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Pedo Hunter in Area

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Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 18:32

Not sure if this really is an AIBU just looking for some insights if anyone has any!

In the last couple of days a fairly well known ‘Pedophile Hunter’ group has made it known via social media etc that they are in the area where I live. It is a very small rural community and of course rumours have spread like wildfire!

I don’t really have much knowledge about these types of groups - I remember hearing something years ago about them on the news but never really looked into them. A quick google search shows a lot of debate about whether they are helpful or harmful
On the face of it it would seem like they have the best of intentions?! But they can become very violent and do sometimes get it wrong, target the person or wrong address etc

Some people locally are very excited about their presence and some are very concerned

I suppose I am just wondering really if anyone else has had any experience of this in their area and how it turned out?

for AIBU purposes

YABU - they are no threat to the community and only want to help protect children

YANBU - they are vigilante groups who hinder police investigations and often act on local gossip and end up targeting innocent individuals

Thanks for any insights 😊

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Jamesblonde2 · 15/01/2026 21:58

The group I have heard of have assisted to bring many vile people to justice and imprisoned. Good job I say.

MrsKateColumbo · 15/01/2026 21:50

I think vigilante groups in most forms are dangerous, this is well beyond the general public's remit. The groups are motivated by their own egos, not child protection

JustAMiddleAgedDirtBagBaby · 15/01/2026 21:49

Owly11 · 15/01/2026 21:23

Some of these types attacked a bloke once because he was a paediatrician. Not the brightest sparks.

It was a female paediatrician - Dr Yvette Cloete in Newport, South Wales.

Just naming her because often someone will pop up to say it's an urban myth that never happened.

Minihippyme89 · 15/01/2026 21:37

Is it Spartan Hunter group or whatever he calls himself? Makes a change from him selling cocaine and weed to kids I guess.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 21:28

Unicornsandprincesses · 15/01/2026 21:11

Because they’ll be making money from social media for posting…. Which is probably what it’s all about really…

Yeah now I’ve looked into him a bit more I can see he is advertising stuff on his social media pages

clearly in it for money and a bit of fame .. dangerous individual who doesn’t care if he ruins lives

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Owly11 · 15/01/2026 21:23

Some of these types attacked a bloke once because he was a paediatrician. Not the brightest sparks.

PassportPanicFuuuck · 15/01/2026 21:13

Beekman · 15/01/2026 21:08

I live in the US and whilst I am sure groups like that exist over here, the only social media groups/ pages I’ve seen are British. They seem extremely self-righteous and can’t see a thing wrong with what they are doing, which is basically exposing so-called paedos. Based on what actual evidence, I have no idea. Usually it’s one of the hunters pretending to be a kid online and arranging a meet and they turn up to film the mark. I have no idea how it’s all edited or if what they are alledging is true. Let’s face it, they could be targeting anyone at all.

I think generally vigilantism is ill-advised. I'm sure they claim that if they save one child from being abused then it's all worth it, and on the face of it that's difficult to argue with, but if someone is wrongly "exposed" it would be very difficult to repair your reputation. And given that people can apparently get confused between paedophiles and paediatricians it's obviously not a foolproof approach.

Unicornsandprincesses · 15/01/2026 21:11

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 18:39

No they are actually here! Has has posted videos of himself in local places etc
This is what I’m finding odd I suppose

Because they’ll be making money from social media for posting…. Which is probably what it’s all about really…

Beekman · 15/01/2026 21:08

PassportPanicFuuuck · 15/01/2026 20:32

I'm assuming you're in the US? I imagine the culture is a bit different over there. I'd have thought "paedophile hunters" here are just a couple of steps removed from Neighbourhood Watch.

I live in the US and whilst I am sure groups like that exist over here, the only social media groups/ pages I’ve seen are British. They seem extremely self-righteous and can’t see a thing wrong with what they are doing, which is basically exposing so-called paedos. Based on what actual evidence, I have no idea. Usually it’s one of the hunters pretending to be a kid online and arranging a meet and they turn up to film the mark. I have no idea how it’s all edited or if what they are alledging is true. Let’s face it, they could be targeting anyone at all.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 21:04

ExtraOnions · 15/01/2026 20:53

It’s not about protecting people, or helping the police … it’s about massaging thier own ego’s. Going round in branded hoodies, posting themselves all over the Internet. What about the wives and children of these perverts? Do they deserve to be posted all over the internet as well? These “Hunters” hinder the police and endanger lives.

