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Traitors is a negative influence on society

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Listenup99 · 17/01/2026 00:19

The TV show Traitors is an example of society breaking down not just a bit of fun entertainment. It glorifies and rewards deceitful behaviour. I can’t actually believe so many people watch it and encourage their kids to watch it as if it is a good thing.

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YellowFluffyBunny · 17/01/2026 09:01

It was fine first time I watched it, now it feels like a copy of Big Brother. I find it repetitive and boring but don't care about it really. It shows how easily people can be influenced by others, and distracted by irrelevant stuff.

cloudtreecarpet · 17/01/2026 08:57

Bloozie · 17/01/2026 08:54

You know what? I agree with you and thought I was the only person in the UK that feels like this. I have friends with extremely strident views about the behaviour shown on traitors in any other context that think I’m mad.

I can’t stand watching it. Why would I want to watch people deliberately being awful? My husband however wants to apply to go on it. He loves it. He watches and I put my headphones on and watch something else on my laptop, or read a book. The missions are boring and the backstabbing makes me angry.

We are definitely the minority though. Everyone loves Traitors.

Edited

But they aren't "being awful", they are playing a game!

It's not real and I don't believe anyone in there believes it's real. Yes, they get caught up in it because it must be a very intense experience but every player who is interviewed afterwards always talks about how much they enjoyed it.

Bikergran · 17/01/2026 08:54

There's an awful lot of us who don't watch it and can't give a shit about it, so I'd relax if I were you.

Bloozie · 17/01/2026 08:54

You know what? I agree with you and thought I was the only person in the UK that feels like this. I have friends with extremely strident views about the behaviour shown on traitors in any other context that think I’m mad.

I can’t stand watching it. Why would I want to watch people deliberately being awful? My husband however wants to apply to go on it. He loves it. He watches and I put my headphones on and watch something else on my laptop, or read a book. The missions are boring and the backstabbing makes me angry.

We are definitely the minority though. Everyone loves Traitors.

cloudtreecarpet · 17/01/2026 08:54

HelenHywater · 17/01/2026 08:49

I also like that I can watch this with my dd.

I enjoy it (although sometimes find the missions dull) and love Claudia and her wardrobe.

I think the most harmful thing about it is the bias (unconscious or not) in voting out people of colour and older people. I wonder if the traitors weren't white whether they'd last as long. And if Harriet and Amanda were young whether they'd still be in. (Then again I think Harriet and Amanda went a bit rogue and didn't help themselves).

I'm not sure it was all unconscious bias as much as herd behaviour and some unusual game play.

BUT if the show does illustrate
unconscious bias or is perceived to and brings that to the attention of the public isn't that actually a good thing?

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 17/01/2026 08:50

I think the same op but most people seem to love it 🤷‍♀️

cloudtreecarpet · 17/01/2026 08:50

lottiegarbanzo · 17/01/2026 08:47

Did you think Trainspotting glorified heroin use OP?

There's no end to the examples that can be put to the OP to illustrate how ridiculous this stance is!

They seem to have disappeared now though. Maybe they are binge watching The Traitors & have got hooked.... 😂

HelenHywater · 17/01/2026 08:49

I also like that I can watch this with my dd.

I enjoy it (although sometimes find the missions dull) and love Claudia and her wardrobe.

I think the most harmful thing about it is the bias (unconscious or not) in voting out people of colour and older people. I wonder if the traitors weren't white whether they'd last as long. And if Harriet and Amanda were young whether they'd still be in. (Then again I think Harriet and Amanda went a bit rogue and didn't help themselves).

Imupforthat · 17/01/2026 08:49

I’m going to put my hard hat on here and say I kind of agree with you.

I wouldn’t say that It’s an influence as such just like much of what passes for entertainment these days a lowering of the bar for society generally.

Happy to admit I’m no fun at parties!

saltandvinegarchipsticks · 17/01/2026 08:49

MannequinsArePeopleToo · 17/01/2026 07:42

I have just started watching for the first time.
What an unmitigated pile of shit TV.
And last nights sad story episode was straight out of the likes of MAFS style playbook

So shit that you’ve watched almost until the end.

or alternatively, you just watched last night’s episode, in which case it’s no wonder you didn’t get it.

crossstitchingnana · 17/01/2026 08:47

It’s a game. You know, like Wink Murder and no-one really dies in that, in case you thought they did.

lottiegarbanzo · 17/01/2026 08:47

Did you think Trainspotting glorified heroin use OP?

YourGiddyGreyHelper · 17/01/2026 08:47

The Apprentice was incredibly popular in the US and in the UK. With its bullying and self aggrandising boss it seemed like an over the top bit of fun but it gave the world Donald Trump.

