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HauntedBungalow · 17/01/2026 20:57

I don't think this particular phrase works. The American English version is fine, kind of sassy. But the UK version is clunky and unsavoury.

Please can we stop using it? Thank you.

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Topseyt123 · 17/01/2026 21:03

HauntedBungalow · 17/01/2026 21:01

Then I will shun and avoid you.

I can take that. I'm a grown arsed woman. 🤣

HauntedBungalow · 17/01/2026 21:01

Then I will shun and avoid you.

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Topseyt123 · 17/01/2026 21:01

I like it and find it very expressive. I will probably continue to use it.

QuirkyHorse · 17/01/2026 21:00

What is the American English version?
I've never heard the expression.

HauntedBungalow · 17/01/2026 21:00

Maybe too busy hiding behind the sofa.

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Squirrelchops1 · 17/01/2026 21:00

I can't believe people haven't come across it on tv, books, on social media etc.

HollyGolightly4 · 17/01/2026 20:59

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 17/01/2026 20:58

I have never heard or seen it before you started this thread

Same

HauntedBungalow · 17/01/2026 20:58

Really?

Oh well I do live a life rich in experience.

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Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 17/01/2026 20:58

I have never heard or seen it before you started this thread