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Lost passport - help

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Lostpassporthelp · 11/01/2026 17:11

I’m currently at my parents house in France, due to travel home to the UK on Tuesday. I’ve lost my passport. I’ve torn the house apart today and can’t find it anywhere. Please help me with ideas of where to look. Places I’ve looked so far:

Inside my car and my parents car

In my room, including emptying the wardrobe, chest of drawers, bedside tables, long high shelf in my bedroom. I’ve looked under them all too, including the bed. I’ve emptied and repacked every bag etc too.

My Mum has checked her mezzanine landing (set up as office) and her bedroom.

The upstairs attic has been checked, all chest of drawers etc looked inside.

The living room/dining room - all drawers, shelves etc have been searched.

It definitely came into the house and was in the living room for a while, before we think it was taken upstairs.

I’m completely panicking and very very stressed about it 😳😢

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FinallyHere · 11/01/2026 22:26

Sit quietly and take your mind back to when you last had it. Breathe gently and trust that your brain has the information about what happened it it. You just need to find the right neural path to find that memory, starting with when you last actually touched it. Even back to when you last showed if at customs. Then work forward from there.

all the best. Anytime you find yourself thinking it’s lost or you do not know where it is, allow that thought to escape by breathing out. Keep thinking back and you will find the memory. Then the passport. Good luck.

AnSolas · 11/01/2026 22:21

I would contact the passport office asap to see of the Embassy in Paris can issue a travel document and see if you can rebook the ferry.

I have found that once you have everything organised the passport will be found in a coat pocket or stuffed into a hat...

Good luck

lolly07766 · 11/01/2026 22:21

You need to systematically search every room bit by bit and slowly, I had this before with a driving licence, not as important as a passport granted but still… we found it after the cupboard had been ‘searched’ twice

OnTheBoardwalk · 11/01/2026 22:16

As other posters have suggested. I've 'lost' my passport twice. Check the scanner on any printer or inside the pages of magazines/documents that your parents usually keep their documents that’s where mine were hiding

good luck, hope you find it

Chocolateteabag · 11/01/2026 22:07

When I lost mine - it was stuck to a magazine on the sticky pad which had held a freebie thing

so I would have another look through piles of paperwork and check it hasn’t stuck to something?
lift up everything and check linings of coats and handbags as things can get stuck

mondaytosunday · 11/01/2026 21:58

My DD was adamant that I lost her passport. Tore the house apart, looked in car under seats etc. Months later driving her back to uni and as we arrive ask if she had any parking permits. She pops open the glove box and there is her passport! No parking permits though…Oddly when searching the car I looked under the seats, under the mats, in the door compartments, console… just not in the glove box.

hopefullyme · 11/01/2026 21:41

Bathroom?
Under leg of furniture or with a vase or cup on top of it?
prayed to St Anthony for you.
I agree with the colour thing, that burgundy wasn’t used for as many things so it was easier to spot. Many more navy/black things the new one blends into.

Songlines · 11/01/2026 21:27

If you were going to put it away now, where would you put it? That horrid sick feeling when you can't find something makes it all the more difficult to find it, ime.

Lougle · 11/01/2026 21:25

I thought I had lost mine but it was in a zipped compartment of my travel rucksack. I had checked every other pocket but hadn't noticed the one that sits against the bottom of my back. I had slipped it in there after Passport Control on the way home.

thereare4lights · 11/01/2026 21:19

Look inside everything. Missed my cousin's wedding as my passport was inside a CD case. Go through every single thing in every single room. It will be somewhere.

Cadenza12 · 11/01/2026 21:18

Stop panicking deep breath and calmly go through everything. Think back to where you saw it last and work from there. .

Cheeseandonioncrispswithmytea · 11/01/2026 21:14

Look in all the obvious places - but also look in the places you never would expect it to be in a million years.

when my son was a teenager - the night before his French exchange trip - his passport disappeared. We knew it was in the house - but we couldn’t find it anywhere. we turned the place upside down - eventually it was discovered - in his younger brothers room in the Box of Brio train set.

How it got there we never have never worked out - but the relief on finding it was immense. so search everywhere no matter how ridiculous it seems

if you’re of the praying disposition try asking St Anthony to intercede ( saint of lost things)

Damnloginpopup · 11/01/2026 21:09

Under the mattress or on top of a cupboard.

Talkingfrog · 11/01/2026 21:01

jenny38 · 11/01/2026 20:19

If it has been put in a draw, it might have fallen down the back of the unit. Lost my daughters this way, when I open the draw it was pushed out the back of it, and ended up under the draw.

We also had that happen. Can't remember if it was a passport ir something else a similar size. Had looked more than once, and pulled the drawer out as far as I could, but then shobe a torch in and could see it at the back.

3luckystars · 11/01/2026 20:57

Is there any chance there is a small zip in the front of your Case that you forgot about?

hohahagogo · 11/01/2026 20:56

Pockets, dh usually finds his in a jacket pocket when he can’t find it, mine is usually in my bedside drawer

Twinkletwinkly · 11/01/2026 20:54

Could whoever carried it upstairs have been wearing a dressing gown or cardigan with a deep pocket and popped it in a pocket to carry it upstairs then didn’t remove it?

Also have you checked laundry basket?

KellsBells7 · 11/01/2026 20:52

Can you picture where you were when you asked your mum to put it with theirs? I know it sounds daft but sit with a cup of tea and visualise as much as possible from the last time you know you saw it - What were you wearing? What bag were you using? Did you hand it to your Mum when you asked her to keep it safe?

Lochroy · 11/01/2026 20:48

Last time we lost one, it had been popped horizontally on top of books in a bookcase and then gone down the back of them.

Onlyashappyas · 11/01/2026 20:47

Does your travel insurance cover lost passports? They maybe able to advise the easiest way to get a temporary passport?

TalulahJP · 11/01/2026 20:45

what would your mum have taken to the place she keeps documents when she carried the passport as she prob did a few things at the same time eg put it on top of linen or laundry and a book and a tie, and then she went to the cupboard the office and the bedroom and wardrobe.

HewasH2O · 11/01/2026 20:45

Have you called lost property at the ferry terminals? How did you get from the ferry to your parent's house?

Cushionseams · 11/01/2026 20:43

I'd left mine in the jacket I'd worn when last travelling - I could have sworn I'd put it in its designated spot.

AuditAngel · 11/01/2026 20:40

When I lost mine it was in an inside zip pocket of a handbag, found after it had been replaced

Zanatdy · 11/01/2026 20:37

You may need to get an emergency travel doc if can’t find it.