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Bringemout · 12/01/2026 10:45

Would also point out that when Israel bombed Iranian sites I saw a lot of Iranians in Iran cheering and clapping on x. Iranians have been asking the USA to intervene both diaspora and messages coming from starlink posted by Iranian outside of Iran.

Summerlilly · 12/01/2026 10:40

No, mostly because he’s so damn erratic he would make the situation worse and millions more could lose their lives.

The Iranian people need help, but I don’t think US is the saving grace.

You also don’t want to keep encouraging him to just go in and sort other countries out. Thats how we all go to war to protect Greenland’

ArabellaScott · 12/01/2026 10:26

HopefulYankee · 12/01/2026 10:18

@Westfacing It’s their country, let them figure it out for themselves. They’re perfectly capable of fixing their own problems. It has nothing to do with the US, and they pose no threat to the daily lives of average Americans. We need the focus of our leaders on our issues. The same goes for the UK. Food is practically unaffordable, energy prices are through the roof and Starmer’s approval ratings have tanked. We’ve got issues, serious issues. We need to stop getting distracted and figure our own stuff out.

This is all relevant to us. We live in a globalised economy and the balance of power worldwide affects all of us. It's just played out in Iran/Syria/Israel/wherever.

AnneElliott · 12/01/2026 10:26

cautiouslyOptimisticAgain · 12/01/2026 09:43

I really hope the USA will help the civilian unarmed Iranian protestors who have no chance against a military regime, and deserve much better, regardless of USA’s motives.

As a Venezuelan, I welcomed USA’s intervention to help remove the head of a criminal state who persecuted, oppressed, tortured and killed my fellow citizens, and destroyed the economy plunging 80% of the people into poverty. Civil society did all we could within the legal avenues (national and international) to have a regime change, and all failed. There was no possibility of change coming from within because the regime controls everything in the state, most importantly the arms that are used against its own citizens.

That’s why more than 8 million people (third of the population) had to flee the country to avoid starvation. We know that USA is interested in the oil (we are not naive) but we are willing to pay that price for a chance, however remote, of things improving. It cannot be worse than what we have.

That’s really insightful. I do hope your family and friends are ok. I saw a clip on the news with an interview from a man in Venezuela and they asked him if the US was solely interested in the oil. He replied that ‘Yes they were but did you think the Russians and Chinese were here for the receipts for (a national dish - can’t recall what it was called).

I’d support targeted strikes on Revolutionary Guard facilities. I do think the protestors and the people of Iran deserve much better.

Twiglets1 · 12/01/2026 10:24

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 09:55

Its up to the people of Iran what they want it replaced with. They are on the streets in their thousands protesting the current regime. Good luck to them. They'll need it if everyone sits back and watches the vast military slaughter them.

Iran do fund Hezbollah, Hamas and the Houthis and cause much terror in the region.

Yes Iran do fund Hezbollah, Hamas and the Houthis.

Should this be allowed to continue if even their own people (especially their own people) want regime change @Wintersgirl ?

ArabellaScott · 12/01/2026 10:24

I have every sympathy for the very brave people of Iran, fwiw. Especially the women who have faced more and more restrictions in their freedom over the past years.

Teddleshon1 · 12/01/2026 10:23

It’s also Russia’s key ally in the Middle East.

ArabellaScott · 12/01/2026 10:23

Tiredofwhataboutery · 12/01/2026 07:30

I think it’d make things worse. The U.S. shouldn’t really be playing policeman of the world anymore. They’ve lost any moral authority. I feel for the people. We’ve seen this time and again through history. You can only force people into compliance for so long. Eventually they will make moves towards freedom, there’s almost a sad inevitably to it.

I do think real change needs to come from within. I’d agree with a pp that the protestors need the military to join them, to start a cascade. That won’t happen with a foreign combatant on the ground.

It's not, though. It's about Russia/China.

Every one of recent flashpoints has been a proxy for US/Russia, with both countries involved to a greater or lesser extent.

Ukraine, Israel/Palestine, Greenland, Venezuela, Iran - same same.

It's very hard - if possible at all - to discern how much the US needed to beef up defense in the face of Russian/Chinese power growing, and Western power weakening.

PeachOctopus · 12/01/2026 10:22

The mullahs of Iran have been the most brutal regime in the world. They have also funded terrorist groups around the world.

November 2013 the last uprising 3000 people were killed.
In 2023, Iran executed at least 834 and the UN reported at least 975 executions in 2024.

