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Arlanymor · 12/01/2026 18:51

What little superstitions do you and your family follow? My aunt died today (we didn't think she would make it until Christmas and I got to see her very recently so I am feeling sad, but fairly fortunate in that regard, she really was not well) - my mum was with her and sent me a text to let me know. I responded with my sympathies (it was her sister) and I said: "Don't forget to open a window." And mum said she already had - do you do that too? To let their soul out?

I don't care about walking under ladders (I look up first!) or putting shoes (new ones, I'm not a grot!) on tables or anything like that. And I think it's lucky if a black cat crosses my path as nine times out of ten I get to have a cwtch! So I don't consider myself superstitious, but the window thing is second nature.

So what do you do? (I think I am trying to cheer myself up a bit with distractions).

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Chiefangel · 25/01/2026 16:55

Pinch punch first of the month, I get really annoyed with myself if I forget to do this to someone.

Back luck to cut nails on a Friday and if you cut them on a Sunday, then you’ll have the devil on your back for the rest of the week.

I also don’t like crossing someone on the stairs .

RichardTemplethatbeatingRythm · 13/01/2026 18:43

I remember closed curtains in a house when someone died.
Don't know why as I was a child at the time.
Ne Scotland early 70s.

Jitterybugs2 · 13/01/2026 18:41

My Irish mum had lots of superstitions most of them mentioned already. But her umbrella one was don’t put an open umbrella over your head in the house eg a child playing with one. It was ok opened on the floor to dry.

Also, don’t look at a new moon through glass. That was a tricky one as you were usually looking through a window when you spotted it 🌙

Yes to the open window in the room of the recently deceased to allow their spirit to leave. But her family and neighbours in rural Ireland had another superstition after death. When the body was removed from the house to the church for the funeral all the kitchen chairs were upturned on the table so their spirit kept on their journey and didn’t return to their home. And a close neighbour remained on watch in the house while everyone else went to the funeral just to be sure.

loislovesstewie · 13/01/2026 18:19

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 13/01/2026 17:54

I had a friend who carried that to extremes. She once put her knickers on sideways, went swimming later and put them back on the same way! She's from Glasgow, if that's relevant.

I'm from Wiltshire, it was a very common superstition there.

BettyBettyBoop · 13/01/2026 18:18

Always greet a lone magpie. Also whistling. My mother is from South America and whistling is considered incredibly bad luck/bad omens. Every time I hear whistling it makes my skin crawl- it's like nails down a chalk board to me!

RichardTemplethatbeatingRythm · 13/01/2026 18:14

No new shoes on a table (boxed inc)
Not opening a brolly indoors.

TrickyD · 13/01/2026 18:11

Magpie greeting of course.

When my unwell brother needed help with putting on his shoes, he indignantly told me that as a cricketer he had to put on the left boot first.

This was about 30 years ago, and ever since I have been incapable of putting my right one first. Even skiing, if my skis came off I had to manoeuvre until I could snap on the left one.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 13/01/2026 17:54

loislovesstewie · 12/01/2026 21:10

My mum was really superstitious. If we put an item of clothing on inside out we had to wear it like that all day. Don't bring lilac blossom into the house that's really unlucky. Don't look at the new moon through glass, that's unlucky. Don't wear green to a wedding, that's unlucky. Opals are really unlucky. Don't wash blankets in May, you will wash the head of the household away. A newborn baby has to have a coin for luck and must never spend it. Lots of others too. I'm surprised we got through the day.

I had a friend who carried that to extremes. She once put her knickers on sideways, went swimming later and put them back on the same way! She's from Glasgow, if that's relevant.

Linnet · 13/01/2026 17:47

Arlanymor · 12/01/2026 22:06

The glove thing is interesting... what if you are alone?

Oh I know who you are - you are the person whose dropped glove adorns those little bollards on the street, right?! I always wondered who you were!

Yes I think I heard the same about lilac and also lillies because the latter is a funeral flower?

If my husband is not there I take a chance and pick up the glove myself and hope the bad luck doesn’t find me 😆

Coffeebeforework · 13/01/2026 14:39

Imbrocator · 12/01/2026 23:10

My family and some family friends always do the never exit a house you’re visiting by a different door one, but I associate that with being an East Anglian thing - I’ve never heard it elsewhere.

@Arlanymor (Enw neis!) Are there any local superstitions round you that you haven’t seen elsewhere?

I always touch wood just in case, but some other family superstitions are:

Never open the door unless you’re sure someone’s on the other side, otherwise you’re opening the door to death.

Never bring mayflower into the house, because the smell is the smell of death.

I wish I could remember more - my nan has tons of them! Most of them about not letting death in the house 🫣

I have heard the superstition re entering a house by the same door and I'm Scottish.

loislovesstewie · 13/01/2026 10:38

Oh and never, ever do anything widdershins.

batsh1ttery · 13/01/2026 01:48

“Hi Mr Magpie, how’s your wife?”. When I’m very anxious ie on a phone call, I can’t step on cracks. I don’t like to turn completely around in a circle as then I have to turn the same way back around. I don’t do washing on New Year’s Day. I absolutely love opals though! I consider a black cat walking across my path as lucky, especially my little familiar! Bad things DO always come in threes. I do the same wishing thing on the first star I see. Feel off opening an umbrella in my tiled floor kitchen to drip dry but the cats love sitting under it. White feathers appear in the house/on pavements when I’m particularly stressed, they’re from my grandparents. I lucid dream and read that you should never look at yourself in a mirror. I did and I saw myself exactly as I am. So I cleared that hurdle 😂 I’ve had several people over the years message me to say they’ve just seen me when I’m sitting on the sofa at home, so my doppelgänger clearly gets about! I do walk under the ladder when I put it up into the loft, purely to jump and grab hold of the higher rungs and give my back a good clicky stretch! Breaking a mirror is anxiety central.

