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Has lack of Premier Inn breakfast ruined the weekend?

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Liesmorelies · 18/01/2026 16:33

I mean, it hasn't, not for me, but DH seems to feel otherwise and I don't know if I've been UR. We (us and two dc) were in London overnight to see a show. We would normally maximise our time in the city and leave maybe this sort of time on Sunday, but we've all been ill and still feel a bit tired and rundown and so agreed we'd leave after breakfast and maybe a walk/quick trip to a park or the river.

When I woke I realised our PI was about a 20 minute walk from Shoreditch market where I was sure there are loads of cafes and stalls. Although we normally have the PI breakfast I thought this would be a nice change and mean we would be doing what we had planned (quick trip to somewhere nice and a walk) and could then leave. Also looked up a particular cafe that looked nice. Everyone agreed - all fine.

When we arrived at the cafe there was a queue. DH immediately said in a moody way, 'That's that then,' and started huffing. I said let's walk up (we were at the end of the road) it might not be that bad, but he had walked off. We ended up wandering around the area with him getting increasingly grumpy. Sods law, we weren't really going past any suitable looking cafes, although I'm sure the area is full of them. We did see a Pret but I didn't want that.

We eventually saw a nice independent cafe where we were able to have porridge,pastries, toast and spreads, fresh juice and lovely coffee. We all ate but DH wouldn't stop going on about the bloody PI. Yes, I get that he would eat his body weight there and we ended up with a relatively small breakfast that probably cost more (though our kids are 16 and 18, so no more free PI breakfasts!) but what we had was lovely, the place was lovely, and a bit different, and, ffs, PI will still be there next time. I offered to look for another place or even a Greggs for him to 'top up,' but he went in full strop mode. DS1 loves a PI breakfast too and he didn't moan, and dd was wanting pancakes in the place with a queue but she didn't moan that she didn't end up getting them, it's just him acting like a child. He also moaned about the cost, saying PI breakfast would have done for lunch as well, but we were home in time for a late lunch and no one wanted food on the journey so it's like he's just looking for stuff to moan about.

We're home now but he has said he's sick of me making all the decisions, I'm fussy and nothing is good enough and I'm just hard work. He's gone for a run but it was an atmosphere all the way home. Did I do wrong - I get I could have looked at booking but to me it worked out fine in the end.

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Newsenmum · 19/01/2026 19:09

The PI breakfast is pretty rank these days.

Daftypants · 19/01/2026 19:00

I get where you’re coming from OP .
PI breakfast would be all you can eat so you’d be full but I’d rather find a good cafe .
You needed to find somewhere open , no big queue , seats available and ideally an independent cafe .
While Pret is fine , it’s a chain and is everywhere.
He's being childish by continuing to complain after you’d all been fed .
If I was hungry and tired I might possibly be a bit whiny till I’d been fed but afterwards I’d be good

StMarie4me · 19/01/2026 18:49

BillieWiper · 18/01/2026 16:38

I'm pretty sure the PI breakfast would be middling at best, possibly fairly grim. I've not heard of Shoreditch market but I know they're are certainly loads of cafes in that area. He's being a miserable sod!

PI breakfasts are great! Are you being a snob?

liveforsummer · 19/01/2026 18:49

It’s frustrating having to walk about places and not finding what you want when you’re hungry. Premier inn breakfasts are fine. It’s hard to make a fry up badly and lots of other options. I’d have been miffed too, yes!

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 19/01/2026 18:45

Hi OP

I replied uo thread to say I didn't think you'd done anything wrong.

Are you going to have a sit down talk wirh him about his general attitude (not contributing to the organising but criticising minor shit) and sulking?

Bruisername · 19/01/2026 18:42

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 19/01/2026 18:41

Well neither of us would consider paying for breakfast elsewhere when we already had it included in our hotel price but if he didn't like your idea he should have said so to start with.

OP clarified that they hadn’t paid for the PI breakfast

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 19/01/2026 18:41

Well neither of us would consider paying for breakfast elsewhere when we already had it included in our hotel price but if he didn't like your idea he should have said so to start with.

