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Are “home lunches” still a thing at your children’s school?

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Gladla · 21/01/2026 14:53

When my DDs (now late 20s/early 30s) were in primary school they used to have 3 options for lunch, school lunch, packed lunch and home lunch. For home lunch the parent would collect them at the start of lunch take them home, feed them and bring them back at the end of lunch. By the time they were primary 6/7 lots of the kids would use the home lunch option to go to the cafe in the village on Fridays.
We didn’t use them often but my parents would take my girls for a home lunch about once a week. They were also a very popular option on the day of the Christmas party where lots of the kids would go home to get changed or in primary 5 when they went swimming most of the girls would go home at lunch to dry their hair.
I was chatting to my DD today who has a 5 year old and I asked if her school had home lunches as I thought it would be nice for me to take my DGD out. She said nope that’s not an option!
I was a little shocked. I understand that there are significantly less parents who are around in the middle of the day and safeguarding has gone up, but it seems fairly innocent if someone if collecting the child from and returning them to the office.

AIBU to be sad this option doesn’t seem to exist?
Did anyone else’s schools have home lunches or still have them?

OP posts:
Nabannas · 21/01/2026 15:01

That’s lovely. It wasn’t an option with mine. I don’t think I’d ever have managed to get my ds back to school after lunch though.

yeesh · 21/01/2026 15:00

We didn’t have this when I was in school in the 80’s or my son in the 2000’s. I think my parents had it in the 50’s though.

Lmnop22 · 21/01/2026 14:58

It would be very difficult to get this sorted with how stringent handovers have to be and for a school to dedicate staff to handing children over and accepting them back to school for the sake of 30-45 minutes.

It’s disappointing perhaps but understandable now that schools are much more conscientious around safeguarding that it doesn’t happen

ThatsWhatIGoToSchool · 21/01/2026 14:57

Aww I forgot this was even a thing! Education is a treadmill and once you're on it you can't get off, so I doubt this exists anywhere any more 😢

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