Teapotee · 13/01/2026 00:53

Giraffehaver · 13/01/2026 00:46

This is totally irrational and ridiculous but if I see an ambulance I have to hold my collar until I see a 4 legged animal.
If the ambulance lights are off, it can be a poster, sign, statue etc. Lights on it has to be real

To clarify, does it have to have exactly four legs (for example, a cat) or can it have at least four legs (for example, spider)?

What about animals where two legs / four legs might be in dispute? I’m thinking a bear, for example.

Also, what about a four legged animal that is missing a limb? Would that still count?

Giraffehaver · 13/01/2026 00:46

This is totally irrational and ridiculous but if I see an ambulance I have to hold my collar until I see a 4 legged animal.
If the ambulance lights are off, it can be a poster, sign, statue etc. Lights on it has to be real

Teapotee · 13/01/2026 00:43

I smear myself with chicken’s blood with every new moon, or on the solstices. I then recite the Lord’s Prayer backwards and then do incantations in the back garden for around an hour, or twenty minutes if wet.

I don’t know if there is anything in it but I think this helps my fertility and helps my tulips come up in the Spring (they’re in quite a shady spot).

LetsGo26 · 13/01/2026 00:39

“Good morning Mr Magpie, how’s your lady wife today?” (Singsong voice, no idea why)

If you’re on Portland, you must never say the ‘r’ word. They’re called bunnies.

(Sorry for your loss OP 💐)

Ladymuckypuddle · 12/01/2026 23:42

Sorry for your loss op 💐

Mine is don't cut your toe nails on a Sunday so my whole life my nails have never been cut on a Sunday. Sometimes I think do you know what am just going to cut them even though its Sunday and I just can't do it.

Imbrocator · 12/01/2026 23:10

My family and some family friends always do the never exit a house you’re visiting by a different door one, but I associate that with being an East Anglian thing - I’ve never heard it elsewhere.

@Arlanymor (Enw neis!) Are there any local superstitions round you that you haven’t seen elsewhere?

I always touch wood just in case, but some other family superstitions are:

Never open the door unless you’re sure someone’s on the other side, otherwise you’re opening the door to death.

Never bring mayflower into the house, because the smell is the smell of death.

I wish I could remember more - my nan has tons of them! Most of them about not letting death in the house 🫣

Shivvy1 · 12/01/2026 23:07

Magpies
leaving by the same door
if you drop a knife stand on it - knife on the floor man at the door
first person through your door on New Year’s Day should be dark haired
lighting a candle on nye
bird in your house means a death
smelling flowers when none around means death
no new shoes on the table
don’t walk under a ladder
not having any baby stuff in your house until th baby is born.
if your ear is red and burning, pinch it and the person talking about you will bite their tongue
I’m sure I have more lol

soundsys · 12/01/2026 23:05

Tenofcups · 12/01/2026 21:54

Most of the above plus your first word on waking on the first of the month should be ‘rabbits’ to bring good fortune. No idea where that comes from !

Yes! I've never heard anyone else outside of my family do this!

Although we now send each other 🐇🐇🐇

Taking our old wives tales into the digital age 🤣

nildesparandum · 12/01/2026 23:02

TheSunRisesInTheEast · 12/01/2026 22:26

I've always thought superstitions were light hearted and taken with a pinch of salt, but to think that councils deliberately avoid numbering houses 13, and on a recent cruise there was no floor 13, maybe they're not wanting to tempt fate 🤞

My husband was born in house numbered 13 in the street.It was a council house, his mother had waited for one for ages and took this one gladly because it had been refused by loads of people before her.
She must have been desperate to get a council house, she had Irish traveller ancestry and believed in all of the others.
The hospital I did my nurse training in had Ward 13 as the code word for the mortuary.We also never put red and white flowers together in the same vase or allowed white Madonna lilies into the ward.This was supposed to mean death.

NewYearNewHope · 12/01/2026 22:55

loislovesstewie · 12/01/2026 21:10

My mum was really superstitious. If we put an item of clothing on inside out we had to wear it like that all day. Don't bring lilac blossom into the house that's really unlucky. Don't look at the new moon through glass, that's unlucky. Don't wear green to a wedding, that's unlucky. Opals are really unlucky. Don't wash blankets in May, you will wash the head of the household away. A newborn baby has to have a coin for luck and must never spend it. Lots of others too. I'm surprised we got through the day.

I was taught that Opals were only unlucky for those not born in October…

Wemdubz · 12/01/2026 22:45

No new shoes on tables; no black items on the bed (I didn’t have that second one until my ex partner told me it and it’s stuck with me!).

On a personal superstition level, I always wore my lucky knickers to Liverpool games. I forgot for the FA Cup final against West Ham and told the woman next to me that it would be my fault if we lost on penalties. She said it would be her fault as she had forgotten to put the tee-shirt on the dog’ 😂

Lifelover16 · 12/01/2026 22:45

My Mum had all of these, plus lots of cutlery related ones. Crossed knives on a table meant an argument,a dropped knife indicated a gentleman guest would call, a dropped fork a lady guest and a dropped spoon a visit from a baby or a fool!
crossing someone on a staircase meant a falling out with that person. Giving a present of gloves was a parting gift. A bird in the house foretold a death, as did a picture falling off a wall.

Edited for typo

Arlanymor · 12/01/2026 22:39

DisposableName26 · 12/01/2026 22:36

If I see a magpie I have to say “hello Mr Magpie, hello Mr Magpie, hello Mr Magpie” - in a welsh accent. This is a family tradition which stems from my welsh godfather. None of the rest of us are welsh.

I love that you say it in an accent (probably because I am Welsh and, let's be honest, the lilt helps!)

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