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To wonder if anyone has or is considering moving to a country that's less likely to be involved if Putin attacks a NATO country. (title edited by MNHQ at request of OP)

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Carla786 · 17/01/2026 00:02

I hope that if WW3 happened, I'd be brave enough to stay and fight. I love Britain & I'd hate to leave it or see it invaded by Putin.

However, at the same time I'm wondering about the recent rush of articles suggesting conflict with Russia is inevitable by around 2030 and that civilians need to prepare to be conscripted to fight if NATO is attacked. I'd always thought Britain being land-invaded was fairly unlikely, but being called up to fight in a NATO war widens the options of what might happen.

Countries that are less likely to be involved include Austria, Switzerland, New Zealand, Republic of Ireland. I don't particularly want to move to any of these. If call-ups are likely to be imminent in about 4 years, I don't know..

The country I've always thought I'd move to if I did move is Poland (where I have family ties)- but of course that's far more likely to be involved in a potential war!

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Carla786 · 17/01/2026 00:54

QPZM · 17/01/2026 00:53

Yeah but can you just turn up with your suitcase and family and tell them you're moving in?

Of course you'd need to immigrate properly.

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Carla786 · 17/01/2026 00:54

QPZM · 17/01/2026 00:30

Can you just rock up to another country and move in?

Sounds too easy to me.

Anyway no, despite the fact I'd get an Irish passport if I applied for one, I'm quite happy in the UK.

Of course not, I meant immigration etc

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QPZM · 17/01/2026 00:53

Carla786 · 17/01/2026 00:51

Ireland, Switzerland & Austria have all fairly long traditions of neutrality.

Moreover, Switzrlerland is not a NATO member, nor is Austria or Ireland.

Yeah but can you just turn up with your suitcase and family and tell them you're moving in?

Carla786 · 17/01/2026 00:53

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 17/01/2026 00:34

No I wouldn't. I'm not uprooting my entire life and family just in case, plus it's not just as easy as thinking you want to move and doing it, most countries have criteria you have to meet before you can move there.

If WW3 breaks out and things go bad life probably won't be worth living anyway.

Agree on the first part re difficulty of moving.

Pessimistic to assume WW3 would mean a nuclear or similar Armageddon though. It's more likely that Putin will attack a NATO country & Britain would have to contribute troops, which they have said will mean conscription of civilians. Land invasion of Britain is less likely.

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vodkaredbullgirl · 17/01/2026 00:52

No

Carla786 · 17/01/2026 00:51

VikaOlson · 17/01/2026 00:23

I can't see how any European country would be 'less involved' to be honest.

New Zealand maybe.

Ireland, Switzerland & Austria have all fairly long traditions of neutrality.

Moreover, Switzrlerland is not a NATO member, nor is Austria or Ireland.

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TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 17/01/2026 00:34

No I wouldn't. I'm not uprooting my entire life and family just in case, plus it's not just as easy as thinking you want to move and doing it, most countries have criteria you have to meet before you can move there.

If WW3 breaks out and things go bad life probably won't be worth living anyway.

QPZM · 17/01/2026 00:32

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 17/01/2026 00:24

Dh gets it off Amazon. Just the little balls.

Always get loads of squirrels too💕

Couldn't you have told us this without insulting the size of his testicles?

QPZM · 17/01/2026 00:30

Can you just rock up to another country and move in?

Sounds too easy to me.

Anyway no, despite the fact I'd get an Irish passport if I applied for one, I'm quite happy in the UK.

UrbanBrawl · 17/01/2026 00:26

Nope, never crosses my mind at all. What will be will be.

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/01/2026 00:25

Nauru maybe Micronesia? Iceland is right next to Greenland!

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 17/01/2026 00:24

OutTheWayOut · 17/01/2026 00:20

May I ask what food you are using? I am not sure I am offering best selection at the moment.

Also some squirrels live in trees at the back - so I might need to check the feeders!

Dh gets it off Amazon. Just the little balls.

Always get loads of squirrels too💕

VikaOlson · 17/01/2026 00:23

I can't see how any European country would be 'less involved' to be honest.

New Zealand maybe.

OutTheWayOut · 17/01/2026 00:20

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 17/01/2026 00:05

No never think about it.

Don’t even think about Russia much. More interested in the little coal tit that landed on my bird feeder.

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May I ask what food you are using? I am not sure I am offering best selection at the moment.

Also some squirrels live in trees at the back - so I might need to check the feeders!

OutTheWayOut · 17/01/2026 00:06

Nah.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 17/01/2026 00:05

No never think about it.

Don’t even think about Russia much. More interested in the little coal tit that landed on my bird feeder.

Carla786 · 17/01/2026 00:04

Another one is Iceland.

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