Will I be able expected to DTD?

A night away definitely puts on to much expectation and pressure. You'll be vulnerable aay from home.

Just let it take its natural course.

I would suggest that you find a reason not to go away with this man for the time being. He sounds lovely and it may be that you have a wonderful future together, but you don't sound 100% sure yet.

It is always entirely up to you when you are ready to move to the next level, but if you have had four romantic dates and then you agree to go to a hotel for your next date, then the message you are sending could suggest that you are open to a sexual relationship. Which is fine, wonderful even, if you are. But if you know that you're not then maybe better to stay on familiar ground for a few more dates at least.

And delaying sex by a few weeks will not harm your relationship if he is a man that is worth your time, but rushing into sex that you are not ready for could do harm. Is it worth the risk?

I’m ready to have sex with someone loooong before I’d be contemplating sleeping in the same bed as them.

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Going away for a night after 4 dates seems quick to me.

Why go away? Is it a specific event or outing that you are both interested in?

Why can’t he just ‘ask you in for coffee’?

Are you sure he isn’t married?

Sorry to be suspicious.

If you want to DTD, go for it.. if you aren’t sure, book something further down the line and don’t go yet.
i hope it goes however you want it to @Paladinski ! Totally understand being shy.. I’m so so shy when it comes to intimacy so I have no advice on that but if it was me and I was happy to go, I’d probably have a few drinks to get over the ridiculous shyness 😂

I think this is a very personal decision between the people concerned. It wouldn't be for me after 4 dates although that's purely because I'd have to be 100% certain there was more to it than a sexual conquest. If I was absolutely convinced he was relationship material & he made it clear then I'd consider it. I'm not sure that's possible after 4 dates though. Ultimately it's your decision. Whatever you decide I hope it works out for you.

Obviously it's totally up to you, but I'd suggest it's a bit too much too soon. Tell him that, and if he respects that, then you can take it from there.
NOBODY should expect sex as some kind of payback for taxis (you imply you think this isn't the case, but it still might be).
The whole 'paying for your taxis home' thing is also a bit odd, imho. Depends on what sorts of people you are, I guess 😀

You do not have to do ANYTHING you don't want to do. Or before you are ready to do it. You are your own woman!

You’ve only met him 4 times, it’s fine not to want to have sex this early on.

Yes, 1 million % stop letting him pay for things you should be paying for, especially your taxis!

You need a more even footing than that.

When some blokes pay for everything they often expect sex at some point in return.

Simple solution would be to book 2 rooms with a connecting door. You can by a door wedge for less then a fiver, if you're not feeling it just put it under from your side and say you're dairy intolerant

Get your hormone levels checked?

Maybe you just don't fancy him much

Perhaps postpone going away if your not ready.

If he is paying for everything then I'd stop letting him

A disagree, and invite to hers for dinner definitely implies sex is on the cards

Biologically some women do lose interest in sex when they stop ovulating, but itndoesnt mean you can't reignite in some way and enjoy with the right partner, but part of that will involve being open with him about it and working out what works for you both.

I think asking for seperate rooms wouldn't go well - far better not to go and explain that it's too soon for you. He's definitely wanting sex.
If he reacts badly to this, then that's a red flag for me.

If you haven’t slept together yet then I’d reply

‘I’d love to go away together. Please can you book two room 😊’. If he is genuine he should respect that you want your space, and you MIGHT want to dtd but it’s still nicer to have your own space. If he is in any way reluctant then say you’d only book a trip sharing a room with someone you were already in a relationship with

I’d be suggesting maybe him coming to your place for a meal? That way there’s no pressure, and if you want to have sex on the night, you can do without setting expectations, and if you don’t feel ready, he can just go back home after the meal. I think if you go away somewhere, and he’s paying, it kind of puts pressure on for things to happen, mainly because you’re both there overnight. And although he’s coming across as a gentleman, still be cautious. It’s very early days, and people can sell themselves as this perfect person after only four weeks.

Expecting something doesn't mean getting something. It's best to talk about this prior to getting there if you are worried.

Must admit I’m similar age to the OP and I wouldn’t be letting a man pay for everything.

I think he’s obviously expecting sex when you go away for the weekend. You’re under no obligation to have sex with him before you’re ready but if you’re not then I think letting him pay for a weekend away is sending out the wrong signals.

If you’re not sure, offer to pay for your own room then you have the option to sleep separately or together depending on how you feel at the time.

You sound like you are not ready so don't feel obliged. Why does he pay for the taxi every time. After four dates, that's a bit much OP.

If you want to go away I second the suggestion of separate rooms. Be honest with him, tell him you're not there yet and you'd like to get to know him better. But pay your way from now on.

'It all seems too good to be true'. Then it is. Be careful. I wouldn't be going away with someone so soon.