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Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 12:49

Frequency · 12/01/2026 12:44

He specifically said, "If they start shooting, so will we." It's reasonable to assume he meant boots on the ground when he said that.

Ok.

I was wondering about various types of support including negotiation. The people who have been uprising have been slaughtered at least in the hundreds and over 10,000 imprisoned. Its awful.

Bombing military sites but not the people (as they did several months ago) didn't result in a war.

I have no idea what action should be taken but I feel for the brave people who are trying to overthrow a evil regime that not only affects them, day to day, but, also funds terrorists who operate in a number of countries.

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Twiglets1 · 12/01/2026 12:45

maudelovesharold · 12/01/2026 11:23

I don’t think any country should be funding any terrorist groups. I think it’s very simplistic to suppose that the USA, who funded, for example, the right-wing Contras in Nicaragua and the anti-Soviet Mujahideen in Afghanistan (which morphed into al-Qaeda), can just step in anywhere in the world and make it all fine! It doesn’t work like that, as history should have taught us. They do not have the moral high ground and any action they take will be self-serving.

You seem to arguing with an invisible person because as far as I can see, no one on this thread is saying that the US could just step in anywhere in the world (including Iran) and make it all fine. We know it doesn't work like that.

Speaking for myself, I said on page 2 of this thread that my answer to the AIBU that the US should become involved is "I'm not sure - the US wading in could make things worse".

Frequency · 12/01/2026 12:44

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 12:40

I'm not sure why posters assume assistance meant bombings? My question was 'should the US become more involved', which could mean support, negotiation or even removal of leadership or something entirely different.

He specifically said, "If they start shooting, so will we." It's reasonable to assume he meant boots on the ground when he said that.

38thparallel · 12/01/2026 12:42

No of course not, but Iran isn't invading countries like the Nazis is it? They want a regime change which is fair enough but there are ways of doing it..

@Wintersgirl How do you think they should they be doing it?

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:41

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 12:40

I'm not sure why posters assume assistance meant bombings? My question was 'should the US become more involved', which could mean support, negotiation or even removal of leadership or something entirely different.

Ok.

It’s likely because your links were to “US threats to intervene” which has been discussed in terms of bombing military sites.

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:41

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 12/01/2026 12:38

Out of interest, who can claim that then?

Where does the USSR stand, what with actively colluding with Hitler?

Perhaps it’s a clear win for the UK. Hurrah!

All involved but not one individual country. It was not an example of “the USA bombing a country into stability”.

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 12:40

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:21

It’s a nice idea but generally US military intervention leads to worse outcomes. I am sure the protestors desire support but maybe not bombings?

I'm not sure why posters assume assistance meant bombings? My question was 'should the US become more involved', which could mean support, negotiation or even removal of leadership or something entirely different.

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DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 12/01/2026 12:38

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:28

That wasn’t the US. That was a global allied effort (which the US was late too.)

The US cannot claim that one.

Out of interest, who can claim that then?

Where does the USSR stand, what with actively colluding with Hitler?

Perhaps it’s a clear win for the UK. Hurrah!

Frequency · 12/01/2026 12:33

I'm on the fence about this. On the one hand, Trump actively encouraged the protests with the promise of help if things went south, which they rapidly did.

On the other hand, I'm not sure US forces, as they are under Trump's leadership, would make things better or worse. We should also consider why Trump offered support; he doesn't do anything that is not for his own personal benefit, and was he legally able to offer that support?

I think a compromise of providing support from afar, such as communications technology, military intelligence, and medical supplies, is probably the best way to go.

Westfacing · 12/01/2026 12:30

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2026 12:04

Maybe the US (and UK) have done quite enough damage in Iran since they deposed the democratically elected government in favour of the Shahs puppet regime that led to the revolution in 1979.

Letting someone called Kermit run the operation should have been a warning sign.

That was 73 years ago - different times.

This time it is the will of the people.

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:28

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 11:42

Germany

That wasn’t the US. That was a global allied effort (which the US was late too.)

The US cannot claim that one.

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:26

Puzzledandpissedoff · 12/01/2026 11:56

Re WW2 the US may like to think it was all down to them but there were quite a few other countries involved as well

There were indeed, @countrygirl99, but most of them would have been stuffed without American money and military provision

Still would be, come to that, and awful though he can be one thing Trump's very popular for at home is making it so clear others will have to pay more

His approval rating is currently 39% (against 56% disapprove).

