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To have put my rubbish in the neighbours bin

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Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

OP posts:
Kelly1969 · 15/01/2026 18:47

I was about to say yes unreasonable but I changed my mind!
as their bin was under filled and no one living there it’s fine.
would be cheeky if someone living there and you don’t ask, and if you’d gone on to their drive.
but no one to ask, plenty of room and presumably not foul smelling rubbish that would leave the bin icky I assume so no harm done!

TennisLady · 15/01/2026 18:42

The house next door to us is empty, they have someone popping in once every couple of weeks and that’s it. We often pop extra recycling or waste in their bins and then take them back in etc.

ACynicalDad · 15/01/2026 18:38

For me, the issue with this is that often our bins aren't collected, and I might need that space for the next fortnight. But if it was definitely being taken or if you would go and retrieve it if needed, no problem.

Jane143 · 15/01/2026 18:33

I would definitely do the same

CrazyCatMom · 15/01/2026 18:31

YANBU!

When we first moved into our house, there was an elderly gentleman next door. I would keep an eye out for him and his dog, had his BIL’s phone number if any concerns etc

I put his bins out every week and definitely added the odd bag of our rubbish/recycling especially over Christmas when our bins were full.

Beachtastic · 15/01/2026 18:31

I think what you did was OK, OP.

but I am now terrified of putting anything into a public bin, anywhere, ever! 🤯

FancyHelper · 15/01/2026 18:29

Excellent problem solving skills. Would have done exactly the same

Queenoftartts · 15/01/2026 18:27

Zov · 14/01/2026 00:09

If there is no-one living there, then I may have done the same. Bit cheeky but no harm done. Hopefully no-one grasses you up, because the council love to fine people for shit like this. One woman was fined for sticking her own rubbish out of her car (a cardboard cup and a tissue I think) into a public bin. because it was her personal rubbish. (I know, batshit!) Also, someone got a fine in my area some weeks back for having their empty wheelie bin still on the public pavement, 3 days after it was emptied. They're so petty, so be careful!

I remember the woman fined for putting an envelope in a public bin. A few weeks back a friend of mine was going to put some fast food packaging in a public bin. She was parked nowhere near a drive through of said restaurant. Bin was on the carpark where she was parked. Mentioned about the woman fined for putting an envelope in. She put the rubbish back in her car and put it in my bin when we got to ours.😂😂😂

Calmdownfolks · 15/01/2026 18:27

Wow how unneighbourly! A real sour note to start your residency. Curmudgeonly and dog with a bone come to mind. Let's hope they never want a favour from a neighbour in the future.

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 15/01/2026 18:27

It is indeed. The people in the flat downstairs, who live there illegally were regularly putting the discarded and left over food, cartons and other stinking rubbish from the takeaway they work at in my bin.

Was informed by my local Council that they were technically fly tipping and if l could get proper evidence they could be prosecuted.

They said this sort of practise is rife and common place with takeaways who do not have a licence with an approved rubbish collection contractor

So my bin is now safe under lock and key in a neighbours brick outhouse.

If l do have extra space in my bin and a neighbour asks to use it now and then They would be welcome. But they must ask. I pay the Council tax for my bin to be emptied .

Best to keep to your of own in.

Ceceprincess80 · 15/01/2026 18:27

Jukeboxjulie69 · 15/01/2026 18:24

It’s actually council property

Still not the posters

Holycowhowmuch · 15/01/2026 18:25

Beurocracy gone mad. We are marching towards an all seeing all knowing communist paradise.

Isobel201 · 15/01/2026 18:24

yeah as long as you make sure its emptied and put back, then its fine. I've done the same once.

Jukeboxjulie69 · 15/01/2026 18:24

Ceceprincess80 · 15/01/2026 18:22

Its not your bin, so yes too cheeky. Its their property (the owners) so just leave well alone in future

It’s actually council property

Jukeboxjulie69 · 15/01/2026 18:23

Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

Not cheeky at all. No one was using it and the bin is not the property of the tenant. It’s council property. No one complained and you got your rubbish out. Think no more of it.

Ceceprincess80 · 15/01/2026 18:22

Its not your bin, so yes too cheeky. Its their property (the owners) so just leave well alone in future

TequilaNights · 15/01/2026 18:22

All my neighbours have agreements that if its bin day and there is space, have at it.

UnhappyHobbit · 15/01/2026 18:20

I don’t think that’s too bad if there is room in the bin and it’s someone who doesn’t live there.

I once watched a next door neighbour of mine put extra bin bags in my bin to the point where the lid wouldn't close and was left open.
The CF made sure hers was fully closed of course.
The councils here are very picky about overflowing bins and threaten to not collect them so I went out and removed her bags and put them on top of her wheelie bin.

They didn’t collect the extra bags. It was quite rewarding watching her throw a hissy fit later on and I gleefully watched her bring back the extra bags in defeat. One of my pettier moments, I will admit.

Jan24680 · 15/01/2026 18:18

When my tenants changed in my rental flat the council charged me £12 for it being vacant less than 2 weeks. If the neighbours had asked I'd have told them to fill it (within reason) and put it back when it had been emptied. Crack on until you see the owner about to ask or it gets new tenants. Never mind the husband.

TreacleMoon · 15/01/2026 18:17

We haven't moved out and our grotty neighbour used to put their shitty nappies and broken bin liners full of God knows what in the top of our bin on collection day (bin was out of sight and hidden behind a hedge) meaning muggins had to then wash out the bin full of rancid liquid 🤢
We don't put the bin there now and there's been nothing since - as I can see the bin from my kitchen window 👀

That said, I don't think it's cheeky to do what you did at all.. But only if they've moved out 😉

Laurmolonlabe · 15/01/2026 18:15

If anyone is living there, very cheeky, but otherwise it's fine- I live on an inside corner and people are always putting things in my bin, even filling it sometimes- infuriating.

gifdychops · 15/01/2026 18:14

Whilst I don’t think it was wrong - you could literally see the bin lorry so knew it was going to be collected and very nicely put the bin back for them.

Here’s what happened to us. Dad passed away in the summer and the house all ready to for exchange this week. Someone in the tiny road, decided to fill their bin with the biggest load of shite (think decorating - plaster etc) and put their bin on our drive. When I knocked to ask for my bin they said it was full too! Promised to put it back for bin collection day of 23/12. Bin men collected on Monday after some shite excuse of snow. Not a drop of snow in the area.

So, I think if neighbours are good to share (mine are ace) or like you can see the bin lorry then no harm but now I’ve got a filthy shitty bin - that was sat out for weeks with god nose what else shoved on the top and new people moving in soon!

user1471538283 · 15/01/2026 18:13

I wouldn't mind if my neighbours put rubbish in my bin if it was already out ready to be collected so to put it in a houseless bin in effect does no harm. It's preferable to rubbish just being left and the bags being split and/or left or it attracting vermin.

MoonWoman69 · 15/01/2026 18:10

Not cheeky at all! If there wasn't room in the bin or you'd done it and not taken the bin back, then yes. But you didn't, so it's not a problem in my eyes! It was in there literally minutes if that! Some people are so uptight when there's no need to be!

Rhodie72 · 15/01/2026 18:03

No. That's really unfair. We had a similar situation. I was a tenant and moved out and a neighbour (also a supposed friend) then chucked all their rubbish, including cushions, clothes, lamps, into my bin. I had to pay out of deposit. That is a total NO