Amnesty International reported Iran was responsible for 64% of all recorded executions worldwide in 2024.
It has many human rights abuses such as 4000-6000 have been murdered for being gay throughout the time of the regime.

If Trump hit military targets then it would divert resources from other areas, I’m in favour of limited military action.
If it fails there will be a brutal crackdown and thousands will be murdered so a push to get the revolution over the line would be humanitarian.

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 10:21

RedTagAlan · 12/01/2026 10:14

Yup. And after 20 odd years in Afghanistan, who is in power there now ?

Yes, this is exactly the point I'm trying to get across

HopefulYankee · 12/01/2026 10:18

@Westfacing It’s their country, let them figure it out for themselves. They’re perfectly capable of fixing their own problems. It has nothing to do with the US, and they pose no threat to the daily lives of average Americans. We need the focus of our leaders on our issues. The same goes for the UK. Food is practically unaffordable, energy prices are through the roof and Starmer’s approval ratings have tanked. We’ve got issues, serious issues. We need to stop getting distracted and figure our own stuff out.

Bollihobs · 12/01/2026 10:18

Playingvideogames · 12/01/2026 08:18

I don’t know.

The left wing scream blue murder if the West gets involved, and they scream blue murder if the West doesn’t get involved. Mostly they seem to think we should leave other countries alone but suddenly change their mind when something like this actually happens.

This.

I'm completely full of admiration for the bravery of the protesters in Iran.

I am completely baffled by the blasé duality of "OMG Trump intervened in Venezuela how AWFUL!!!" followed by "OMG why isn't Trump intervening in Iran, how AWFUL!!!" 🙄 The man can't f*cking win!

RedTagAlan · 12/01/2026 10:18

GeneralPeter · 12/01/2026 10:16

Iraq is noone’s idea of a success. But life expectancy is now five years longer than pre invasion and GDP is 10x higher. A significant minority of Iraqis say the invasion was on balance a good thing, especially older ones who remember Saddam.

I’m not here to say that Iraq was a good decision or well-executed. But 10x GDP is only nothing if you don’t truly grasp how bad things can be, and any intervention will look bad if you look only at the harms and not the benefits.

Iraq was a fantastic success compared to Afghanistan, that's for sure.

GeneralPeter · 12/01/2026 10:16

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 10:05

Yes, the amount of US and UK troops lost in Iraq was shocking and for what? Fuck all, the place is still as dangerous and rogue as ever

Iraq is noone’s idea of a success. But life expectancy is now five years longer than pre invasion and GDP is 10x higher. A significant minority of Iraqis say the invasion was on balance a good thing, especially older ones who remember Saddam.

I’m not here to say that Iraq was a good decision or well-executed. But 10x GDP is only nothing if you don’t truly grasp how bad things can be, and any intervention will look bad if you look only at the harms and not the benefits.

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 10:15

beAsensible1 · 12/01/2026 10:04

Help how? How does bombing help exactly?

other ruining infrastructure and aggravating the situation. Regime change for any sovereign nation should come from within. Encourage foreign interference is a slippery slope, would you be encouraging china to be bombing and choosing irans leader?

what right to the US have over any other militarily capable country to go and bomb them? Just bizarre reasoning.

any US led regime will lack legitimacy and then be subject to the same protests. Or worse it will end up like Libya.

Agreed, people just need to go and look at the shitshow the US/UK made of Iraq and other countries in the Middle East to see what will happen..

RedTagAlan · 12/01/2026 10:14

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 10:05

Yes, the amount of US and UK troops lost in Iraq was shocking and for what? Fuck all, the place is still as dangerous and rogue as ever

Yup. And after 20 odd years in Afghanistan, who is in power there now ?

GeneralPeter · 12/01/2026 10:12

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 09:55

No of course not, but Iran isn't invading countries like the Nazis is it? They want a regime change which is fair enough but there are ways of doing it..

Your first argument was that intervening never does good. Then you remembered Hitler.

Now it seems to be that Tehran isn’t bad enough.

I agree Tehran isn’t at Germany/Japan levels.

But it subverts countries across the region and actively funds terrorism and instability: Hamas, Hezbollah, Yemen, Iraq, Syria, Bahrain, Saudi.

Where is your line for what is ‘too much’ interfering?

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 10:05

BadgernTheGarden · 12/01/2026 10:00

Trump will do what he wants. The trouble is to really help he would have to put in troops and he's not going to do that, there are very limited targets he could hit in Iran without also killing civilians and they could very well use human shields to protect targets. It could well become a revolution, but who will end up in power?

