Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Pedo Hunter in Area

136 replies

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 15/01/2026 18:32

Not sure if this really is an AIBU just looking for some insights if anyone has any!

In the last couple of days a fairly well known ‘Pedophile Hunter’ group has made it known via social media etc that they are in the area where I live. It is a very small rural community and of course rumours have spread like wildfire!

I don’t really have much knowledge about these types of groups - I remember hearing something years ago about them on the news but never really looked into them. A quick google search shows a lot of debate about whether they are helpful or harmful
On the face of it it would seem like they have the best of intentions?! But they can become very violent and do sometimes get it wrong, target the person or wrong address etc

Some people locally are very excited about their presence and some are very concerned

I suppose I am just wondering really if anyone else has had any experience of this in their area and how it turned out?

for AIBU purposes

YABU - they are no threat to the community and only want to help protect children

YANBU - they are vigilante groups who hinder police investigations and often act on local gossip and end up targeting innocent individuals

Thanks for any insights 😊

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Shegotanology · 16/01/2026 17:20

@Dappy777 The argument for it still doesn't detract from what I said.

RoamingToaster · 16/01/2026 17:19

The problem is people who are intelligent and can look at cases with disinterest aren’t going to be the sorts to sign up to these groups. It’s more the kinds of people who like violence and the thrill of confrontation.

Coffeeishot · 16/01/2026 17:14

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 17:13

Yeah he gives me the major heebie jeebies I hope I don’t actually bump into him in the shop or something - I’m not very good at hiding my facial expressions 😲

I was reading some of "communities" fb pages they all seem to have their own issues and in fighting.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 17:13

Coffeeishot · 16/01/2026 17:00

@Noluckcatchingthemswansthen I was looking them up, he is a creepy looking fecker isn't he ? And he is trying to flog cbd oil so # Ad 😀

Yeah he gives me the major heebie jeebies I hope I don’t actually bump into him in the shop or something - I’m not very good at hiding my facial expressions 😲

OP posts:
Dappy777 · 16/01/2026 17:12

Shegotanology · 16/01/2026 15:46

I imagine everyone here cares about children. We can't allow just anyone to take the law into their own hands without putting innocent people at risk. If we all decided to mete out justice whenever we saw fit, there would be absolute chaos.

But some people would argue that young girls are at risk because the police don’t have the time or resources to pursue the countless men who groom or target them. For every man who is caught and prosecuted, dozens remain under the radar.

Coffeeishot · 16/01/2026 17:00

@Noluckcatchingthemswansthen I was looking them up, he is a creepy looking fecker isn't he ? And he is trying to flog cbd oil so # Ad 😀

JH0404 · 16/01/2026 16:24

soupyspoon · 16/01/2026 15:55

These people arent doing any of this because they care about children. They have an unhealthy fascination with sexual abuse of children, they like centering themselves, they like aggro and trouble and they like the self importance.

Dont delude yourself they actually care about victims.

I think you are on to something here, I hadn’t thought about it from this angle. I know that police officers/staff are only allowed to work in this department for a limited period of time due to the distressing nature of the crimes. They also have enforced breaks, welfare checks and access to therapy. Thinking about it, something sits very badly about someone who is doing this for a hobby and attention.

PowerhouseOfTheCell · 16/01/2026 16:14

My uncle's house almost got torched because of one of these knuckle dragging thug groups. They whipped up a frenzy locally, which cuminated with posts of 'There's a nonce at 12 Rose Grove'
Cue a massive group descending on the house, which was 12 Rose WAY, ready to burn the place to the ground with him and his young family in it. The only thing that saved him was that someone who was friendly with him noticed his personalised number plate and alerted the nutters that they weren't even in the right place Hmm

gumpyforest · 16/01/2026 16:13

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:08

No I'm not. I care about children.

Nobody on this thread is saying we don’t care about children and are in favour of pedos! But these groups have ulterior motives (ego) and often hinder cases never mind all the chaos and trauma they cause with mistaken identities, innocent family members etc.

Im sorry about what happened to your niece but these groups aren’t the answer. The idea of them exposing her abuser probably appeals to you but in reality their actions could prevent a prosecution.

As I said earlier I’m also very skeptical about people taking it upon themselves to engage in these conversations, unasked and unmonitored. They are weirdos.

MonTueLife · 16/01/2026 15:58

I hate these groups. What’s to stop them picking on a random innocent person, putting it all over the internet. That person could go on to be found completely innocent without a stain on their character but people will always say “no smoke without fire” or will never find out they were innocent.