I’ll never forget this case

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Bijan_Ebrahimi

Ah I remember that too so so sad

yep just noticed this guy does branded hoodies

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OonaStubbs · 15/01/2026 21:04

If the police did a better job of catching paedos and the legal system kept them locked up instead of giving them short prison sentences, these groups wouldn't exist.

PassportPanicFuuuck · 15/01/2026 21:02

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 21:01

Nope rural Scotland

Oh right. Why the American spelling?

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 21:01

PassportPanicFuuuck · 15/01/2026 20:32

I'm assuming you're in the US? I imagine the culture is a bit different over there. I'd have thought "paedophile hunters" here are just a couple of steps removed from Neighbourhood Watch.

Nope rural Scotland

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ExtraOnions · 15/01/2026 20:53

It’s not about protecting people, or helping the police … it’s about massaging thier own ego’s. Going round in branded hoodies, posting themselves all over the Internet. What about the wives and children of these perverts? Do they deserve to be posted all over the internet as well? These “Hunters” hinder the police and endanger lives.

I’ll never forget this case

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Bijan_Ebrahimi

PassportPanicFuuuck · 15/01/2026 20:32

I'm assuming you're in the US? I imagine the culture is a bit different over there. I'd have thought "paedophile hunters" here are just a couple of steps removed from Neighbourhood Watch.

rainbowunicorn22 · 15/01/2026 19:15

I guess that, like everything else, some groups abide by the law, get the right person, and the police prosecute. another one of the streets
Then some take pleasure in tracking people, manhandling them, and broadcasting their whereabouts far and wide, often including other family members, thus making their lives hell.
Dedicated Police forces spend time tracking down these Paedophiles, but due to the usual cuts, their resources and time are limited. So, if done properly, finding these people must help them.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 19:13

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/01/2026 19:09

So worrying that people here are fawning all over him and offering to ‘ help’

Yes it is, OP, but that's what can so easily happen with things like this.
Someone convinces themselves it's really "Bob" they're after, puts together their own imagined "case" against him, and before you know it messages are flying around saying "Ooooo didn't you know??" and claiming to have the inside track on any proper investigation

And so what if "Bob's" done nothing at all? They've had their bit of excitement haven't they? Hmm

Yeah this is it exactly - so scary. But what if anything can be done to get rid of them?! I guess they aren’t doing anything illegal

if anyone questions his/their credentials etc they are immediately branded a pedo by his followers

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whatisgoingonandwhy · 15/01/2026 19:11

i had dealings with an individual who did this. He was an absolutely awful individual, MMA fighter, sexist and a bully. He only did this to assert his dominance over others more weak than him and for totally the wrong reasons. I am not a fan of these groups for obvious reasons and think any information that is gathered should be passed to the Police for them to action and not used as a way to gain attention and stroke their egos.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/01/2026 19:09

So worrying that people here are fawning all over him and offering to ‘ help’

Yes it is, OP, but that's what can so easily happen with things like this.
Someone convinces themselves it's really "Bob" they're after, puts together their own imagined "case" against him, and before you know it messages are flying around saying "Ooooo didn't you know??" and claiming to have the inside track on any proper investigation

And so what if "Bob's" done nothing at all? They've had their bit of excitement haven't they? Hmm

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 19:03

Fends · 15/01/2026 19:01

Well then it’s helpful that it is outing which neighbours and locals you want to avoid in the future.

This is so true it has been very eye opening!

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Fends · 15/01/2026 19:01

Well then it’s helpful that it is outing which neighbours and locals you want to avoid in the future.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 18:58

Yeah this is definitely my concern - I’ll have to have a better look into them but from what I’ve seen so far he certainly looks like one of the knuckle daggers described by pp
so worrying then that people here are fawning all over him and offering to ‘ help’

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/01/2026 18:54

It's impossible to vote because it 100% depends on how professional the group is, and how well they engage with police

This

There's a huge difference between those who investigate on their own account then hand anything relevant to the police and knuckle draggers who are in it for a bit of "Look at me", and OP's example sounds worryingly like the latter

Femalemachinest · 15/01/2026 18:54

I dont agree with them. The police have people who are trained to do this. And to me if they weren't interested in the attention they would just hand everything over to the Police, no need to do a sting. They get the wrong person and ruin their lives by posting it all over the Internet. They can mess up and people go free.

TalulahJP · 15/01/2026 18:52

their mistaken identity situations are terrifying.

while im a woman so unlikely to be mistaken for one of them, it could happen to any guy who looks similar to a bad guy.

they need to help police not hinder them by forcing offenders into hiding.