Bruisername · 19/01/2026 18:41

There is no comparison between PI pastries and those freshly baked at an artisanal bakers and you don’t get a decent cup of coffee at PI. You were near Spitalfields and it didn’t prove difficult to find somewhere - 15 mins is hardly any time at all

i don’t mind a PI breakfast but if I’m somewhere interesting I would much rather go and have a ‘treat’ breakfast

if he was that hangry he should have said before you left as there was always a risk the place you chose wouldn’t have space

thesugarbumfairy · 19/01/2026 18:39

He's been a childish dick OP. I know where you're coming from.
I no longer book PI breakfasts because the kids have aged out and it doesn't seem worth it.
DS2 isn't that interested in any breakfast unless its a) McDonalds pancakes or b) a hefty pistachio croissant and DS1 doesn't really like buffet contamination (he has issues with a lot of things of which this is one) and I wouldn't take H anywhere anyway as we're separated now, but even if I did, he doesn't really eat. So I can picture your scenario.
I do get why your DH got hangry, but Christ alive, he agreed to the plan, got decent food and I can't stand a sulker. He's not 5.

SamVan · 19/01/2026 18:33

I don't think what he's done is reasonable and there's 0 chance I would marry someone like that as I like more adventure and can't deal with sulking but you have to work with what you have chosen or leave him. Surely you know him well enough by now to know that he's a sulker who doesn't like to try anything new/not have a plan? My FIL gets very stressed when there is no plan or things are inconvenient, so there's no way if we were having breakfast with him I would say - let's just go try to find a place. I would always book or do the easy thing like eat in the hotel. So i think you have to take some responsibility too - you married someone who is pretty boring and isn't good at free and easy and you have to adjust or put up with sulking. It's very unlikely he will change at this point.

luckymumandnowluckygranny · 19/01/2026 18:31

Premier Inn breakfasts vary a lot - we have had "ok" ones (no better than that) before, but the last time we stayed the breakfast was so revolting. - cold, dried, unappetising, that despite having paid for it we left & went to the Costa next door for bacon rolls. Won't book breakfast in a PI again

Americano75 · 19/01/2026 18:28

BitOutOfPractice · 19/01/2026 18:20

While everyone discusses the merit or otherwise of a premier inn breakfast, the real issue is your DH’s childish stroppy behaviour which is what actually ruined the day, not the breakfast.

Exactly.

Why are some missing the point entirely?

Trishyb10 · 19/01/2026 18:21

We just had 4 nites premier inn, aldgate, london, perfect lovely breakfast… can i just say, have you got nowt better to do than complain about a bitmof breakfast when theres so much going on in the world….. really……

BitOutOfPractice · 19/01/2026 18:20

While everyone discusses the merit or otherwise of a premier inn breakfast, the real issue is your DH’s childish stroppy behaviour which is what actually ruined the day, not the breakfast.

caringcarer · 19/01/2026 18:17

I love a PI breakfast. If you ask for scrambled eggs they cook it to order. Plus I'm allergic to mushrooms so they plate up my breakfast in the kitchen. This is necessary because idiots use to GS for mushroom then put the same to GS back on bacon.

Sharptonguedwoman · 19/01/2026 18:16

Pineapplewaves · 18/01/2026 20:27

I’m on team DH here - you turned down an all you can eat and drink PI breakfast for an independent cafe. I’d be more than sulking so would DC, the breakfast is the best part of the stay. He’s well within his rights to be sulking.

You'd seriously sulk (are you an adult?) about breakfast?

OooPourUsACupLove · 19/01/2026 18:11

CompetitionMyArse · 19/01/2026 17:30

The scrambled eggs are usually the only ones that are put out buffet style. I think the fried and poached are always cooked to order, although that might vary from branch to branch. I mean a fried breakfast is greasy. That's sort of the point. 😆If you don't like it have something else. Plenty of other options.

But maybe you were just unlucky in the PI you were at. I've had three dreadful evening meals at different PIs where I've had decent breakfasts and I won't try it a fourth time.

Edited

And the sausages :( sad little homogenous tubey things. And the hash browns that have either gone soft or are hard all the way through.

