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DH invited PILs on our annual holiday

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Whatinthedoopla · 18/01/2026 23:08

DH invited his parents on our annual leave destination. This is a holiday we take as a mini family, no one else is ever invited, and he went on to invite them without consulting me.

I really don't mind going with them, as long as I get another time in the year to still go on a mini family holiday.

The issue is, money I tight, so we won't get this opportunity until the year after.

Should I just keep quiet and let them come with us? Or do we book and pretend they weren't ever invited?

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minipie · 18/01/2026 23:16

Have they said yes? If so I don’t think you can pretend they were never invited! Your DH will have to man up and uninvite them somehow. He shouldn’t have invited them without asking you.

What’s a mini family holiday by the way?

Tink3rbell30 · 18/01/2026 23:16

What do you mean by book and pretend they weren't invited? He's already invited them hasn't he?

Shinyandnew1 · 18/01/2026 23:14

no one else is ever invited

So, why did he invite them?!

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