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I just got pulled over for doing 32 in a 30

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dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:02

I’m shaking as I write this. I just drove out to walk the dogs and on my way back a police car pulled me over. I was doing 32 in a 30 and he said I was “lucky” that he’s not choosing to prosecute me over this.

AIBU or is this total overkill? It’s a dry sunny day, the roads are relatively quiet and I wasn’t driving erratically.

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Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 13:31

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 12:20

The posters saying that it’s easy not to go over a speed limit or that they’ve never done that are being very, very economical with truth, IMO.

As I’ve said, it’s easy to see how many do go a little over a speed limit by looking at the speed measuring signs. Very many drivers do. I suspect they mostly do slow down after being in the red on one of those signs, so good. But the simple fact is that we all break the limit a little, without any carelessness at all.

I suppose there might be MNers who crawl along at 10mph in a 20 zone or 15mph in a 30 zone. But I doubt it. And posters never seem to accept that 30s turn into 20s frequently, which makes dropping the speed beforehand difficult if you don’t know the road.

You need to go to Spec Savers.

And use your reading glasses with your car manual.

There are large round speed limit signs.

There are control stalks and buttons on/around the steering wheel for speed limiter, and cruise control, that specifically maintain speed for drivers who need help with that.

Sheer laziness

Ducksbehindthesofa · 18/01/2026 13:22

Many years ago, my SIL was a pedestrian when she was knocked over by a driver who dropped something in the footwell of his car and reached down to retrieve it, swerving onto the pavement in the process.

The driver was doing 36mph in a built-up area. The coroner said if he had been doing 30mph, my SIL the likelihood was that she would have survived her (fatal) injuries.

Imdunfer · 18/01/2026 13:02

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 12:55

I don’t know how many more times I need to say my speedo said 32.

You can't possibly know what it was showing at the time they actually measured it unless you know the precise moment and were happening to be looking at it at that moment, which you don't; or unless you are staring at your speedo all the time instead of looking at the road. If it genuinely said 32 at that moment, then you were not speeding unless your speedo is set wrong, so why did they stop you? Did they show you the reading?

MargoChanningsglass · 18/01/2026 13:00

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:28

Sheep

Capybara

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 12:59

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 12:55

I don’t know how many more times I need to say my speedo said 32.

It doesn’t matter what your speedo said; his speed measurement instrumentation will be more accurate.

And all he did was warn you, he didn’t give you a ticket.

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 12:56

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:28

Sheep

Cat

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 12:55

Imdunfer · 18/01/2026 12:44

How did the police clock you? They won't be using an adjusted speed, they'll be measuring your actual speed, so it's more likely you were doing 32 and your speedo was showing 34-37

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I don’t know how many more times I need to say my speedo said 32.

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grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 12:55

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:25

Lazy policeman ticking an easy box to hit his monthly target while avoiding real police work.

But he didn't tick a box because he didn't issue a ticket.

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 12:54

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:09

They will. We will all end up like the Chinese, permanently watched and controlled and punished for minor misdemeanors while the ruling-class do whatever they like with zero consequences for them.

I wish my reach was that length; I have problems reaching far enough to close car doors sometimes.... 😊

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 12:51

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 11:52

No, he waited until his insurance was up for renewal and binned them off. Because what is that about?

Communication

HTH

Imdunfer · 18/01/2026 12:44

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 11:45

Interestingly I’ve just had a google. Toyota tend to build in a 3-5mph overestimation into their speedometers as they can be over, but not under.

So I was likely only doing 29!

How did the police clock you? They won't be using an adjusted speed, they'll be measuring your actual speed, so it's more likely you were doing 32 and your speedo was showing 34-37

Nolongera · 18/01/2026 12:38

Clychaugog · 17/01/2026 17:54

Amazed at all these people that seem to have never crept over the speed limit by 2 miles an hour in their entire lives 😂🚔🚘

How many have said that in this thread?

MargoChanningsglass · 18/01/2026 12:29

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:25

Lazy policeman ticking an easy box to hit his monthly target while avoiding real police work.

Yeh traffic cops should be out catching serial killers.