The bacon and the mushrooms usually survive ok though. (I like my bacon crunchy)

ScreentimeInTheMeantime · 19/01/2026 18:04

I love a hotel breakfast so I don’t think DH is being unreasonable in regretting not having it, or even getting a bit hangry when you were searching for somewhere to eat.

BUT he is being unreasonable for going on about it: it often happens on trips that something doesn’t quite pan out the way you want it to, but best to just get on with the day and don’t let it infect others’ enjoyment!

CompetitionMyArse · 19/01/2026 17:30

StarlightLady · 19/01/2026 17:12

To sum up. Very greasy, poor service and told although l could have fried eggs, scrambled eggs were not available because the scrambled delivery hadn’t arrived.

The scrambled eggs are usually the only ones that are put out buffet style. I think the fried and poached are always cooked to order, although that might vary from branch to branch. I mean a fried breakfast is greasy. That's sort of the point. 😆If you don't like it have something else. Plenty of other options.

But maybe you were just unlucky in the PI you were at. I've had three dreadful evening meals at different PIs where I've had decent breakfasts and I won't try it a fourth time.

StarlightLady · 19/01/2026 17:12

CompetitionMyArse · 19/01/2026 15:05

What specifically about a PI breakfast do you find vomit worthy? Have you ever actually had one?

Which bit was offensive? The coffee, tea or fruit juice? The freshly made porridge? Eggs freshly cooked to order? Mushrooms and tomatoes, baked beans? Bacon? Pretty decent quality sausages? A range of cereals and muesli? Toast (white or wholemeal) with real butter? Or Flora, if that's inexplicably your thing? Yogurts? Fresh fruit? Jams, Marmite, Golden Syrup or honey? Pancakes or croissants?

To sum up. Very greasy, poor service and told although l could have fried eggs, scrambled eggs were not available because the scrambled delivery hadn’t arrived.

BethBynnag86 · 19/01/2026 17:07

The Premier Inn I normally stay at when visiting family doesn't do breakfasts;instead you're given a voucher to go and get one at the Table Table restaurant next door (for a supplement of course).Dreadful reviews and I did it just once🤢 The Morrisons next door used to do a very good value breakfast and did a roaring trade from Premier Inn guests. It was rather sad -disastrous in fact- when they closed their cafe. Now I have coffee in my room and go a- wandering to find breakfast for myself.

HeyThereDelila · 19/01/2026 16:53

Your DH sounds moody and immature. Bizarre behaviour!

SpaceRaccoon · 19/01/2026 16:34

CompetitionMyArse · 19/01/2026 16:31

But four of you could a have a full continental breakfast with as much Costa coffee as you like for 8.99 or 10.99 for the full cooked option, and that can cost even less if you get it included in a special offer room deal. You'll probably end up paying 8 quid in most cities for a large coffee and a croissant or pastry alone these days.

If you've got a long journey or you are on a day out with a packed schedule, a big breakfast negates the need for everyone to stop and buy an expensive lunch too. An M&S sandwich will suffice for those who really need to eat three times a day. And under 16s eat free. It's a no brainer for families on a budget with teens with hollow legs.

Horses for courses then I guess. But OPs husband should have used his words about his preferences, and definitely not been a sulky arse about it all.

CompetitionMyArse · 19/01/2026 16:31

SpaceRaccoon · 19/01/2026 16:08

In that location though you're tripping over independent artisan coffee roasters.

But four of you could a have a full continental breakfast with as much Costa coffee as you like for 8.99 or 10.99 for the full cooked option, and that can cost even less if you get it included in a special offer room deal. You'll probably end up paying 8 quid in most cities for a large coffee and a croissant or pastry alone these days.

If you've got a long journey or you are on a day out with a packed schedule, a big breakfast negates the need for everyone to stop and buy an expensive lunch too. An M&S sandwich will suffice for those who really need to eat three times a day. And under 16s eat free. It's a no brainer for families on a budget with teens with hollow legs.

SpaceRaccoon · 19/01/2026 16:08

helpfulperson · 19/01/2026 09:17

The coffee is bog standard costa coffee. Not the most amazing coffee but exacrly the same as on any high street.

In that location though you're tripping over independent artisan coffee roasters.