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Or is 30 minutes too short for school lunch?

139 replies

flossydog · 20/01/2026 12:14

I live next to a school, and it has a 30 minute lunch break. I went to three secondary schools growing up, and checking their timetables, they now have a 35, 40, and 45 minute lunch break respectively. I suspect some of them have shortened the break in the 20 odd years since I left.

AIBU or is 30 minutes too short to eat your lunch, go to the loo, and socialise?

(I often take an hour out for lunch at work as an adult, but it's not as if I'm on the clock.)

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Octavia64 · 20/01/2026 13:47

My school (as many schools) cut down lunch break during Covid.

at the time students weren’t supposed to have physical contact with each other at lunch or at break at it was a bloody nightmare trying to make the boys in particular stick to it.

we set up separate outdoor areas and indoor areas for each year group to keep them apart but it was still hard.

post covid we extended the lunch break again but there were so, so many behaviour issues. Fighting, vaping, etc etc. so it got shortened again.

supervision at lunch time is a big issue in most secondaries. You can’t get people to come in and do it, most primaries tack it onto a morning or an afternoon TA role.

Sparrowandblackbird · 20/01/2026 13:46

Yep, our school is now on a thirteen minute break and a thirty five minute lunch. It’s awful.

It is very businesslike in many academy trusts.

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 20/01/2026 13:46

My DCs school had a 30 min lunch break staggered as the school canteen was too small otherwise. Supposedly it reduces bullying. There wasn't time to queue up for a school dinner unless you were first in the queue.

DS1 changed schools in year 10. His new school had an hour for lunch and less bullying than the first one. Much better.

Orchidgrower · 20/01/2026 13:43

Its 30 minutes at the school my DC attend. My DC complain they have to choose between eating and going to the toilet, the queues for the toilets and the canteen are both really long and eating is not permitted in the toilet queue. There are 270 pupils in one year and 3 years are on lunch at a time. There are 6 cubicles in the girls toilets (there are other toilet blocks in the school but they are kept locked out of use due to behavior issues). I was there for a parents evening last week and the sanitary bins were full to overflowing as clearly the demand exceeds the provision. If they are in either queue still when their break is up they are sent back to class. It feels so awful to me to be sending them to this every day.

cobrakaieaglefang · 20/01/2026 13:34

Back in the 80s our school had 1hr 20 mins lunch, a lot of local pupils went home for lunch. I did. There were clubs during lunchtime. The catchment covered villages up to 15 miles away so after school clubs were limited. School started at 8.50 and finished at 4pm.
Locally the schools seem to start a bit earlier and be done by 2.30. Even primary has longer day than secondary.

Numbers and supervision seem a bit weak as a reason, we were the 60s baby bulge. My old school now has about 500 pupils, that was not far away from one year group in the 80s.
If behaviour is so poor now compared to then discipline is clearly a major problem. It not like each generation doesn't have its proportion of feral kids.

ItsameLuigi · 20/01/2026 13:23

My.secondary school would stagger lunch breaks. Year 7, 9 and 11 had break at the same time (but year 7 had a separate canteen). Then after 30 mins had form tutor time. And year 8s and 10s would have form tutor time then have lunch. Year 7s and 8s had their own canteen, 9, 10 and 11 shared one but because it was staggered it didn't take long to be served. Terrible school but I actually think they did a great job with lunches.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 20/01/2026 12:58

TamarindCottage · 20/01/2026 12:58

Nope. Merely responding to your childish comment

Over reacting more like

TamarindCottage · 20/01/2026 12:58

Dablab · 20/01/2026 12:52

Oooh touched a nerve there 😂

Nope. Merely responding to your childish comment

TheNightingalesStarling · 20/01/2026 12:55

DDs have 35mins. Its fine.

Only 2 year groups (total 400) in the lunch space. (2 sittings,but Yr11 have their own common room) with 3 food outlets. Plenty of toilets.

It means school finished at 3pm... then there's the Extra curricular available until 5pm. Also the library and computer rooms open until this time. Result... everyone can access these and still get home at a decent hour.

I compare my DDs School life balance to mine, and its fantastic.

flossydog · 20/01/2026 12:55

Notsurehowtofeel2025 · 20/01/2026 12:48

Apparently schools have shortened lunch breaks to cut down on bullying and behaviour issues. They don't want kids socialising.

This seems to be the consensus here. I think that's very likely the reason. I live next to a mediocre urban school with a short break, and the relatively affluent school in the countryside I went to when I was a teenage gives fifteen minutes longer at lunchtime. And that difference is the extent to which they trust the children to not cause problems.

