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to think “decluttering” isn’t actually that simple if you want to dispose responsibly?

183 replies

HazelMember · 14/01/2026 16:21

Everyone says “just have a clear-out” like it’s a quick job. But if you don’t want to chuck everything in landfill, it’s a whole logistical exercise:

Electrical items have to be recycled.
Dead batteries need to be recycled.
Charity shops are harder and harder to park near. My local charity shops are closing down and others will only take certain items.
My local homeless charity that are kitting out temporary homes will not take new bedding. Only cash.
Some places won’t take certain clothes, toys or household items.

So you end up with piles of “good” stuff sitting around while you work out where it can actually go.

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HazelMember · 14/01/2026 16:29

Catza · 14/01/2026 16:23

You arrange a charity collection and dispose of everything except batteries in one go. Batteries just take to the supermarket the next time you go.

They will not take everything. I have tried with several charities. They want to know in advance what there is to collect and then only take some items.

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Cheezewizz · 14/01/2026 16:26

Also some b&q’s have an electrical recycling drop off, batteries to the supermarket and I use Anglo door step collection which take most things apart from duvets and pillows

coconutchocolatecream · 14/01/2026 16:26

I think you can only do your best, and then you must accept that if no-one wants it, there's not much more you can do but throw it away and be careful about what and when you buy. If you live in an area where it's possible, leaving stuff by the road for a day with a 'free' sign is an easy way to send certain things to a new home.

Row23 · 14/01/2026 16:26

Yes it’s hard to donate things now. Our local charity shops don’t really take baby clothes which I have loads to get rid of.
Even trying to sell some items is a hassle - people message and then don’t collect, or arranging postage is a faff. I end up with bags of stuff to donate or sell.
Last time I had a clothes declutter I ended up just putting it into those charity clothes bins as it’s the least hassle.

AllIdoistidyup · 14/01/2026 16:25

YANBU. I have a boot full and it's going to take a trip to the tip, a charity shop, the local rugby club and some inPost lockers to clear it all! It feels good when it's gone though.

Peoniesandcats · 14/01/2026 16:24

We have icollect and Anglo doorstep collection who will pick these things up. Will they collect from your postcode? It’s worth checking!

Catza · 14/01/2026 16:23

You arrange a charity collection and dispose of everything except batteries in one go. Batteries just take to the supermarket the next time you go.

NorthantsNewbie · 14/01/2026 16:23

YY. Our local baby bank only takes clothes up to 3 months, and is closed for donations during school holidays. It’s so frustrating!