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To consider reporting this dog owner?

36 replies

AInightingale · 15/01/2026 19:31

Once a week for the last couple of months, I've had to walk a particular route with my son (re. an activity he's been doing). We pass a house on our way, and the owner has a Doberman dog kept in the garden. Every time we pass, this dog comes charging across to the fence (a high metal one) barking like mad. Naturally, given the breed, it's a bloody terrifying sight if it catches you unawares. I'd forgotten about it today and it scared the living daylights out of me. The house is next to a busy road.
It made me think back to my son when he was about four or five and petrified of all dogs, when he would just scream and run if he saw one. I had to keep a pretty tight hold on him because of it, was a stressful time. We now have our own dog and he's okay with them. But the way this animal behaves is concerning me for the safety of other children - the traffic on this road is non-stop. Surely dog owners aren't allowed to let animals roam about their gardens behaving in this way? No doubt the owner would say it's a guard dog just doing its job (god knows why, the house is a shit tip). I don't like dogs being penned but I don't like having the bejasus scared out of me either.

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Londonrach1 · 15/01/2026 20:57

I can't get out what you think anymore can fo about it. Unless the dog is being hurt in anyway. It's in its own garden and secure

Dgll · 15/01/2026 20:55

I always think that those big dogs that behave like that are so aggressive because they lead such a confined life and must be bored and frustrated. Someone on our street has a breed that was bred to guard livestock and have a free range out door life style on grassy mountain slopes. Instead it is stuck in a central London terrace with no garden. It is very aggressive towards people and goes completely bonkers when it sees another dog.

SmoothSquirrel · 15/01/2026 20:50

Dobermanns were bred as protection dogs, it’s protecting its property, barking as a deterrent. This doesn’t mean that the dog is aggressive. I have two, they will bark at noises in the garden and are either told to be quiet or brought straight in. I personally wouldn’t leave them outside to bark at passers by. We pass lots of gardens on our walks where dogs are going berserk barking at us, we usually take a different route. It isn’t ideal but there’s nothing we can do about it, most dogs will protect their territory.

7238SM · 15/01/2026 20:11

Does it look emaciated, sores on the body, tied by the neck or other signs of neglect, or the issue is that its barking and protecting its property?

Edited to say that I agree its scary if a dog suddenly appears from behind a fence and barks at you, but I doubt you could notify anyone unless you had neglect concerns. Have you tried speaking to the owners?

AInightingale · 15/01/2026 20:07

No it can't get out obviously, but it is just unpleasant, to say the least, to have that couple of seconds of sheer panic when an enormous aggressive dog comes bounding towards you out of the blue. People shouldn't have to cross the road to avoid triggering it.

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Catza · 15/01/2026 19:38

The dog is on a private property behind a secure fence. If you are uncomfortable about it barking, then you could cross to the other side of the street and not pass the house.

CatsSleepFatandWalkThin · 15/01/2026 19:36

I get it could be alarming, but they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong.

dadtoateen · 15/01/2026 19:35

So the dog is contained and can’t harm you? It sounds like a guard dog and it’s doing its job….

ThatCosyDreamer · 15/01/2026 19:34

If the dog is in its own garden, behind a high fence, why are you concerned about the safety of children? I understand it must give you a fright, but you can't report a dog for barking in its own garden? I feel sorry for it being stuck there all day.

HewasH2O · 15/01/2026 19:33

Presumably the high metal fence is there to contain the dog on private property. Which law do you think is being broken or do you think it is being neglected?

(Not a dog owner)

Dablab · 15/01/2026 19:33

Sounds like it hasn't, and can't, get out? What are you planning on saying, that they have a dog that they are containing safely in their garden?