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Dablab · 20/01/2026 12:52

TamarindCottage · 20/01/2026 12:37

@Dablabyour school certainly didn’t teach you any manners, did it? FYI, we had two school buildings with identical kitchens/dining rooms so no one had to rush lunch. The teaching was and still is excellent, as was lunch time supervision. Leaving the school grounds was permitted. HTH

Oooh touched a nerve there 😂

Lucia573 · 20/01/2026 12:52

It’s too short, but lots of state schools do it as it removes the problem of supervising students during unstructured time. Independent schools tend still to have 1 or 1.5 hours for lunch to allow for extracurricular stuff. Plus, they can afford more supervision. State schools finish earlier as a consequence, but supervision isn’t the schools’ problem then.

StrippeyFrog · 20/01/2026 12:51

It was a 30 minute lunch break when I was at secondary school and it meant that a lot of kids didn’t have time to buy lunch - especially if the teacher kept the class back for a few minutes as the queue would already be too long to get through. I think it’s fine if it’s planned well with split groups though. DCs primary has 1 hour for the youngest and then 30mins from year 2, and I do think that isn’t long enough for that age.

flossydog · 20/01/2026 12:50

Ifailed · 20/01/2026 12:45

It all went downhill when many schools stopped calling it school dinners.

I was on free school dinners the whole time and I remember the semolina pudding! And I don't think I've had tapioca since leaving school. But I definitely think there's been a sea change from viewing the time as an important part of the schoolday to seeing it as an unfortunate necessity.

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Notsurehowtofeel2025 · 20/01/2026 12:48

Apparently schools have shortened lunch breaks to cut down on bullying and behaviour issues. They don't want kids socialising.

Ifailed · 20/01/2026 12:45

It all went downhill when many schools stopped calling it school dinners.

ainttalkinboutdub · 20/01/2026 12:43

My teens complain about not having time to queue and eat at lunchtime. Longer would be better.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 20/01/2026 12:41

My secondary school had 30 minute lunches, with three sittings. For those on school dinners, this sometimes meant spending the bulk of your lunchtime queuing up for food, and having to bolt it down in the last five minutes. However, even 30 minutes was excruciating for socially anxious me, who may as well have had a target above my head saying, "Pick on me!" I hated school!

It was a novelty to go to sixth form, where lunches were a whole hour.

flossydog · 20/01/2026 12:39

Smorgs · 20/01/2026 12:36

Hello France calling.... Two hour lunch break is standard, and sacrosanct here.

I should move to the continent!

What's the French answer to the concern expressed in the other comments that the children are bored or cause trouble with so long a break?

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TamarindCottage · 20/01/2026 12:37

Dablab · 20/01/2026 12:24

Crikey that's ages. Not so hot on actually teaching and supervising the kids during the day then 😂

@Dablabyour school certainly didn’t teach you any manners, did it? FYI, we had two school buildings with identical kitchens/dining rooms so no one had to rush lunch. The teaching was and still is excellent, as was lunch time supervision. Leaving the school grounds was permitted. HTH

Smorgs · 20/01/2026 12:36

Hello France calling.... Two hour lunch break is standard, and sacrosanct here.

ObladiObladah · 20/01/2026 12:35

My dd chose the only secondary school in our area that has a one hour break which is from 1.30 to 2.30 pm (then they have a one hour lesson after lunch and go home). It was a big selling point as I totally agree 30 mins is not enough.

At DD’s school lots of clubs run in lunch break and it means kids actually attend - if the clubs ran after school they probably would just peel off and go home. Detentions for minor rule infractions are also done in lunchtime.

But a lot of kids just enjoy having time to unwind with friends.

And it means that since clubs and detentions are usually at lunch, kids aren’t missing buses and trains and also they are walking home in a pack rather than dribbling out at 4.30pm which I dislike for security

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 20/01/2026 12:35

I saw the lunch time eroded from 1 hour 10 minutes to 30 over the 28 years l taught in the same secondary.

It’s to do with behaviour and not being able to get lunch time assistants. It’s way too short, my Audhd ddcouldn’t cope with 30 minutes.

Also, kids don’t chat all day. Not in my lessons they didn’t anyway.

Maybeitllneverhappen · 20/01/2026 12:34

It's partly due to supervision, but largely down to behaviour control. Too long and they get into trouble; also gives them more time to go off-site and get into trouble in the local community. Extreme example but 2 of our pupils once went and held up the local petrol station! 😶

Justploddingonandon · 20/01/2026 12:32

Would have been an issue at my school as most extra-curricular clubs ran at lunchtime due to the majority of children having to get the school bus home. DS's school has 45 minutes but allows them to bring a packed lunch to clubs. One school we looked at for DD had 30 minutes (not necessarily a problem) but was staggered for each year group so the year 7's were at 11.30 which seems too early. Even worse was year 11 at 1.30 as school finished at 3, that must make for a very long morning!