Will I be able expected to DTD?

Why don't you get your own room then it's easier to decide?

Going away for the night after 4 dates? Not me!! No way. I think that's a bit mad.... too soon.

Are you feeling shy, or is your instinct telling you something?

While I'd say even if you do go, he shouldn't expect it, and you shouldn't feel obliged to, I think you're better off holding on for a while until you're more sure it's just nerves.

To be honest, he’s wanting intimacy even if not dtd. If you aren’t ready just tell him you don’t want to go away yet. I was jumping at the bit by date 3 myself

He might want to have sex. If you don't want to, then don't

However I'd make that clear to him before he pays for the break, or pay for yourself

I think, for me, I'd be wary of letting a man pay for all dates/taxis. I wouldn't like that

If you are not ready I would not go away with him yet. Even if you leave it a month or so and see how you feel then. I would not bother going if it was separate rooms. Yes I would imagine sex is on his agenda.

If you don’t want to be intimate yet that’s ok. But I would imagine if you really fancied him, after 4 dates you’d probably be looking forward to having sex with him. Perhaps he isn’t the right guy? Just because he’s doing and saying the right things doesn’t mean there’s a connection that you’re looking for.

I agree .. go away and ask for separate rooms so you can enjoy each others company .. see how you feel
You shouldn’t be expected to do anything you don’t want to do .. but if you feel comfortable and want to .. bloody go for it
And if you don’t , his reaction will tell you a lot , do what’s right for you .

He might be hoping for it. You could say that you’re not up for it yet if you think that will take the pressure off. You can always change your mind.

I would expect to tbh and if you’ve been kissing do you feel like you’d like to? You’re both adults so if you want to then go for it and enjoy… if you’re nervous then speak to him about it and see how he reacts? Maybe a night of relaxing and having a nice dinner and drink and then bed will be lovely- sounds it. Don’t overthink it.

Why not suggest separate rooms? … also make sure you tell people where you’re going and check in with friends (sorry seen a rather 😵 horror today so reminder to be safe!

You don’t have to go if you’re not comfortable, it seems a bit soon, maybe suggest something else?

If you’re not comfortable going away for a night then say so! Don’t be pressured into anything. It seems very early to be going away together to me.

Do you WANT to fuck him? And just nervous or are you getting a feeling that youre not ready yet