He didnt hit any targets by talking to her.

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:28

Tighteningmybelt · 17/01/2026 13:04

You’d be shaking more if you hit someone and got done for dangerous driving. Just stick to 30 no matter how crazy it seems

Sheep

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:25

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:13

I just think it’s a bit silly. About two miles away there’s a town full of drug addicts and drunks who make part of the town a no go area. But they’d rather pull over innocent people!

Lazy policeman ticking an easy box to hit his monthly target while avoiding real police work.

MargoChanningsglass · 18/01/2026 12:23

SoScarletItWas · 18/01/2026 12:02

I can’t believe this is still going. A whole thread about that time I didn’t get a speeding ticket 🤣🤣

Yeh, parking neighbours and speeding always brings lots of traffic 😏

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 12:20

The posters saying that it’s easy not to go over a speed limit or that they’ve never done that are being very, very economical with truth, IMO.

As I’ve said, it’s easy to see how many do go a little over a speed limit by looking at the speed measuring signs. Very many drivers do. I suspect they mostly do slow down after being in the red on one of those signs, so good. But the simple fact is that we all break the limit a little, without any carelessness at all.

I suppose there might be MNers who crawl along at 10mph in a 20 zone or 15mph in a 30 zone. But I doubt it. And posters never seem to accept that 30s turn into 20s frequently, which makes dropping the speed beforehand difficult if you don’t know the road.

SerendipityJane · 18/01/2026 12:13

igelkott2026 · 18/01/2026 11:42

Hmmm. I think buying a BMW or Audi is a predictor of increased risk....

It's priced into the premium for the car.

We need to be careful with all this lovely data we are happily hoovering up and storing. The underlying principle of insurance is to spread the risk in a population based on the uncertainty of risk. The more data we have the more we can narrow down the risk and effectively make some people uninsurable (and therefore much more likely to drive without insurance).

The same applies to all these screenings we have these days. A lot of folk will slowly discover they can't get health insurance. Or life insurance.

"Big Data" was a thing that was briefly fought back. However all this "AI" they are so good at is it's bastard son.

ChopstickNovice · 18/01/2026 12:11

I do think it's a bit excessive esp when they don't come out to burglaries etc (in our area anyway). There must be different budgets for policing areas.

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:09

Flopsythebunny · 18/01/2026 11:42

If it was a requirement of insurance, you wouldn't have a choice.
All motability customers who have a named driver on their insurance under the age of 30 now have to have black boxes fitted to their vehicles.
It wouldn't surprise me if all insurance companies insist on every vehicle being fitted with one in the near future

They will. We will all end up like the Chinese, permanently watched and controlled and punished for minor misdemeanors while the ruling-class do whatever they like with zero consequences for them.

Itsrainingloadshere · 18/01/2026 12:08

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:05

You've never gone over the speed limit even by 1mph?
Unbelievable.

Where have they said they haven’t ever gone over the limit? I can’t see it in the post you refer to.

Never seen so much rubbish posted about someone who was speeding, didn’t get a ticket, makes a massive fuss about it because they are annoyed.

MartySupremeisascream · 18/01/2026 12:05

Boomer55 · 17/01/2026 16:30

Stick to the speed limit. You won’t get pulled over, so no shaking needed.

Sorted.✔️

You've never gone over the speed limit even by 1mph?
Unbelievable.

SoScarletItWas · 18/01/2026 12:02

I can’t believe this is still going. A whole thread about that time I didn’t get a speeding ticket 🤣🤣

PersephonePomegranate · 18/01/2026 11:56

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 10:33

I hope you never get pulled over by a lone male in a pretty secluded area. It’s not a built up area, just my town is pretty much all 30mph. Even the main roads and back lanes.

Could you try and paint yourself as a victim here any more?

You were just over the speed limit, you got told off, end of. Whether you disagree with where the police expend their energy is neither here nor there, if you hadn't been speeding, it wouldn't have happened. You are not a victim in this circumstance.

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 11:52

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 11:49

But presumably he explained after their communication and they were then aware?

No, he waited until his insurance was up for renewal and binned them off. Because what is that about?

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