Not sure that’s “very popular”?

https://www.economist.com/interactive/trump-approval-tracker

EasternStandard · 12/01/2026 12:25

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2026 12:04

Maybe the US (and UK) have done quite enough damage in Iran since they deposed the democratically elected government in favour of the Shahs puppet regime that led to the revolution in 1979.

Letting someone called Kermit run the operation should have been a warning sign.

What do you want to happen? Should anyone help, or not even if the outcome is violent repression

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:24

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2026 12:04

Maybe the US (and UK) have done quite enough damage in Iran since they deposed the democratically elected government in favour of the Shahs puppet regime that led to the revolution in 1979.

Letting someone called Kermit run the operation should have been a warning sign.

I think those shows Western powers are generally fine with despots and oppressive regimes as long as they are pro-West.

I am not necessarily against US support but would feel more comfortable if their foreign interventions had a better track record of actually improving things.

JHound · 12/01/2026 12:21

It’s a nice idea but generally US military intervention leads to worse outcomes. I am sure the protestors desire support but maybe not bombings?

Ablushingcrow · 12/01/2026 12:15

PurpleAxe · 12/01/2026 08:27

The current "Left" are a bunch of useless fuckwits. Let them scream, it is the all they do anyway. Who gives a shit.

Breaking the Islamic Regime is better for everyone no matter who does it.

This, a million times over.

1dayatatime · 12/01/2026 12:14

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2026 12:04

Maybe the US (and UK) have done quite enough damage in Iran since they deposed the democratically elected government in favour of the Shahs puppet regime that led to the revolution in 1979.

Letting someone called Kermit run the operation should have been a warning sign.

So to take an emotion based left wing style of counter argument:

"So you are happy then to see 500 innocent protesters, mostly women, being killed in Iran"

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2026 12:04

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 04:44

The situation is awful there now. Should the US become involved?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/articles/cm2jek15m8no.amp

Maybe the US (and UK) have done quite enough damage in Iran since they deposed the democratically elected government in favour of the Shahs puppet regime that led to the revolution in 1979.

Letting someone called Kermit run the operation should have been a warning sign.

1dayatatime · 12/01/2026 11:59

The US military has to be careful on how it intervenes. The US is not that popular amongst ordinary Iranians, so blowing stuff up may simply produce support for the existing regime.

By all means provide the protesters with satellite internet connection, communications and military intelligence.

But in this case I think dropping expensive high explosives will be counterproductive.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 12/01/2026 11:56

Re WW2 the US may like to think it was all down to them but there were quite a few other countries involved as well

There were indeed, @countrygirl99, but most of them would have been stuffed without American money and military provision

Still would be, come to that, and awful though he can be one thing Trump's very popular for at home is making it so clear others will have to pay more

GeneralPeter · 12/01/2026 11:53

countrygirl99 · 12/01/2026 11:31

Re WW2 the US may like to think it was all down to them but there were quite a few other countries involved as well.
How long did it take Vietnam to stabilise after the US were beaten? How many people fled in small boats in the following years. What was the impact of the US action in Vietnam on Laos and Cambodia?

Effects of US bombing on Laos and Cambodia were terrible. They still have mines.

I don't think anyone on this board is claiming that bombing is happy or that there haven't been plenty of terrible failures of intervention.

But if one wants to argue against US intervention on the basis that it has never stabilised a country, one should first check if that's true.

Else just oppose US intervention or some other grounds, or even reconsider.

cautiouslyOptimisticAgain · 12/01/2026 11:51

Tiredofwhataboutery · 12/01/2026 11:42

Incredibly brave. It’s what happens though when civilian populations stand up to men with guns who are used to controlling them with violence. They do the only thing they know how.

Absolutely

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 12/01/2026 11:45

countrygirl99 · 12/01/2026 11:31

Re WW2 the US may like to think it was all down to them but there were quite a few other countries involved as well.
How long did it take Vietnam to stabilise after the US were beaten? How many people fled in small boats in the following years. What was the impact of the US action in Vietnam on Laos and Cambodia?

You asked the question. Now you’re having to wriggle because you don’t like the answer.

So far as the Vietnamese boat people are concerned, they were fleeing communist oppression. I recall the British (and other) left at the time accusing them of being saboteurs and fascists.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 12/01/2026 11:42

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 07:52

People within the country are protesting for change. Sadly over 10,000 arrested and hundreds killed already. They are very brave.

Incredibly brave. It’s what happens though when civilian populations stand up to men with guns who are used to controlling them with violence. They do the only thing they know how.

Ihatetomatoes · 12/01/2026 11:42

countrygirl99 · 12/01/2026 11:06

Can anyone think of a country that the US have bombed into stability?

Germany

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