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Pedo Hunter in Area

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Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 18:32

Not sure if this really is an AIBU just looking for some insights if anyone has any!

In the last couple of days a fairly well known ‘Pedophile Hunter’ group has made it known via social media etc that they are in the area where I live. It is a very small rural community and of course rumours have spread like wildfire!

I don’t really have much knowledge about these types of groups - I remember hearing something years ago about them on the news but never really looked into them. A quick google search shows a lot of debate about whether they are helpful or harmful
On the face of it it would seem like they have the best of intentions?! But they can become very violent and do sometimes get it wrong, target the person or wrong address etc

Some people locally are very excited about their presence and some are very concerned

I suppose I am just wondering really if anyone else has had any experience of this in their area and how it turned out?

for AIBU purposes

YABU - they are no threat to the community and only want to help protect children

YANBU - they are vigilante groups who hinder police investigations and often act on local gossip and end up targeting innocent individuals

Thanks for any insights 😊

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ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 14:45

I think they are invaluable in protecting children these monsters should be named and shamed. It's not like they ever even get a jail sentence

Survivingnotthriving24 · 16/01/2026 14:40

I am deeply uneasy about adults pretending to be children and engaging in sexualised conversations with no membership of any law enforcement and appropriate therapy/safeguards. There is something very strange about people willing to do this. Not to mention the obvious risk of chasing fame/attention and monetisation of social media.

SingedSoul · 16/01/2026 14:14

whatisgoingonandwhy · 15/01/2026 19:11

i had dealings with an individual who did this. He was an absolutely awful individual, MMA fighter, sexist and a bully. He only did this to assert his dominance over others more weak than him and for totally the wrong reasons. I am not a fan of these groups for obvious reasons and think any information that is gathered should be passed to the Police for them to action and not used as a way to gain attention and stroke their egos.

100%

Maddy70 · 16/01/2026 13:59

There have been so many cases of mistaken identities. I wouldn't touch them with a shitty stick , leave the police to their jobs. Vigilante groups are not helpful

Coffeeishot · 16/01/2026 13:42

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 13:38

Yeah thats the guy - how does he get followers does no one google him before they jump onboard?!

Because they have the same mentality. It is a distrust of authority/police/courts that lead to followers, they want to "sort it themselves"

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 13:38

PorridgeWithSaltOrSugar · 16/01/2026 13:35

The police already know about him! His name is Alex Cairnie. I don't know too much about him as when I hear his name I zone out but he's definitely been charged before.

Here's an old Reddit thread about him when he was roaming the streets in Glasgow..

https://www.reddit.com/r/glasgow/s/KYkKYl9vnU

Yeah thats the guy - how does he get followers does no one google him before they jump onboard?!

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Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 13:37

This is definitely the impression I get now I’ve looked into him more - his videos make me feel deeply uneasy and give me the creeps how anyone can take him seriously is totally beyond me
And the fact he has over 150k followers is terrifying

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Shegotanology · 16/01/2026 13:36

They targeted a pediatrician in my area. Spray-painted pedo on the front of their house. Vigilantism never ends well.

PorridgeWithSaltOrSugar · 16/01/2026 13:35

The police already know about him! His name is Alex Cairnie. I don't know too much about him as when I hear his name I zone out but he's definitely been charged before.

Here's an old Reddit thread about him when he was roaming the streets in Glasgow..

https://www.reddit.com/r/glasgow/s/KYkKYl9vnU

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 13:33

PorridgeWithSaltOrSugar · 16/01/2026 13:28

This man is a racist clown. He used to walk the streets of my area at night time videoing the people living there and accusing them of horrendous crimes, with zero evidence. Then he opened up a coffee shop. Now he's doing this. He's desperate for attention.

Oh my gosh this just gets worse! Would telling the police about him do any good?

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PorridgeWithSaltOrSugar · 16/01/2026 13:28

This man is a racist clown. He used to walk the streets of my area at night time videoing the people living there and accusing them of horrendous crimes, with zero evidence. Then he opened up a coffee shop. Now he's doing this. He's desperate for attention.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 13:28

Puzzledandpissedoff · 16/01/2026 13:18

he has said he’s here ‘taking to lots of people’ and he’s made it clear he’s happy to talk to anyone who might have ‘info’ - so basically he is stirring up and listening to local gossip and I assume trying to get some names so he can ‘take action’

More likely it's to create more interest for himself so he can sell more drugs Hmm

As you can probably tell I just looked at the FB page, and let's just say his appearance was no surprise ...

Wow well he’s made right mugs of some people here then who think he’s some kind of guardian angel come to save us all from ‘the beasts’

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DustyMaiden · 16/01/2026 13:25

I saw they caught someone near here by pretending to be a 12 year old old girl. Didn’t know anything about it until after.

mindutopia · 16/01/2026 13:21

It wouldn’t be something I’d do personally, but I’m very happy for the information. I have 2 convicted paedos in my family and we are NC with them. We had them come to our village and now I know where the paedo lives on the estate where my dc have some friends, so grateful to have that information.