ThatCyanCat · 17/01/2026 08:46

Vladandnikki · 17/01/2026 08:42

We've had some really lovely discussions around traitors. Had a chat about unconscious bias and how it affects voting, how some of the best faithfuls aren't being listened to and it's possibly due to class biases. How the faithfuls are losing because they aren't working as a team and are wasting their energy being petty instead of looking at the facts. Oh my lord they are the worst faithfuls ever 😂

They're not. Try the Aussie S2. I had to stop watching. Terrible ending too, predictable, pointless and unpleasant to watch. No wonder it got canned over there.

lottiegarbanzo · 17/01/2026 08:46

And you do know most people want the Faithful to win, to discover and eject the deceptive ones? (Well usually).

ThatCyanCat · 17/01/2026 08:43

I think it helps that the tone is so ridiculously camp and OTT. The Aussie version was so serious, there was no wink to the audience or joking in the production and presentation. It's pitched perfectly, partiy thanks to Claudia too. You get into it while you're watching and get genuinely frustrated or pleased or whatever and get swept up in the drama, but then it's over and like the players, you come out of it.

MrsMurphyIWish · 17/01/2026 08:42

I listened to a “rest of entertainment” podcast and they said one of the successes of the show was its ability to hook across the generations. I love having a show I can watch with my kids.

Plus Stephen’s face kills me.

Vladandnikki · 17/01/2026 08:42

We've had some really lovely discussions around traitors. Had a chat about unconscious bias and how it affects voting, how some of the best faithfuls aren't being listened to and it's possibly due to class biases. How the faithfuls are losing because they aren't working as a team and are wasting their energy being petty instead of looking at the facts. Oh my lord they are the worst faithfuls ever 😂

lottiegarbanzo · 17/01/2026 08:41

You’re revealing YOUR reaction to it OP. What does it say about you that celebrating duplicity is what you get from it?

For many of us it provides fascinating insight into group dynamics, why people trust and esteem some people but not others and how this relates to people’s trustworthiness. It doesn’t relate well at all, which is fascinating. There are lessons for life there.

Plus it’s a light but beautifully wintery entertainment to carry us cosily through the darkest nights.

The ‘did you watch…’ mass experience is a really charming throwback to communal televisual experience of decades past.

BlueSeagull · 17/01/2026 08:41

Listenup99 · 17/01/2026 00:19

The TV show Traitors is an example of society breaking down not just a bit of fun entertainment. It glorifies and rewards deceitful behaviour. I can’t actually believe so many people watch it and encourage their kids to watch it as if it is a good thing.

😂😂😂😂😂

SquishySquashyWishyWashy · 17/01/2026 08:41

Listenup99 · 17/01/2026 00:41

Enjoying the replies so far 😆 knew this would go down well. As I say I do believe it irl but know many don’t agree! I also find rhat show where people marry each other randomly and love island are also truly negative societal trends.

if you met me irl you’d have no idea im this radical btw 😎

Another take: https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2026/jan/15/why-older-women-reign-supreme-the-traitors?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other

‘She is so mother!’ Why older women reign supreme on The Traitors

Monumental levels of camp, explosively powerful showdowns, glorious chaos: this season finally proves that matriarchs are Traitors’ best characters. Has anyone ever been more legendary than Harriet?

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2026/jan/15/why-older-women-reign-supreme-the-traitors?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other

Needlenardlenoo · 17/01/2026 08:39

I love Claudia, the setting is gorgeous, the cloaks are lovely, but the show itself is BORING.

If you want proper betrayal (ideally with cloaks, I suggest Verdi (start with Rigoletto), or as a pp suggested, Agatha Christie.

If you want wholesome telly, there's always the Pottery Throwdown!

SquishySquashyWishyWashy · 17/01/2026 08:38

SwedishEdith · 17/01/2026 00:20

Yeah. Let's ban poker and Cluedo as well while we're at it.

Forgot Monopoly, and crazy 8. All of these games teaching that by sheer luck, you can lose everything is truly horrid. 🙄

EiEiOhhhhhh · 17/01/2026 08:35

Listenup99 · 17/01/2026 01:03

Fine they are stories with rounded perspective not congratulating and glorifying lying and deceit like traitors.

No that I really take issue with. The only bit of Eastenders I’ve seen was revolting. Rude people being horrible to each other.

Traitors is so samey and boring really. BUT the good thing it shows my kids is that you really can’t believe what people tell you. Actions count

cloudtreecarpet · 17/01/2026 08:33

Never ever read or watch an Agatha Christie! The horror, the horror! 😱