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To be annoyed at my seat in restaurant?

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inkyspells · 15/01/2026 08:21

So last night me and partner went for a Indian meal for a belated birthday celebration.
Heard lots of good reviews but because there was just the two of us they put us on the two table (which was bang in the middle and people either side,no room to move etc )
I felt so uncomfortable the whole meal.
Felt like the other people watching us eating,couldn’t talk etc
I asked to move but they said “2 people is these tables “
Anyway il add a photo with arrow showing our table
abiu ? Or are these tables ridiculous
Bear in mind we have 2 curry’s ,2 cocktails ,2 rice ,a nan all on there and literally couldn’t move.

To be annoyed at my seat in restaurant?
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VioletandMauve · 15/01/2026 13:22

snowmichael · 15/01/2026 13:19

Seems reasonable to seat two people at a table for two

That wasn’t the issue 🙄 - the issue was because the 2 seater tables were packed in so close to each other

Sidebeforeself · 15/01/2026 13:19

inkyspells · 15/01/2026 13:16

We only stayed because we had to leave our bank details on booking ..so if we had of left we would of been charged £20 as a no show fee
I did ask for another table but they said no
My partner was looking at me thinking I was going to cause a scene so I just sat down

You can’t be charged as a no show when you’ve turned up. You don’t need to cause a seen. You can be polite and smiley and explain the problem.

snowmichael · 15/01/2026 13:19

Seems reasonable to seat two people at a table for two

TheDenimPoet · 15/01/2026 13:17

I hate sitting like that with the people I'm actually dining with - i.e. stuck in the middle without an easy way out.. never mind people I don't even know! That's absolutely bizarre.

inkyspells · 15/01/2026 13:16

We only stayed because we had to leave our bank details on booking ..so if we had of left we would of been charged £20 as a no show fee
I did ask for another table but they said no
My partner was looking at me thinking I was going to cause a scene so I just sat down

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Lisavanderpumpsdog · 15/01/2026 13:12

No it's shit. We had a similar situation at a place we'd been keen to try recently, although not quite as bad as we could still get in/out of our own table but the sound from all the other tables was so bad and overpowering that I couldn't wait to get out. We'd already ordered before the other people arrived, if I'd seen how it was before we sat down I wouldn't have stayed.
It's such a shame because the food was nice but I simply can not enjoy a meal like that so won't be going back.

Sidebeforeself · 15/01/2026 13:12

But why the hell fid you sit there?! You can see it’s cramped even when empty. I cant understand why you went ahead with your meal, dropped £100 , and only complain about it on here afterwards! The more customers who refuse to dit there, the more they will realise they are losing money and need a different set up

Idontjetwashthefucker · 15/01/2026 13:11

Fuck that shit, once I'm seated I'm not moving to let people in or to go to the toilet, not happening. If a customer needs to move to accommodate another, then the tables are too close

GreyBeeplus3 · 15/01/2026 13:09

Well Inkyspells,
Next time you'll not be making that mistake ever again
Having done it this time

wishingonastar101 · 15/01/2026 13:08

you would literally be rubbing your butt through someones jalfrezi everytime you needed the loo!

400rider · 15/01/2026 13:06

This isn’t respecting your privacy.
I went into Waterstones in Coventry for coffee. Identical set up! I felt uncomfortable even then because the students next to me were trying to discreetly have a row!

My husband would have made us leave, and I would have been glad with a takeaway

Faceonthewrongfoot · 15/01/2026 13:05

Many years ago my boyfriend at the time booked us a Valentine's meal in a chain restaurant, and that was exactly how they had arranged their tables. Basically as many 'tables for 2' as they could cram in, virtually no gap between them. It felt like you were having a meal with the people either side of you. You couldn't have a conversation without both sides hearing all of it. One and only time I've ever eaten out on Valentine's day! It's just greedy and doesn't focus on the customer at all.

EdgyLimeShark · 15/01/2026 13:05

Ooh yeah that’s awful. I’d of left.

anotherside · 15/01/2026 13:01

Should have just left. I always follow the waiter to the suggested table but if I don’t like it I’ll just ask for somewhere else. If they say no then you can make a choice based on that.

Isobel201 · 15/01/2026 12:59

that is absurdly tight, I wouldn't have got through that gap. I know they're trying to fit in as many people as possible, but not to the extent you can't get in and out.

Irememberwhenitwasallfieldsroundhere · 15/01/2026 12:58

I wouldn't have accepted that table, I'd have asked to move and if they said no, I'd have left.

BuildbyNumbere · 15/01/2026 12:57

Way too close … how can you even get out with asking people from other tables to move. There should be max. 3 tables along that section!

takingthepissoutofme · 15/01/2026 12:52

Imagine having to move your drink every time someone want to get up to go to the toilet and swipes their arse across your table 😂way to close, there should only be 3 tables in that area ideally

susiedaisy1912 · 15/01/2026 12:30

Nearly50omg · 15/01/2026 12:28

If it’s a busy restaurant and full then why would you be seated at a table for 4 for example? 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

I get that but they have too many 2 seater tables rammed into the photo op showed us.

susiedaisy1912 · 15/01/2026 12:29

I would have asked to be moved and insisted on it or left. That’s a horrible table to be sat on. Yanbu op

inkyspells · 15/01/2026 12:29

Then within a few mins all tables were occupied

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inkyspells · 15/01/2026 12:29

So basically when we arrived only 1 table was sat .right on pic
so we got in then filled the next and next but when the very far table wanted to leave ,the back seating had to stand to allow them out

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Nearly50omg · 15/01/2026 12:28

If it’s a busy restaurant and full then why would you be seated at a table for 4 for example? 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Balkancity · 15/01/2026 12:24

We went to a little French restaurant once which was like this and was an even bigger nightmare into the corners of the restaurant. There was a fairly big group to one side of us and as a waitress was approaching with a tray of drinks someone at that table tried to get out from the table and the waitress was knocked spilling all the drinks. The restaurant later tried to charge that table for the spilled drinks and it was only when a number of us surrounding (one benefit was that we could all hear!) pointed out that the cramped layout was actually the issue did they back down. Suspect the waitress may have had to foot the bill which is also an unfair outcome of corporate greed.

TinyCottageGirl · 15/01/2026 12:22

Leave a review with the pics attached - this is absolutely ludicrous, how do people get up to go to the bathroom?