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AIBU to offer 15-20k under asking price

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HappyDreamer · 14/01/2026 22:51

We are first time buyers with no chain looking for a 3 bed house.

We viewed one today asking price is £200,000. It has a new roof and decent windows. However the kitchen needs re-doing, as does the bathroom at some point. All rooms need updating by stripping, plastering and decorating as has been in the family since the 60s.

The house has a parking space for one car and is semi detached.

I have looked at other houses in the area that have sold recently and a few that are more modern with a decent kitchen and bathroom are selling for max 220/225.

Son is selling as dad has sadly passed and son is moving away next month and wants to sell asap.

is it unreasonable to offer 15-20k less at 185/187? The kitchen will cost around 10k plus the bathroom and other things that need doing.

OP posts:
Blondeshavemorefun · 15/01/2026 09:23

Don’t ask don’t get

wou” you pay £200 if need to ?

TheatreTheatre · 15/01/2026 09:20

An offer of 10% under isn’t unreasonable. Go for it… they they can refuse or counter offer.

Decide how much you are actually willing to pay. If someone else is willing to pay more, so be it.

District66 · 15/01/2026 09:10

Everything comes down to seller motivation
I might put my house on the market in April just to see if we get any bites
If somebody offers me the price that I want for it, I might move
But if they don’t, I won’t

TalulahJP · 15/01/2026 09:08

it’s a cheap house. others will be looking. how much do you want it?

offer what you want but dont be surprised if it’s bought very quickly by someone else. houses are flying where i am at the mo. youre in a good position if youve not got property to sell but i doubt they will discount it that much.

LoveWine123 · 15/01/2026 08:57

It fully depends on the local market and how houses are selling in your area, also how long this house has been on the market. £20K sounds like quite a discount on a £200K property that has been priced to reflect the level of modernisation needed. Not to mention they have already done the roof and windows. It also depends on how much you want the house. I would go with £10K under and see the response. If the house has been sitting for a while then I’d offer £20K under.

Fibrous · 15/01/2026 08:03

A new kitchen is going to cost more than that.

Sw1989 · 15/01/2026 08:00

I always think it's worth a try. We made a cheeky offer that was £25k under the asking price, thinking there was no way it would be accepted, and it was as the sellers were on the verge of losing their onward purchase due to a buyer pulling out before us. Just bear in mind that if you proceed and there's any further issues found with surveys later down the line, it's unlikely you'd be in a position to negotiate further money off.

AhBiscuits · 15/01/2026 07:24

Worth a go. I am selling a house atm and would accept that sort of offer on it. The market in the area I'm selling is dire though.

Moonnstarz · 15/01/2026 07:23

The housing market seems a bit slow here at the moment so if they want a quick sale and not had much interest from anyone else then they might be more likely to sell.

Eyewhisker · 15/01/2026 07:17

In some areas, house prices are falling and there is nothing wrong with offering below the asking price. It is normal to start a bit lower as asking prices are often high.

You will get some sellers - like some of the replies above - who think it is insulting to receive offers lower than the asking price and act like it is a personal affront. I do not understand it as surely it is equally bad to be a greedy seller trying to extort as much as they can from struggling young families. Especially as they either got the house for free (inheritance) or paid very little for it themselves. But anyway, you have can’t control who the seller is, so be prepared to walk away.

Spoodles · 15/01/2026 07:09

DonaldCampbellCameron · 15/01/2026 01:21

Why would you offer lower if, as per the research you’ve done, the price of the house is already reduced to reflect the fact that the kitchen and bathroom need re-doing? What else needs re-doing? The whole house needs to be re-plastered?

Agreed. I'm confused as to why you think they would accept a lower offer when it's clearly already been priced for reflect that it needs some work?

That doesn't mean you can't offer, but realistically why would they consider accepting your offer when the £200k price acknowledges it's not in perfect condition.

I also don't for one second believe this house needs to be completely re-plastered.

itsthetea · 15/01/2026 07:08

It sounds like it’s correctly priced for its state snd you shouldn’t expect to make a profit on installing a new kitchen which you might if you get it even less than advertised

but conditions are tough for sellers

carpetfluffs · 15/01/2026 07:05

This is such a load of nonsense. Plenty of properties come to market overvalued particularly ones that haven’t been on the market in a long time. Our housing quality in the UK is very poor value for many & often poorly maintained.
Some people are so weird when it comes to selling & buying property & interestingly it’s never considered cheeky to over inflate the value of your property or to question the general burden we put on younger generations.

SumTingWongwithme · 15/01/2026 07:05

Depends how long it has been on the market?

