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to wish this was a woman only forum?

187 replies

raspberrychoc · 20/01/2026 13:50

I know anyone can join and that's fair enough, I'm not actually trying to impose my wish on anyone or the site but it still always annoys me when I am reading thought a thread where a woman is posting for advice from other women and a man pops up saying "speaking as a man" or "from a blokes perspective" I always want to say I'm not interested in what you think right now, there is a whole world of "men's opinions" shoved down our throats from the time we are little girls and all though our lives on every aspect of our bodies, what we do and think. I'd love just one space like this with lots of women without it having men interject and that is before we even get to the men who pitch up looking for permission to have affairs or get their jollies from dubious posts.

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Robertplantgoddess · 20/01/2026 14:13

Just came on to say the same- if it says - speaking like a man- then you know what you're getting. Ignore or whatever but lately some threads let alone answers seem dubious at best.
I think it's ok to have men on here - i can see the argument both ways but my inner belief is no good ever comes from barring people- they will just find another way.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 20/01/2026 14:13

Morepositivemum · 20/01/2026 14:12

They don’t pop up that often do they? And it’s interesting hearing their perspective sometimes! I’ve actually come across very few mean men on here, more mean women!!!

When they’re not being mean, they’re often trolling for sex!

Morepositivemum · 20/01/2026 14:12

They don’t pop up that often do they? And it’s interesting hearing their perspective sometimes! I’ve actually come across very few mean men on here, more mean women!!!

Peoplemakemedespair · 20/01/2026 14:12

It’s a bit of a hobby on here for me to click on the previous posts of any man commenting on any subject relating to sex. I’m looking to see how many of their posts are sex related. Some times it’s literally all of them. I’ve never spotted a woman on here where every one of her posts are about sex stuff

Overtheatlantic · 20/01/2026 14:12

With the exception of PigletJohn, I agree.

Upstartled · 20/01/2026 14:12

I'd just be happy to jettison ai content and trolls at this point.

BettyRizzoSlaps · 20/01/2026 14:12

Couldn't agree more. I know it's 'parents' and all that, but they've got literally everywhere else to spread out, and they do. I hate them being here.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 20/01/2026 14:11

hmm
i have thought this

there have been a few men who have been pretty normal here though

but I mostly agree - largely a terrible gender that lot

the worst ones though, by a mile, are those who try to get women to pile onto their wives for not being good enough!!!! That enrages me

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ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/01/2026 14:10

Completely agree, I wish they'd all bugger off. Let women have ONE online space.

raspberrychoc · 20/01/2026 14:10

@Placetobreathe Yes absolutely, its difficult to know for sure but so often I've thought that can't possibly be an actual woman posting that.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 20/01/2026 14:09

I have no issue with men using this site at all. As long as they aren't misogynistic twats, they're more than welcome.

Placetobreathe · 20/01/2026 14:08

It's not the men who actually say they are a man that annoy me.

It's the men who post extremely unsympathetic and misogynistic advice on threads without revealing they are men that i think are quite frankly dangerous.

They undermine the OP and give unwoman friendly advice while in effect masquerading as a woman.