Yes, the amount of US and UK troops lost in Iraq was shocking and for what? Fuck all, the place is still as dangerous and rogue as ever

beAsensible1 · 12/01/2026 10:04

Help how? How does bombing help exactly?

other ruining infrastructure and aggravating the situation. Regime change for any sovereign nation should come from within. Encourage foreign interference is a slippery slope, would you be encouraging china to be bombing and choosing irans leader?

what right to the US have over any other militarily capable country to go and bomb them? Just bizarre reasoning.

any US led regime will lack legitimacy and then be subject to the same protests. Or worse it will end up like Libya.

BadgernTheGarden · 12/01/2026 10:00

Trump will do what he wants. The trouble is to really help he would have to put in troops and he's not going to do that, there are very limited targets he could hit in Iran without also killing civilians and they could very well use human shields to protect targets. It could well become a revolution, but who will end up in power?

Westfacing · 12/01/2026 09:59

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 09:51

Yes this, do people really think that if the regime in Iran is overthrown that it will suddenly become a becon of democracy? No it will be replaced by the same or something worse, it creates instability in the region just as the US and UK interfered in Iraq and Afghanistan, years and years later nothing has changed they have become rogue countries, The USA and the UK are not the worlds policemen, don't get me wrong the regime in Iran is awful but no good ever comes of us trying to change things

The USA and the UK are not the worlds policemen, don't get me wrong the regime in Iran is awful but no good ever comes of us trying to change things

It's the people of Iran who are trying to change things but they can't do it without serious outside help.

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 09:58

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 12/01/2026 09:56

It’s incredible that anyone would chunter on about the ‘wicked’ US in a discussion about the (hopefully) near end of the monsters that run Iran. I mean, seriously?

Iran under the murderous crazies is a giant tumour in the Middle East. It kills and tortures thousands and thousands of its citizens, and oppresses and impoverishes all of them. It finances and directs vast terrorist networks outside its borders.

US intervention now would be obviously morally right. Whether it would be politically wise depends on what action is taken. I can’t see any likelihood of invasion. Where missiles and bombs might most effectively land is in the hands of the planners with the facts, but I’d have thought military depots and barracks would be obvious targets.

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RedTagAlan · 12/01/2026 09:57

HRTQueen · 12/01/2026 09:23

I think it’s likely this shall be US lead with others involved including us

this though leads to Isreal being very vulnerable so this can’t be a half job done it’s long term

Iran’s regime needs to be rid of but they are extremely powerful

the question also to consider is what will China and Russia’s response be

would ex presidents get involved yes I believe they would at this point in time but with more diplomacy and long term vision

Lead with what ? As in what action ?

Tehran is about 700 miles from Qatar, the general area where there are US bases. And there is a sea between the Gulf states and Iran. There is Iraq to the East of course, an attack could be launched from there. North is the Caspian, Turkmenistan. East is Afghanistan and Pakistan.

The photo below shows Tehran. It's a mountainous country, more like Afghanistan than the flat open desert of Iraq. Iraq to Tehran is 430 miles.

It would take a massive invasion force. And Iran has almost a million troops. So it would be like doing a combined Iraq and Afghanistan invasion at the same time. More so in fact, because unlike Afghanistan, Iran has not had decades of civil war that has weakened it. It has been preparing for decades, not fighting.

I totally agree the regime needs removed. And as you say the regime is very powerful.

Military action would need a massive force.

I really do not see what a few bombs or missiles will do. Trump bombed Nigeria recently. What has that done. ISIS in Syria has been getting bombed for over a decade, and there has been a land war too. ISIS are still there.

Should the US become involved in helping protesters in Iran?
DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 12/01/2026 09:56

It’s incredible that anyone would chunter on about the ‘wicked’ US in a discussion about the (hopefully) near end of the monsters that run Iran. I mean, seriously?

Iran under the murderous crazies is a giant tumour in the Middle East. It kills and tortures thousands and thousands of its citizens, and oppresses and impoverishes all of them. It finances and directs vast terrorist networks outside its borders.

US intervention now would be obviously morally right. Whether it would be politically wise depends on what action is taken. I can’t see any likelihood of invasion. Where missiles and bombs might most effectively land is in the hands of the planners with the facts, but I’d have thought military depots and barracks would be obvious targets.

Wintersgirl · 12/01/2026 09:55

GeneralPeter · 12/01/2026 09:52

Certainty similar arguments were advanced about Nazi Germany and Imperial Japan.

We really could have left those regimes in place.

Should we have?

No of course not, but Iran isn't invading countries like the Nazis is it? They want a regime change which is fair enough but there are ways of doing it..

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