My husband and I agreed to go NC with his mother last year, after she deliberately lied about me and I caught her out (not the only reason, but this was the final straw) . I was able to prove that she was lying and deliberately trying to turn my husband against me. Once DH came to realise what she gad been doing he declared that we would not be doing anything with her and not taking our children around until his mother could apologies and admit to what she did. Anyway no apology came and we have been living a very peaceful drama free life. Yesterday my DS had been off school with his my DH in charge and i formed me that DH had taken him over to grandmas house for tea whilst i was in work. This felt like a massive, massive punch in the gut. I feel like DH went against everything we discussed and agreed on when it came to the children and I feel like he exposed our DS to someone who cannot be trusted. AIBU to feel like this? I wish for more than anything for our children to have a decent relationship with their only living GM, but at the same time I feel like it cannot be done whilst she has the ability to try and turn peopke against me with her lies! I know full well that a few more visits like that would end up with her getting back into DH head and DS’s head! For context DS is 9 and was glad to see his GM, I just wish he could have told me he planned to do it. AIBU?