These groups could hand their “evidence” quietly to the police but then they wouldn’t get the attention and social Media clicks they crave

soupyspoon · 16/01/2026 15:55

These people arent doing any of this because they care about children. They have an unhealthy fascination with sexual abuse of children, they like centering themselves, they like aggro and trouble and they like the self importance.

Dont delude yourself they actually care about victims.

Shegotanology · 16/01/2026 15:46

I imagine everyone here cares about children. We can't allow just anyone to take the law into their own hands without putting innocent people at risk. If we all decided to mete out justice whenever we saw fit, there would be absolute chaos.

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:29

I think I just have a blind rage in me when it comes to these excuses for human beings. I think if I came across the man who abused my niece I wouldn't be able to be held responsible for my actions.

Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 15:26

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:08

No I'm not. I care about children.

We all care about children and are in favour of predators being brought to justice but I think the point is we need to make sure we are not just blindly following these groups just because they call themselves paedophile hunters and say some of the the right things.. we have to look at their motives and actions to decide whether they are actually doing more harm than good

OP posts:
Noluckcatchingthemswansthen · 16/01/2026 15:26

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:08

No I'm not. I care about children.

We all care about children and are in favour of predators being brought to justice but I think the point is we need to make sure we are not just blindly following these groups just because they call themselves paedophile hunters and say some of the the right things.. we have to look at their motives and actions to decide whether they are actually doing more harm than good

OP posts:
Dappy777 · 16/01/2026 15:23

People always use the word vigilante, and then add that “we should leave it to the police,” which would be fine if the police took care of the problem, but they don’t. It isn’t their fault of course. I once heard a policeman say that if we pursued every man who views pornographic images of children, or grooms underage girls online, we’d need a separate police force.

We underestimate how many men have an unhealthy interest in young girls. True pedophilia (a sexual interest in children, i. e boys and girls around four or five years old) is relatively rare, but a sexual interest in young girls certainly isn’t.

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:23

I may be biased because I have a relative who was abused online at 12 years old ruining her life

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:22

IAmKerplunk · 16/01/2026 15:15

And what about innocent vulnerable members of society who are traumatised by these vigilante gangs? Do you not think their parents are worried and want to keep them safe?

I can't say I've seen any of that

soupyspoon · 16/01/2026 15:19

They're nearly always criminal/anti social types, very very often with sexual abuse backgrounds, either adults or children.

Many have women as part of the groups who also have dubious 'relationships' with children often presenting themselves as protectors/saviours of missing kids or troubled kids who always for some reason congregate round their houses.

IAmKerplunk · 16/01/2026 15:15

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:08

No I'm not. I care about children.

And what about innocent vulnerable members of society who are traumatised by these vigilante gangs? Do you not think their parents are worried and want to keep them safe?

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 15:08

gumpyforest · 16/01/2026 15:06

Then you’re as dense as they are.

No I'm not. I care about children.

gumpyforest · 16/01/2026 15:06

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 14:45

I think they are invaluable in protecting children these monsters should be named and shamed. It's not like they ever even get a jail sentence

Then you’re as dense as they are.

IAmKerplunk · 16/01/2026 14:57

ThatFairy · 16/01/2026 14:45

I think they are invaluable in protecting children these monsters should be named and shamed. It's not like they ever even get a jail sentence

Tell that to our service users many of whom are severely autistic or with acquired brain injury and didn’t understand what was going on and were scared and already find it hard to be out and about because of the way twats view them and even though these service users have done nothing wrong they get harassed by lowlifes purely because they live in the same place as a sex offender. And then explain to the loved ones of these service users as to why they no longer feel safe going into town, or swimming or to their day centre and instead want to stay inside.

IAmKerplunk · 16/01/2026 14:53

We had a vigilante group turn up at work (supported living) the person they were after (service user) was already on sex offenders register but had somehow managed to get hold of a phone and was trying to groom a young girl again. They could have easily come to the on-site office and explained what they found but instead they scared and traumatised the staff and other vulnerable service users (none of whom had done anything wrong) threatening to set fire to the place, putting the filming on Facebook (never mind that we have vulnerable people living there who could be targeted when out in public as ‘guilty by association’) It was an awful ordeal - but I’m sure the vigilantes still thought they were doing right 🙄

Swipe left for the next trending thread