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I just got pulled over for doing 32 in a 30

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dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:02

I’m shaking as I write this. I just drove out to walk the dogs and on my way back a police car pulled me over. I was doing 32 in a 30 and he said I was “lucky” that he’s not choosing to prosecute me over this.

AIBU or is this total overkill? It’s a dry sunny day, the roads are relatively quiet and I wasn’t driving erratically.

OP posts:
Elbowpatch · 18/01/2026 23:02

3678194b · 18/01/2026 22:04

I've friends in the police and they always used to say 10% plus 2 MPH over the limit for pulling people. Not sure that applies anymore.

I always thought cars overstated speed by 2 MPH,.

Legislation says speedos can over read up to 10% but 0% under.

Tyre wear or changing the make of tyre can alter what the speedo reads. Brand new tyres will read slower than well worn ones,

3678194b · 18/01/2026 22:39

At least the officer had discretion and didn't issue a ticket.

It's still likely females will be pulled over by male officers, female police are still in the minority, so how do they get around that?

There used to be articles about one day there being 'average speed check cameras' on all roads. It hasn't come to that yet but if they really wanted to, I'm sure they could do that through GPS. Maybe one day that will happen.

I stick to the speed limit, although yes sometimes I realise I've mistakenly gone a few MPH faster than the limit. My cruise control won't do 20. I'm fed up of irate drivers, when you are sticking to the limit behind you, they can't always overtake.

There's a 30 by me on the road where DC gets the bus and has a lot of children waiting. Some drivers tear up it, I would say more near 40. I wonder if these drivers are ever caught - I've never seen a speed trap/monitor in all the time I've lived here.

Driving home at 4 am from the airport last time, on an uneventful Tuesday morning not a soul around, it did feel weird doing 20 MPH as that was what the law is. Maybe they should have more variable speed limits depending on time of day etc, a bit like they do on motorways.

MargoChanningsglass · 18/01/2026 22:13

3678194b · 18/01/2026 22:04

I've friends in the police and they always used to say 10% plus 2 MPH over the limit for pulling people. Not sure that applies anymore.

I always thought cars overstated speed by 2 MPH,.

I had to do a course for 32mph

However it was a camera that got me not a person so maybe people are more reasonable and just give a warning, like the OPs did.

Must say it cincentrated my mind on not doing it again!

RosesAndHellebores · 18/01/2026 22:12

I was once told that the police will pull a driver over for the teeniest, tiniest thing if they suspect something else.

3678194b · 18/01/2026 22:04

I've friends in the police and they always used to say 10% plus 2 MPH over the limit for pulling people. Not sure that applies anymore.

I always thought cars overstated speed by 2 MPH,.

FixTheBone · 18/01/2026 21:56

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 12:20

The posters saying that it’s easy not to go over a speed limit or that they’ve never done that are being very, very economical with truth, IMO.

As I’ve said, it’s easy to see how many do go a little over a speed limit by looking at the speed measuring signs. Very many drivers do. I suspect they mostly do slow down after being in the red on one of those signs, so good. But the simple fact is that we all break the limit a little, without any carelessness at all.

I suppose there might be MNers who crawl along at 10mph in a 20 zone or 15mph in a 30 zone. But I doubt it. And posters never seem to accept that 30s turn into 20s frequently, which makes dropping the speed beforehand difficult if you don’t know the road.

I think the difference is that most people would hold their hands up and call it a fair cop, apologise if it was unintentional, and then try harder not to do it again....

Pretty much the opposite attitude to OP's

Elbowpatch · 18/01/2026 21:22

Merlin102 · 18/01/2026 20:16

Google Maps has a feature that shows your current speed and the current speed limit. Useful!

The current speed limit is so often incorrect it’s practically useless.

MargoChanningsglass · 18/01/2026 21:17

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 21:05

Is there a Covid equivalent of Godwin’s Law?

Good point actually

It pops up in every circumstance these days.

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 21:05

Is there a Covid equivalent of Godwin’s Law?

shakeitoffshakeacocktail · 18/01/2026 20:52

@dialdrunkforyou

I like your username 😁

Notthegodofsmallthings · 18/01/2026 20:43

scalt · 18/01/2026 07:09

I think a lot of Mumsnetters are sorry lockdown ever ended: during that time, they could preach and moralise to their hearts' content. As they can't curtain twitch on the neighbours hugging their grandchildren and more, now they have to settle for wearing a hi-vi of authority, and standing in the road pointing a hair drier at passing cars, pretending it's a speed gun.

