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AIBU to think IKEA is a top parenting hack?

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Wallasey123 · 18/01/2026 13:26

DS2 is 3 and we went to IKEA yesterday not because we needed anything but just to get out of the house (and tbh I couldn’t face soft play).

He ran around loads, looked at all the rooms, climbed on the sofas and beds and I didn’t need to be on red alert every second like I am at the park.

I don’t know why I’d never considered it as a day out before! I think when it’s too busy it’s prob not great but we went at opening time and it was great. Also obvs helps that there’s something in it for me - I get to mooch, get ideas and pretend I’m being productive.

Ofc ended up buying a few bits and pieces and hotdogs in the end but I feel like I’ve provided an enriching outing, even though I mostly just walked in circles looking at storage 😅

Any other unexpected places that are actually fun for kids AND adults (and don’t cost the earth) that I might not have considered?

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ClaraThePigeon · 18/01/2026 13:35

Thatsalineallright · 18/01/2026 13:33

Have you been to Ikea? They want you to try out all the furniture and it's very family friendly.

Have I been to Ikea? Yes many times. And yes you can sit on/in it that’s what trying it out means, but you shouldn’t be allowing your child to trample all over it especially with shoes on.

WirelessInternet · 18/01/2026 13:34

Thatsalineallright · 18/01/2026 13:33

Have you been to Ikea? They want you to try out all the furniture and it's very family friendly.

They want you try it out, not let your children trash the place.

Says a lot about you, I shouldn’t wonder.

Sparrowandblackbird · 18/01/2026 13:34

It does get suggested on here a lot. Problem is I absolutely loathe ikea. I really hate it.

Trying81 · 18/01/2026 13:34

The Range at Christmas was great for this, my 3 year old enjoyed it more than the expensive Santa visit

Needmorelego · 18/01/2026 13:33

Some IKEA branches have banned groups of teenagers because they were coming in to play "pretend" at living in the flat mock-ups.
A bit mean if you ask me as it's probably the only chance many teens are going to be able to experience living in their own flat.

parietal · 18/01/2026 13:33

we once took the kids to a large camping store in the winter - it was a massive warehouse with all the tents up on display and they had a great time running in and out of the various tents. i was careful to make sure they didn't damage anything and there was almost no one in the shop.

Thatsalineallright · 18/01/2026 13:33

ClaraThePigeon · 18/01/2026 13:31

YABVU for allowing him to climb on the furniture. It always amazes me when I see parents allowing their children to do that and generally run riot in shops. Surely common sense and common decency and consideration for others makes it obvious that you shouldn’t?

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Have you been to Ikea? They want you to try out all the furniture and it's very family friendly.

ClaraThePigeon · 18/01/2026 13:31

YABVU for allowing him to climb on the furniture. It always amazes me when I see parents allowing their children to do that and generally run riot in shops. Surely common sense and common decency and consideration for others makes it obvious that you shouldn’t?

KitKat1985 · 18/01/2026 13:31

When the kids were younger and I was skint we often used to go to 'Pets at Home' and look at all the pets and fish and treated it like a trip to the zoo.

Garden centres are great too. There's one near us with a huge choice of sheds and playhouses which the kids like to look at, as well as all of the plants and outdoor fish.

Great free day trips!

Thatsalineallright · 18/01/2026 13:30

My parents used to take use to Ikea every summer. It was like Disney land for us 😂

BowlyLarr · 18/01/2026 13:29

We used to love an outing to ikea as kids too! 😀

somanychristmaslights · 18/01/2026 13:28

I love our ikea as it has a crèche in it, one hour for free. So I whizz round and get what I need whilst DS is in there

Itstoday · 18/01/2026 13:28

Used to always take my kids to IKEA for the day in the holidays. So much pretend play to do and then meatballs at the end.

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