To lock the bathroom door?

This is awful
Of course you should have privacy
I don't even let the dog in while I am in the bathroom let alone any humans

I'm seconding triple locking as well - how weird and controlling of him .

Well, you live and learn. 😕

God you’re annoying.

Most people like cuddling their partners. I do. But I don’t call it snuggle time on account of not being 12.

And where did I say I was ashamed. I’m not. Nor does “my man” (almost as bad as “snuggle time”) shame me or make me feel disgusting. I’m not. You’ve made all of that up in your head.

I just prefer peace and privacy for my ablutions.

US.

A half-bath is a downstairs loo I think ( I refuse to say powder room)

It's a major place for falls ... might not be a great idea as you get older. My hubby wouldn't come in bathroom if I'm in there, I find that strange coming from a large family.

And how does anyone have 2.5 baths? What is half a bathroom?
I agree with you about the rest, it's like a teen wrote it.

Why is it jealousy?

I'm glad you're happy. I can't bear twee

And your life wouldn't suit me

have you actually expressed it to him in those terms?

This has given me the ick. My gut says he is being controlling and you need to stand your ground and tell him what you’ve written; it’s 10 minutes of “me” time and you will have tp work around it - my needs are as important as yours.

Hopefully it’s just him being a brat and nothing more sinister.

Dear Lord.

I get you! Most of the time I shower with the door unlocked as I’m not bothered but sometimes I just want 10 mins alone undisturbed! He should respect this! End of!

You have multiple bathrooms so he's violating your boundaries as a control issue. He thinks you have no right to privacy and he can barge you when you're naked in the shower.

The toothbrushing or whatever is an excuse. He purposefully tries to violate your boundary and then frames you locking the door as wrong, when he knows it's not ok to barge in on other people using a bathroom.

I think it's disturbing that he argued it's ok for him to barge in on naked women in the bathroom when you've asked him not to do that especially when you have teen girls in the home.

You're going to have to have a sit down and discuss how inappropriate he's being and this needs to stop completely. He's massively controlling and unreasonable as well.

If you have kids then the second you close that bathroom door they all seem to need something and want to come in to show you a Lego brick they found. Lock the door!

Why? Don't you rinse after you spit?

We don't lock the door, but we respect a closed door - the lack of door locking is purely in case one of us slipped and hit our heads or something, and the other needed to get in to help. We don't barge in on each other through a closed door though. Your partner needs to respect your privacy.

Spitting in the kitchen sink is grim.

Not selfish at all, you could've taken turns to get up earlier.

No-one should ever tell any one they don't have the right to privacy in the bathroom.

We never lock the bathroom door but it’s kind of accepted that if it’s actually closed we wouldn’t just walk in without checking. I honestly couldn’t tell you when that last happened though, I think it’s kind of a given that if you’re in the bathroom you’d like a bit of personal space!

Which weird question? Did you read the comment chain?

You absolutely have the right to privacy and anyone has says you don't is nuts.

We actually didn't have a lock on our ensuite door for 12 years however if the door was shut you knocked. I was happy for dh to wander in and clean his teeth if I was in the shower but absolutely not just walking in with out checking if I was on the loo.

Your dh is totally unreasonable.

We have no locks on our bathroom door- taken off when my neuro diverse kids were small in case of emergency. If the door is shut we knock to see if it’s occupied. If there’s just 2 adults in the house I really don’t see why he has an issue with you locking the bathroom door-unless you’re taking 4 hour baths or monopolising the bathroom all day for privacy for your Coke habit 😆 he’s being unreasonable & controlling.

You’re right and he should respect your privacy. Lock the door 🚪 and if he needs it earlier, then he needs to get up earlier! What woman doesn’t want privacy in the bathroom and also 5 minutes to breathe, away from anyone else!! Totally wrong and bad etiquette on his part xx

Every door in my house is lockable. I don't live with predators either.

It might not bother you, but it's okay that other people are bothered by it.

I lock the door and so do my husband and children. We also have a knock first rule before just barging through a door.

It’s a personal preference and no one has to agree with how you feel safe. Tell him to plan his morning better and you don’t want him in the bathroom with you.