DoveTurtle · 16/01/2026 13:19

Vigilantism is frightening!

Just remember they are using your community to raise their own profile. If they cared about catching anyone they wouldn’t be plastering their presence over social media for “likes”.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 16/01/2026 13:18

he has said he’s here ‘taking to lots of people’ and he’s made it clear he’s happy to talk to anyone who might have ‘info’ - so basically he is stirring up and listening to local gossip and I assume trying to get some names so he can ‘take action’

More likely it's to create more interest for himself so he can sell more drugs Hmm

As you can probably tell I just looked at the FB page, and let's just say his appearance was no surprise ...

wishingonastar101 · 16/01/2026 13:00

Because police don't / wont't / can't do much anymore people will have to take the law into their own hands.
Where we live there are a lot of break ins, doorstep theft and drug dealing. If we know something is going on we will all chat on the group WhatsApp and anyone home will go a check... we had a situation with a woman trying to grab peoples phones so a few of the lads on the street went out and told her where to go... we know we are only moving the problem on - but what else is there!

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 13:00

ScholesPanda · 16/01/2026 12:05

I'm sure they sometimes do good work.

The risks are obvious though - no checks on who they are or what bias they hold, little come back if they make false accusations, and the incentive to do so due to the addictive nature of social media likes and the monetisation of their channels.

The ones I've heard about tend to operate online in 'sting' type operations where they pretend to be kids online- the guy you have sounds more worrying if he's just 'investigating' people- sounds like a recipe for accusing people because they're a bit odd and they sometimes sit in the park on their own, and there's kids in the park, and clearly 2 and 2 must make 5.

I'd pretty much guarantee some of them are child abusers hiding in plain sight too.

Yes that is what’s scary about him - he has said he’s here ‘taking to lots of people’ and he’s made it clear he’s happy to talk to anyone who might have ‘info’ - so basically he is stirring up and listening to local gossip and I assume trying to get some names so he can ‘take action’
he also talks about ‘sting operations’ but given his lack of stealth I’m doubtful

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Abhannmor · 16/01/2026 12:59

Seymorbutts · 16/01/2026 12:01

I swear every MN thread I’ve read about peadophiles (I’m probably spelling it wrong!) descends into a discussion or argument about the correct way to spell it, as if that’s the most important issue 🙄 who cares!

Well it is nice to know wtf ppl are talking about isn't it? Mind you , a paediatric clinic was attacked a few years ago by some nutters.

Perhaps a new word is needed for the hard of thinking.

RichardTemplethatbeatingRythm · 16/01/2026 12:50

XenoBitch · 15/01/2026 22:47

I don't understand the urge to post it all online either.
Send proof to the cops. No need for making it all public.

But where's the glory in that.
As you said some of ones caught have clearly got learning disabilities and obvious low mental age.

HarvestMouseandGoldenCups · 16/01/2026 12:17

They’re vigilantes which goes against what I believe is important in a modern justice system.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 12:07

Seymorbutts · 16/01/2026 12:01

I swear every MN thread I’ve read about peadophiles (I’m probably spelling it wrong!) descends into a discussion or argument about the correct way to spell it, as if that’s the most important issue 🙄 who cares!

Yeah my bad though I’ve been around mumset long enough to know I should have triple checked the spelling of every word of my OP!

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ScholesPanda · 16/01/2026 12:05

I'm sure they sometimes do good work.

The risks are obvious though - no checks on who they are or what bias they hold, little come back if they make false accusations, and the incentive to do so due to the addictive nature of social media likes and the monetisation of their channels.

The ones I've heard about tend to operate online in 'sting' type operations where they pretend to be kids online- the guy you have sounds more worrying if he's just 'investigating' people- sounds like a recipe for accusing people because they're a bit odd and they sometimes sit in the park on their own, and there's kids in the park, and clearly 2 and 2 must make 5.

I'd pretty much guarantee some of them are child abusers hiding in plain sight too.

Seymorbutts · 16/01/2026 12:01

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 11:58

Sorry if my spelling caused confusion.. no I am not referring to someone who loves feet ( although I do also find that disturbing 😂)

I swear every MN thread I’ve read about peadophiles (I’m probably spelling it wrong!) descends into a discussion or argument about the correct way to spell it, as if that’s the most important issue 🙄 who cares!

BlueJuniper94 · 16/01/2026 12:00

DameOfThrones · 15/01/2026 18:41

Then they're an attention-seeking cowboy.

What on earth would they gain from letting people know what they look like and warning paedophiles of their presence?

Exactly this