

I think it's down to dashboards being permanently lit up now. It's easier for people to not realise that they've forgotten to put their lights on.

I agree. I posted this upthread, but I think a lot of MN drivers are too young to remember this.

Mincepietastic · 22/01/2026 13:21

I see quite often people with just the daytime running lights on, so they have low lights at the front (so presumably think their headlights are on) but nothing on the back. Nightmare. I've flashed my lights when I see it, but none of them have ever turned their lights on.

Purplebunnie · 22/01/2026 13:18

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 09:18

Apparently you can get a fine of up to £5,000 and 9 points on your licence for driving dangerously - which includes driving in the dark without lights. Maybe even the minimum £50 fine might train some drivers to routinely take a couple of seconds to check that their lights on when needed - just the same as you put on your seat belt and give it a quick pull to make sure that it's clicked in, as second nature.

And I highly doubt that claims of "But the headlights are automatic, officer!" would cut it at all. My car has an automatic gearbox, but I still couldn't blame the car if I were to sail through a red light!

Oh my goodness I had a lucky escape then. Got pulled over by the police as my rear lights weren't on - they are automatic. Car had just been serviced and MOT'd and the garage had not reset the lights. Nevertheless I should have checked - totally my fault

Womaninhouse17 · 22/01/2026 13:15

jamandcustard · 22/01/2026 11:21

My car is 10 years old and doesn’t have automatic lights 🤷‍♀️

Mines only 8 and doesn't have automatic lights either.

RunYouJuiceBitch · 22/01/2026 13:14

I think it's down to dashboards being permanently lit up now. It's easier for people to not realise that they've forgotten to put their lights on.

In the Olden Days, dashboards weren't backlit unless the lights were on. One of my two cars is 39 years old and you'd notice straight away if you were driving without lights on as the dashboard would be pitch black.

That said, fog lights and indicators have visible symbols on dashboards and people manage to ignore those for miles. I do wonder how often some people glance down at their dashboard displays...

FuzzyWolf · 22/01/2026 13:12

It feels the other way round here as people seem to have lights on all the time.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 12:54

I didn't see what make or model it was, but I saw a car out this morning with orange lights on the back corner - like indicators but fully on and not flashing. That seems a particularly stupidly confusing design. Unless it had a fault, I suppose.

I've also seen a few cars (or might just be the same one every time) with an irritating bright light in the middle, below the number plate, made up of 8 or 10 red LEDs - that just seems to randomly flash now and then. No idea what that's supposed to be for.

Shade17 · 22/01/2026 12:48

Penelopeeee · 22/01/2026 09:58

I find the same, it really irritates me when it’s foggy, low-light, or just starting to get dark early and cars don’t have their lights on, it seems so much less safe.

And cars that use side lights instead of headlights so only front lights are on but not rears - what’s the point in this?

They’re daytime running lights not side lights. Side lights illuminate the tail lights as well.

TheAdversary · 22/01/2026 12:43

It depends how dark it is of course, doh!

At dusk (just after sunset so around the time you are talking about) many cars sensibly only have the dim low front lights on (some people call them side or parking lights) . This is correct behaviour, especially given how glaringly bright a lot of modern LED lights are. Blinding people with full headlights when they are not necessary is dangerous.

Some people drive around with full headlights on all day and are muppets - if they think I should have full headlights on when it is not dark then they are not fit to be driving as it seems they can’t see my shiny silver car when there is plenty of light.

Of course if it truly is dark, (after about 6.30pm at the moment where I am) then people should go from dim dusk lights to full headlights.

HauntedBungalow · 22/01/2026 12:21

Most cars have their lights on all the time it seems to me, because their sensors think a slightly overcast day is the same as night time.

RampantIvy · 22/01/2026 12:12

We can't afford expensive cars so maybe some brands include automatic lights as standard? I have been driving Hondas for the last 11 years.

RedRiverShore6 · 22/01/2026 11:54

My 10 year old Fiesta doesn't have automatic lights but a more upmarket bigger car probably would.

Elbowpatch · 22/01/2026 11:41

OonaStubbs · 22/01/2026 11:34

Surely speed cameras could also catch drivers driving with no lights on?

Only if they were speeding as well.

Elbowpatch · 22/01/2026 11:40

jamandcustard · 22/01/2026 11:21

My car is 10 years old and doesn’t have automatic lights 🤷‍♀️

Mine is nearly 17 years old and does.

OonaStubbs · 22/01/2026 11:34

Surely speed cameras could also catch drivers driving with no lights on?

jamandcustard · 22/01/2026 11:21

RampantIvy · 22/01/2026 10:32

Where are these areas where people drive in the dark without lights?
Are they all driving very old cars?

Are they all living in cities with lots of street lights?

I very rarely see a car at night being driven without lights on.

My car is 10 years old and doesn’t have automatic lights 🤷‍♀️

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 11:19

RampantIvy · 22/01/2026 10:32

Where are these areas where people drive in the dark without lights?
Are they all driving very old cars?

Are they all living in cities with lots of street lights?

I very rarely see a car at night being driven without lights on.

On the other thread, people were saying about not thinking to check and turn the automatic lights back on after collecting the car from the garage, where they'd turned them off.

I'm also thinking that, whilst very clever, automatic lights aren't completely infallible. Aeroplanes largely control themselves now, but nobody would dream of sending one up without two highly-trained human pilots as well.

As per street lights, somebody on the other thread claimed thaf you didn't legally need to ever use headlights on a road with streetlights!! Streetlights are ideal for pedestrians walking from one to the next, but they're no replacement for headlights for motorists. They sometimes instal them on busy sections of motorway as an extra help; but you need your own headlights at all times in any kind of poor visibility.

Womaninhouse17 · 22/01/2026 10:58

RampantIvy · 22/01/2026 10:32

Where are these areas where people drive in the dark without lights?
Are they all driving very old cars?

Are they all living in cities with lots of street lights?

I very rarely see a car at night being driven without lights on.

What do you class as 'very old'? My car is 8 years old (I don't consider that very old) and doesn't have automatic lights.