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To have put my rubbish in the neighbours bin

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Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

OP posts:
MrsJeanLuc · 15/01/2026 22:34

Thelittlegreyone · 14/01/2026 05:01

It’s technically flytipping.

Don't be ridiculous!

TheWibble · 15/01/2026 21:59

I don't see the issue. My neighbour is a 4 person household and I'm a 2nperson household. I rarely fill my wheelie bin to the top, whereas she struggles with extra bags because she has a baby in nappies. I'm always telling her to use any available space in my bin once i've put it out. It just makes sense.

pouletvous · 15/01/2026 21:49

Nobody complained and no harm
done? What’s the problem?

isthesolution · 15/01/2026 21:48

Absolutely would not do this. Yes it’s cheeky.

Bernardo1 · 15/01/2026 21:47

Yes.

RavenhairedRachel · 15/01/2026 21:46

I can't see anything wrong with it. What's the difference emptying a full bin or one a tenth full. It's not the crime of the century.

Lunde · 15/01/2026 21:36

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 15/01/2026 19:13

6 weeks!! You should all be refusing to pay your council tax.

I live in Sweden and pay 34% of my disability benefits to the council. The 6 weekly bin collections are their new strategy - to be fair they do collect organic, compostable food waste every 2 weeks - but only if you put it in paper bags in the organic bin - the general waste, plastic recycling and cardboard are each every 6 weeks.

It was a bit of a shock when we got back from holiday to find 4 bins.

Happyher · 15/01/2026 21:10

I don’t think you did anything wrong. My bin is frequently not full so I’ve told my neighbour to put her excess rubbish in mine if she needs to as long as the lid shuts properly as required by council

lifeonmars100 · 15/01/2026 20:54

TreacleMoon · 15/01/2026 18:17

We haven't moved out and our grotty neighbour used to put their shitty nappies and broken bin liners full of God knows what in the top of our bin on collection day (bin was out of sight and hidden behind a hedge) meaning muggins had to then wash out the bin full of rancid liquid 🤢
We don't put the bin there now and there's been nothing since - as I can see the bin from my kitchen window 👀

That said, I don't think it's cheeky to do what you did at all.. But only if they've moved out 😉

My vile and continually horrendous neighbours dumped a load of maggot infested rotting food in my bin. They must have done in the early hours of the morning on bin collection day. We can put our bins out from 4pm onwards on the day before the collection and this is what I always do So imagine my horror when I went to pop some extra rubbish in it on the following morning before the bin lorry arrived to find it full to the brim with stinking old food, and maggots and flies crawling around. They are an unofficial HMO and produce tons of rubbish, i noticed that their bin was also filled to the brim with rotting food too. This is just one of the many things they have got up to, I hate them!

ColcColdColder · 15/01/2026 20:46

I stuck the rubbish out of my car in my neighbours bin this week, ours was overflowing and hers had one small bag in it, and we put her bin out for her.
She wouldn’t mind and had already left to go to work.

Strawberrryfields · 15/01/2026 20:40

Absolutely fine and sensible. Would only find it cheeky if it wasn’t properly bagged and leaving their bin messy or smelly with food or whatever.

BlanketyBlankBlank · 15/01/2026 20:38

zanahoria · 15/01/2026 19:39

I love a bins thread

Do you wheelie 🤣

Kizmet1 · 15/01/2026 20:37

IMO it's not at all cheeky. Just practical and good sense! The bin was being collected either way, this just ensured a bit more rubbish was taken. No harm done at all.

blackpooolrock · 15/01/2026 20:08

me and my neighbours do this all the time. They know if they need bin space they can chuck it in my bin, i don't care one jot. Likewise if i need something in the bin that i don't have space for they said use theirs.

I don't understand why people would be so territorial about bin space.

Egg7 · 15/01/2026 19:49

I do this all the time!

zanahoria · 15/01/2026 19:39

I love a bins thread

Usernamenotav · 15/01/2026 19:37

Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

My neighbour died recently and his mum came round to put his bin out the night before bin day. Was just after Christmas like you so I filled it 🤷‍♀️
It's just a bin. I'm sure he wouldn't mind.

truffleruffle · 15/01/2026 19:24

Definitely don’t see a problem with this. I tell my neighbour to use mine if she needs. I wouldn’t have a problem with anyone using mine as long as the rubbish was tied up, as I like my bin kept clean and I use a liner.
before anyone comments I know I’m OTT.

Mummadeze · 15/01/2026 19:17

I am obviously very cheeky and embarrassing as I always have too much rubbish so I go to several half empty bins down our street and put my bags in on collection day. Otherwise it will pile up. If they want me not to do this, they should go back to weekly bun collections!

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 15/01/2026 19:13

Lunde · 15/01/2026 18:58

I don't see a problem if the house is truly empty.

But if not empty - it would cause a riot around here now that we only get out main bins collected every 6 weeks

6 weeks!! You should all be refusing to pay your council tax.

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 15/01/2026 19:12

Of course it's ok....I honestly despair that anyone could think it wasn't.

I'd have made sure I disposed of everything possible to make the most of it.

Just to say, my mum (along with a lot of elderly people) became obsessed with the contents of her bin. Woe betide me if a poo bag was put in it!!

I think anyone giving more than a moment's thought to the content of their bin should probably give a bit more thought to the content of their mind.

Lunde · 15/01/2026 18:58

I don't see a problem if the house is truly empty.

But if not empty - it would cause a riot around here now that we only get out main bins collected every 6 weeks

DisposableName26 · 15/01/2026 18:55

I wouldn’t worry about it. My next door neighbour has 4 wheelie bins. One because there were complete arseholes living next door when I first moved here, and while my house was empty they stole the wheelie bin from my house, so they had two and I had to order one when I first moved here. Then more people moved to that house, not current neighbours, and they brought their wheelie bin with them from their old house 🤷‍♀️. So by the time current neighbours moved there, there were 3 bins. And next door to them, so two houses along from me, the tenant has been ill and in hospital for the last two years, so they added that bin to their collection too, making 4. I only have 3 people living here and they have 6 but I’m still mystified as to how they manage to fill 4 bins every 3 weeks, I usually still have plenty of room in the one that I have!

EeyoresLostTail · 15/01/2026 18:48

sorry i'm with your Husband it is very cheeky its one of my pet hates I have neighbours who do that all the time and i get so frustrated as they usually put something Lose in Rubbish then Binmen wont take so mine dosnt get emptied or worse they bung a Black Bag in Recycling same again Binmen then wont touch

Pinepeak2434 · 15/01/2026 18:47

I wouldn’t mind if asked, but my council fines for incorrect items going in the wrong bin so it would piss me off if someone just dumped their rubbish in my bin. Someone kept putting their dog poo bags in my bin and it made the bin stink, thankfully I have CCTV which they obviously hadn’t realised and I discovered it was a neighbour a few doors down, so the next time they did it I gave it back to them…via their letterbox.