Can I wear this Satin Dress to a Wedding. Husband says no. I feel stunning in it, and think it is ok to wear.

I really wouldn’t.

Absolutely not.

The other guests will just see you as some weird woman trying to upstage the bride. Do you have previous issues with the bride? Is the groom your ex?

I think it's wonderful that you've found something that makes you feel incredible, but I worry with this dress the comments won't be along the lines of how beautiful you will look, but instead at how inappropriate the colour is. The style and cut is gorgeous but that big block of white is all anyone will notice I think.

Ffs it’s 3/4 white!! And looks a bit cheap anyway but that’s besides the point.

unless the bride has specified in the invites that she isn’t wearing white and has welcomed guests to do, please do not wear it. Even then it’s not appropriate.

I was torn when I saw the pic - I have seen many people where black and white dresses for weddings. But if the top was white it could be a wedding dress itself, so I wouldn't. It does look too much like a wedding dress I think. I'd love to see this on though! I'd never think of wearing something like this and probably wouldn't have an event to wear it to, so I can see why you're tempted to wear it!

Different colour and a jacket.

Is your husband also going in fancy dress as a vicar? If so, it's perfect.

Are you likely to upstage the bride? If yes then don’t wear it.

With respect the wedding isn’t about you , it’s far too look at me and inappropriate.

Why don’t you see if there are any events on near you such as charity ball, dinner and dance type thing. Hotels and bistros etc often have them for Valentine’s Day.

Agree it looks like a nightgown. I actually don’t like the dress, the black and white cut in the middle like that gives it more of a skirt and top look to the eye - which doesn’t work well with the two polar tones.

Still it’s 80% white satin. To someone else’s wedding that’s criminal, even if you did forgive the tight, plunging cut of it.

Red carpet yes, wedding no...but I suspect that this is a wind up

Absolutely inappropriate for a wedding. But you're ignoring the unanimous 'No' from everyone and just listing the reasons you want to wear it, so I'm not sure why you asked.

The poor bride.

Definitely not suitable - the long white satin skirt means if you wear a jacket over the top for it to be less “cocktail” and less revealing and more appropriate for a wedding you could be mistaken for the bride wearing a jacket because she is cold (ok most brides wouldn’t do this but it’s not the point - it’s far too much plain white).

Even if it had been a different colour combination, eg blue and black (and not clashed with bridesmaids colours) it would still be unsuitable for a wearing without a jacket over top half until late in the evening (eg after dinner, speeches, first dances because it’s very very evening / cocktail wear, it’s not a nice or formal daytime outfit

Tbh the website looks dodgy & chat gpt has got to be involved.

Beautiful dress but definitely not suitable for a wedding. Far too much white and a bit revealing.

And i bet you she will ignore us all and wear it to the wedding anyway.

Great dress, really stunning, but it's black tie or evening wear. Some very glam weddings so follow that dress code, but there is a lot of white, and it is a very glam dress, so I could see an emo/goth/rocker story of bride wearing this.

It’s a no from me, I think it looks too bridal (in a thoroughly modern way). Love the dress though, book something fancy to do for Valentine’s Day?

I find it so weird that a minority say yes it's fine. The fact that so many say it is not is the clear answer. There will presumably be many guests at the wedding so if 94% here think the dress is inappropriate you can guarantee it will be seen negatively by a significant number. Even if the bride thinks it's the most amazing idea of all time (please don't put her in an awkward spot by asking) doesn't it matter if the other guests disagree? You'd look absolutely attention seeking at any wedding I've been to.

It's so weird that your MIL knows your body so well to get you such a skimpy dress. Cash or gold would be more useful than dresses that you have nowhere to wear them to.

Problem is, with a jacket hiding the black top you will just see the white satin skirt and then it really will look like she’s wearing a wedding dress.

It's definitely not an appropriate dress for a wedding guest. MIL can watch the baby while your DH takes you out for a romantic dinner in your dress.

It’s not ‘1950s’ to have the grace to realize that the bride should be the centre of attention at her wedding. It’s kind and polite.