TulipCat · 15/01/2026 07:03

I agree with PP that it sounds like it's been priced to reflect the condition, but you can of course offer whatever you want. It depends on the area, but where I am, "do-er uppers" or partial do-er uppers go for more than just the difference between the cost of the work and a house already done. This is because some people are willing to pay for the opportunity to put their stamp on the work, ie have it done exactly as they want as opposed to living with the previous owner's design that doesn't really justify changing because it's reasonably new.

Cosyblankets · 15/01/2026 07:02

EricTheHalfASleeve · 15/01/2026 06:42

New roof, rewiring, kitchen, bathroom, complete redecoration will cost way more than 20K - probably more like 50K.
Plus the risk of finding other problems in a house last renovated in the 60s.
I'd probably start 30K below asking & explain why. Be prepared to negotiate up but have a hard ceiling price- building & renovation costs have skyrocketed in recent years. You may not be able to live there during all of the work and you have to have the cash to pay for it.

It has a new roof. So therefore it's already had money spent on that.
How long it's been on the market will be a big factor. If it's only just come on I'd say no but if it's been on a while then they're more likely to accept.
Don't worry about offending anyone. Offer what you like but don't be surprised if it doesn't get accepted.

I sold a probate house. Priced to sell as it needed work. Got an offer in a couple of weeks considerably under and i said no. They came back a few days later with a better offer, but I still said no and then they offered asking price. If it had been on a few months I would have accepted.

Make your offer but be prepared to go higher if it's the house you want and the asking price is still in your budget as you may end up paying that

Blacksheepatnewyear · 15/01/2026 06:57

Yabvu. The house will be valued in it's current condition. Taking off what it would cost you to upgrade it is very very cheeky & an insult to the seller. Please don't do this.

ClassicalQueen · 15/01/2026 06:54

It sounds like it’s being priced appropriately if houses that are done up sell for 20k more. You can offer what you like, and the seller can either agree or disagree. However you can’t go lower once you’ve offered higher, so start low and be prepared to offer up.

MimiSunshine · 15/01/2026 06:51

EricTheHalfASleeve · 15/01/2026 06:42

New roof, rewiring, kitchen, bathroom, complete redecoration will cost way more than 20K - probably more like 50K.
Plus the risk of finding other problems in a house last renovated in the 60s.
I'd probably start 30K below asking & explain why. Be prepared to negotiate up but have a hard ceiling price- building & renovation costs have skyrocketed in recent years. You may not be able to live there during all of the work and you have to have the cash to pay for it.

It already has a new roof and where does OP suggests it needs rewiring?
decoration is personal taste and sounds like it’s already priced to reflect it needs a new kitchen.

OP I’d discuss with the estate agent that you’re looking to make sn offer but below asking price and sound them out.
id probably go in at £190k with the expectation the owner will want to negotiate up a bit more.

EricTheHalfASleeve · 15/01/2026 06:42

New roof, rewiring, kitchen, bathroom, complete redecoration will cost way more than 20K - probably more like 50K.
Plus the risk of finding other problems in a house last renovated in the 60s.
I'd probably start 30K below asking & explain why. Be prepared to negotiate up but have a hard ceiling price- building & renovation costs have skyrocketed in recent years. You may not be able to live there during all of the work and you have to have the cash to pay for it.

carpetfluffs · 15/01/2026 06:38

Buy one of those rather than squeezing more money out of someone who is dealing with the loss of their father

What a load of nonsense!

Look at the market OP, in many areas it’s a buyers market & reductions are happening frequently. It’s quite normal to offer under.

MapleOakPine · 15/01/2026 06:37

Has it just come on the market? If so I think they'll be unlikely to accept £185 at this stage. If it's been on the market for a while and you've only just viewed it then it's more likely.

JacquesHarlow · 15/01/2026 06:32

Lurkingandlearning · 15/01/2026 05:57

You’ve got your discount as the price is that much lower than similar houses that have what you want. Buy one of those rather than squeezing more money out of someone who is dealing with the loss of their father.

Also, you don’t need to replacer walls just to decorate. It’s only necessary if the plaster is blown

Buy one of those rather than squeezing more money out of someone who is dealing with the loss of their father.

come off it @Lurkingandlearning the OP doesn’t owe this person anything for their loss!! Why do people do this on MN.. you’re trying to make them feel bad?!

It’s a bidding process.If no one else bids and the seller accepts the £20k under bid, then the OP hasn’t “squeezed money” out of them - that’s what the market said it was worth.

honestly! I had to say it, we need to stop making people feel bad on here for no good reason

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 15/01/2026 06:29

Sounds like it's been priced to sell , you've done the maths yourself. I can't see an offer below 190 being entertained.

While you are justifying costs a builder will step in at 190 - 195 renovate the whole house for less than 15k and put it for sale in a few months for 230

Konstantine8364 · 15/01/2026 06:05

A lot depends on the market. Some towns are v slow for property, but I'm in Manchester and good houses (even ones that need modernisation) are still selling super quick, a lot going to best and final.

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