Me and my husband have known a couple for a long time (long before children). Our children are now primary school age.
The husband in the other couple is abusive to his wife. Controlling, verbally and at times physically. She has confided in us about this and we have offered support but she does not want to leave the relationship.
My issue is that I don’t feel comfortable for my child to go to their house without either me or her Dad.
My husband says he supports my decision but earlier today asked if I still felt the same way (implying it’s me who feels this way but he would be fine with it)
AIBU? It’s getting to the point where we can’t keep putting off offers of play dates without us there. I think at some point I need to explain, but wanted to make sure I’m not being completely unreasonable about this.