Ooh, that sounds like a fun half term activity to keep the kids entertained, thanks for the suggestion.

Merlin102 · 18/01/2026 20:16

Google Maps has a feature that shows your current speed and the current speed limit. Useful!

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 18:29

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 18:23

Triggered

Oh for god’s sake.

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 18:23

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 17:21

No I’m not. You’ve just been grubbing around trying to make a point. And you’ve failed.

Don’t be so foolish.

Triggered

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 17:21

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 17:11

You’re avoiding accountability for the contradictory comments you’ve made on this thread.

No I’m not. You’ve just been grubbing around trying to make a point. And you’ve failed.

Don’t be so foolish.

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 17:11

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 15:45

What are talking about? Your comments are just silly now.

You’re avoiding accountability for the contradictory comments you’ve made on this thread.

Nincompoo · 18/01/2026 17:11

Bobiverse · 18/01/2026 16:54

No, it didn’t. Every speedo is calibrated to show over. You would have been going at least 35 on your car to flag as 32.

Pay more attention and don’t let your speed creep up.

This is just not true.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 18/01/2026 17:05

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:33

I guess so? I have no idea. He was behind me and put his lights on and gestured for me to pull over.

I was going to say YANBU but having read your posts you sound utterly entitled, and BU.

You admit you were over the speed limit with a police car right behind you? What did you expect? What kind of message would it give if the copper ignored you?

You didn't even get a ticket so if I was you I'd be thinking I'd had a lucky escape, not bitching about the police doing their jobs.

The speed limit isn't conditional on the weather, the gradient or how much of a great driver you think you are.

Bobiverse · 18/01/2026 16:54

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:06

Nope. The speedo showed me at 32.

No, it didn’t. Every speedo is calibrated to show over. You would have been going at least 35 on your car to flag as 32.

Pay more attention and don’t let your speed creep up.

Fiftyandme · 18/01/2026 16:53

Overkill - unless we’re in cars that have limiters were in danger of gluing our eyes to the speedometer instead of keeping them on the road.

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 16:52

SerendipityJane · 18/01/2026 16:25

You say that ... but when they first came out, there was a rather unhealthy obsession with how much wonderful data they could deliver that could be flogged to marketing firms. I mean 14 Tb* of data has to have some hidden gems in it right ?

The only problem with that genius idea was that the people who tended to use black boxes (telematics) weren't the millionaires you'd need for such ad-flinging.

Also all new cars are quietly logging that data whether you know or not.

14Tb - 14 Terabytes or 14000 Gigabytes. A lot of disk drives !

Tell you what then, let's drive defensively and within the law and keep our fingers crossed that everyone else will. Oh, or maybe we'll come across OP and her like.

Ewock · 18/01/2026 16:29

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 13:40

Well the reason she was hit was because the driver bent down, not because he was speeding.

However if the driver had being doing 30 (the speed limit) the posters sil would have likely survived.

Surely you can infer from that information that the speed limit is there for a reason, to reduce deaths.
Yes if the driving had been looking she would not have been hit, but if the driver had not been driving over the speed limit she would likely have lived.

You were speeding you got caught, tough luck, try to do better next time and not speed

SerendipityJane · 18/01/2026 16:25

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 16:12

Black boxes are used for the driver to work with the insurer to reduce their premiums. Nothing to do with 1984.

You say that ... but when they first came out, there was a rather unhealthy obsession with how much wonderful data they could deliver that could be flogged to marketing firms. I mean 14 Tb* of data has to have some hidden gems in it right ?

The only problem with that genius idea was that the people who tended to use black boxes (telematics) weren't the millionaires you'd need for such ad-flinging.

Also all new cars are quietly logging that data whether you know or not.

14Tb - 14 Terabytes or 14000 Gigabytes. A lot of disk drives !

20thCenturyFecks · 18/01/2026 16:20

The law's black and white. You were doing over the speed limit.

Having watched too much Police Interceptors he was probably hoping there was something else and quite possibly might have been. Shaking seems a bit extreme so was there something else or are you just a bit of a drama queen?

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 16:12

ThreeSixtyTwo · 18/01/2026 14:48

You really don't see how invasive and bigbrothery this approach is?

Noone should question why are you driving if you aren't drunk or speeding or breaking law in some other way.

Black boxes are used for the driver to work with the insurer to reduce their premiums. Nothing to do with 1984.

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