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Any night owls?

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TheOpalFox · 15/01/2026 00:54

I wish there was like a cafe you could go in for when the nights are long :( I’m an over thinker and can’t sleep till silly o’clock most nights!!! Wish there was like a cafe that we could go to at night lol

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MulberryFresser · 22/01/2026 10:05

TheOpalFox · 19/01/2026 12:28

Has your sleep been any better?

I have been on holiday abroad for a week. No sleep issues. My job can be stressful.

Interestingly I slept better before the perimenopause- HRT has made a difference.

TheOpalFox · 19/01/2026 12:29

Heyhelga · 15/01/2026 23:55

Night owl. I just love the peace and quiet at night.

I do but then I can’t sleep and wake up so tired :(

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TheOpalFox · 19/01/2026 12:29

Touty · 16/01/2026 00:10

Anyone else on sleeping tablets?

No I’m scared to sleep too heavy and not wake up to my 14 years old son

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TheOpalFox · 19/01/2026 12:28

MulberryFresser · 15/01/2026 18:20

I just jacked it in at 6am and started my day. Now paying for it by almost falling asleep before dinner.

At what point do you just cut your losses and wake up? 3am? 4am? 5am? I also don’t want to wake my Cavapoo up as she needs her sleep!

Has your sleep been any better?

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Touty · 16/01/2026 00:10

Anyone else on sleeping tablets?

Heyhelga · 15/01/2026 23:55

Night owl. I just love the peace and quiet at night.

HelenaWaiting · 15/01/2026 23:43

CarrieMoonbeams · 15/01/2026 07:26

Looks like I have inadvertently discovered a cure for my insomnia - start contributing to a thread where others can't sleep either!

There's a nice big piece of flapjack here for you though @JanuaryJasmine , home-made so calories don't count, obviously.

I hope you (and indeed everyone else here) managed to drift off to sleep eventually. We're retired now but I well remember that feeling of watching the clock going round and getting more and more anxious about not being able to sleep because my alarm clock would be going off at a certain time.

I hope you were able to at least park the thoughts of whatever is worrying you and get some rest 🤗

@HelenaWaiting what a beautiful dog, look at that earnest little face 😍
@Toolatetochangemyname aaargh, the little pink nose and toe beans, too cute! We lost our last little cat last year but I used to love drifting off to sleep listening to him purring.

Right, I'm going to start my day now! Cup of tea first, then feed the dogs and then the birds - there's a lovely little robin that waits in my garden from about 7.30 onwards pip-pip-pipping away.

Hope everyone managed to get a bit of sleep eventually and that your days go well 🤗

She's a cheeky madam.

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 15/01/2026 23:16

In for another shift tonight. Still getting through Runaway on Netflix. Husband has just started snoring next to me

JanuaryJasmine · 15/01/2026 23:13

CarrieMoonbeams · 15/01/2026 07:26

Looks like I have inadvertently discovered a cure for my insomnia - start contributing to a thread where others can't sleep either!

There's a nice big piece of flapjack here for you though @JanuaryJasmine , home-made so calories don't count, obviously.

I hope you (and indeed everyone else here) managed to drift off to sleep eventually. We're retired now but I well remember that feeling of watching the clock going round and getting more and more anxious about not being able to sleep because my alarm clock would be going off at a certain time.

I hope you were able to at least park the thoughts of whatever is worrying you and get some rest 🤗

@HelenaWaiting what a beautiful dog, look at that earnest little face 😍
@Toolatetochangemyname aaargh, the little pink nose and toe beans, too cute! We lost our last little cat last year but I used to love drifting off to sleep listening to him purring.

Right, I'm going to start my day now! Cup of tea first, then feed the dogs and then the birds - there's a lovely little robin that waits in my garden from about 7.30 onwards pip-pip-pipping away.

Hope everyone managed to get a bit of sleep eventually and that your days go well 🤗

Ooh that flapjack was amazing!! 😋

thank you 🌷

No sleep I'm afraid, was just getting drifty about 5.20 when some twat decided to noisily get in thrift car then idle it beneath my bedroom window for 30 minutes (30 bloidy minutes!!) . He was on his phone. If I'd been clothed I'd have gone down there but I wasn't & im disabled now & have a bout of vertigo, so rushing (ha ha) about doing that would have done me no favours!

then I was wound up & wide awake so my day started! The only good thing was hearing the birds who have been very quiet since it gif very cold. It's like the warmer temperature defrosted tgem !!

anyway, going to save the rest of the thread for tomorrow & TRY to get some skeep

xx

best wishes all!!

MulberryFresser · 15/01/2026 18:20

I just jacked it in at 6am and started my day. Now paying for it by almost falling asleep before dinner.

At what point do you just cut your losses and wake up? 3am? 4am? 5am? I also don’t want to wake my Cavapoo up as she needs her sleep!

CarrieMoonbeams · 15/01/2026 07:26

Looks like I have inadvertently discovered a cure for my insomnia - start contributing to a thread where others can't sleep either!

There's a nice big piece of flapjack here for you though @JanuaryJasmine , home-made so calories don't count, obviously.

I hope you (and indeed everyone else here) managed to drift off to sleep eventually. We're retired now but I well remember that feeling of watching the clock going round and getting more and more anxious about not being able to sleep because my alarm clock would be going off at a certain time.

I hope you were able to at least park the thoughts of whatever is worrying you and get some rest 🤗

@HelenaWaiting what a beautiful dog, look at that earnest little face 😍
@Toolatetochangemyname aaargh, the little pink nose and toe beans, too cute! We lost our last little cat last year but I used to love drifting off to sleep listening to him purring.

Right, I'm going to start my day now! Cup of tea first, then feed the dogs and then the birds - there's a lovely little robin that waits in my garden from about 7.30 onwards pip-pip-pipping away.

Hope everyone managed to get a bit of sleep eventually and that your days go well 🤗

sashh · 15/01/2026 05:03

TheOpalFox · 15/01/2026 01:37

This sounds amazing

I'm still running it

www.mumsnet.com/talk/the-wide-awake-club/5471167-the-happy-place-cafe-is-open-2026?latest=1

HelpMeGetThrough · 15/01/2026 04:48

Night owl here, not through overthinking, as I can park stuff like that. I have chronic plain with Rheumatoid Arthritis and it always decides I need painkillers at silly o’clock when it wakes me up. This week to top it off, my stomach has been really bad. I had emergency bowel surgery the end of last year and a tonne taken out. That decided this week to cause major stomach pain, so it’s been a perfect storm on my body.

I can’t even drink coffee at the moment, so I’m on Betty’s tea (how posh!! 🤣).

Still, I count my blessings, there are many worse off than me.

JanuaryJasmine · 15/01/2026 04:44

TheOpalFox · 15/01/2026 01:37

This sounds amazing

It was! I had a different user name then. The only resin I stopped going to the cafe was because everyone was so great to talk to it was making my sleep even words!! 🙇🏻‍♀️

JanuaryJasmine · 15/01/2026 04:41

CarrieMoonbeams · 15/01/2026 01:37

A café sounds good @TheOpalFox , I'll buy the drinks. Hot chocolate for me, extra cream but no marshmallows, what would you like? And you too @Farticus101, @Frog99 and @JanuaryJasmine . A piece of flapjack too?

I am old, and I did laugh when I read recently that "old age is the balance of trying to stay awake during the day and trying to stay asleep at night." So true!

Anything particular worrying any of you that you want to talk about, or do you just want a general chat? I'm listening to a glorious combination of DH snoring gently, and one of our dogs having one of those muffled woofy dreams.

I did actually hear an owl earlier though, a female tawny owl hunting. I love listening to that.

Oh I'd love a piece of flapjack too!

I'm fighting the urge to go & make a hot drink & have a biscuit! Big fud to health issues I do need to fight it! 🙇🏻‍♀️

i envy your snoring DH! I also envy you having him there & your dog! I find both help me sleep!

Lots on my mind which probably isn't helping, health condition is known to cause insomnia & I already had it before (possibly/probably partly the cause of it).

I like the owls too! My friend has had one the past few nights and she's threatening to do uncharitable things to it, she's not enjoying it at all!! (in reality, she wouldn't touch a feather on it and is much more likely to put out some food for it!)

MulberryFresser · 15/01/2026 04:41

This is me most nights - I have a Cavapoo who is sleeping beautifully at my feet!

changednameagainobvs · 15/01/2026 04:37

I'm awake too. A combination of pain and overthinking keeping me awake. I can't get comfy and my cats are taking up over half the bed.

Toolatetochangemyname · 15/01/2026 04:35

Very cute and quite dignified 👍
See below for the opposite.. but still cute

Any night owls?
Neighull · 15/01/2026 04:29

I have backwards insomnia. Fall asleep in a snap, wake up at 4/5. Its like my body only wants 5 hours sleep

StarlightLady · 15/01/2026 04:21

From time to time l have to get up in the middle of the night for video meetings with the southern hemisphere. I rarely get back off to sleep properly afterwards. I’d come to your cafe OP.

HelenaWaiting · 15/01/2026 04:11

Toolatetochangemyname · 15/01/2026 02:51

Am just over the lurgy, it’s horrible- what kind of dog do u have?

Cavapoo.

Any night owls?
Toolatetochangemyname · 15/01/2026 02:51

Am just over the lurgy, it’s horrible- what kind of dog do u have?

HelenaWaiting · 15/01/2026 02:41

Pneumonia following flu. My back is killing me. I keep falling asleep exhausted at 10 and waking up at 2 in the morning. My dog is snoring her head off which is kind of adding insult to injury.