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To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?

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fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 08:50

from the government in Northern Ireland that is published online? Surely we don’t do these things any more such as mixing baby rice with milk and advising people to feed their very young children rice crispies and cornflakes for breakfast and advising people to give juice with meals! Surely this is bad advice, I am honestly surprised that the government have been allowed to publish this crap. I have no doubt people still do these things which is an individual parenting choice but surely the government shouldn’t be advocating for this?

To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
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vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:39

MikeRafone · 09/01/2026 10:38

when a child has a small digestion system, its far better to give nutritional food rather than food that doesn't have any nutritional value. Feed is best, but if you can give babies and toodles food with decent nutrients its better.

As for juice, there is a video on YouTube that I was linked to on mums net many years ago, that explains why juice isn't really something to be giving children or babies. The video is by an endocrinologist and is called sugar the bitter truth. It's about and hour and half long. he talks about drinking orange juice and the fibre being extracted and why that isn't a good thing to do. if you don't want to watch it all watch between 40 minutes and make sure you watch up to 111 minutes

Cereal with banana is perfectly fine as a meal for a growing child 🙄

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:39

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:19

Government advice should be accurate. If a first time mum googles what to feed her newborn she should be able to trust what the government tells her.

It is accurate. What they’re suggesting is totally fine.

MikeRafone · 09/01/2026 10:38

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 09:10

Does everything you eat have perfect nutritional value?

when a child has a small digestion system, its far better to give nutritional food rather than food that doesn't have any nutritional value. Feed is best, but if you can give babies and toodles food with decent nutrients its better.

As for juice, there is a video on YouTube that I was linked to on mums net many years ago, that explains why juice isn't really something to be giving children or babies. The video is by an endocrinologist and is called sugar the bitter truth. It's about and hour and half long. he talks about drinking orange juice and the fibre being extracted and why that isn't a good thing to do. if you don't want to watch it all watch between 40 minutes and make sure you watch up to 111 minutes

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Carycach4 · 09/01/2026 10:35

My. Ind is boggled by the sanctimonious poster who is getting the vapours at the idea of orange juice but happily gives her kids jam.
I yjink people are thinkingbin terms of a 8 oz glass of oj!

cantkeepawayforever · 09/01/2026 10:34

The fact remains that UK food culture, for many of today’s parents, is ‘cereal and / or toast for breakfast’. It’s what they were fed as children, and it is what they will reach for to feed their own children.

The advice given - a range of plain cereals, with milk and with fruit or fruit juice - is a better version of what the ‘default’ might be (sugared cereal or a ‘cereal bar’ with no fruit / veg content at all).

A breakfast such as this, in a context of 3 varied meals a day and a couple of plain snacks, with water / milk to drink, and with main meals being home-prepared rather than takeaway / ready meals / pouches, is not a recipe for obesity.

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 10:31

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:28

Is buying an apple really more expensive than buying apple juice? I'd say not, especially if considering the price in relation to the nutritional value.

But in any case the government could have an 'ideal' food list and then give alternatives like rice crispies for picky eaters/lower budgets. They shouldn't be blanket recommending cereal to everybody.

An apple tastes very different to apple juice. If you've been drinking sweetened apple juice since you're a baby, an apple isn't going to be a substitute. People tend to eat and prefer that which they are used to. There are people who believe Sunny D and Nutella are very healthy drinks/foods, because the adverts give that impression.

JassyRadlett · 09/01/2026 10:30

I've typed it out twice now 😂

Kids who have sweetened drinks as a normal part of their daily routine are more likely to refuse healthier, unsweetened drinks.

And let's be honest there are plenty of parents who'll give in to pressure from their kids once those kids moan or refuse water.

You see plenty of it on here and in other forums/social media with parents moaning about the mean schools that won't let kids have juice or squash when their little darling just won't drink water because they hate the taste. Where did the kids develop the sole preference for sweetened drinks in the first place?

And then they'll be teens who don't drink water (and frankly they're not going to be sticking to the diluted juice are they?) and adults who don't drink water and gosh I wonder why we've ended up with a sugar tax on drinks.

All for fuck all nutritional benefit.

Getting people into good habits is a lot easier if you start from the start, as it were. And health authorities should be encouraging good habits and giving parents advice to support that.

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 10:29

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:21

But there are other options apart from elaborate home cooked meals. Instead of fruit juice they could recommend actual fruit. Instead of rice crispies they could say a slice of toast or whatever.

But a slice of toast has fewer nutrients than a bowl of Rice Crispies, and is just as processed - unless you're making your own bread, in which case we're making to the 'is it realistic advice' question.

Deliaskis · 09/01/2026 10:29

Government nutritional guidance is aimed largely at people who don't already know. Mumsnet families are absolutely not the target for this piece of guidance.

At a population level, helping and supporting the most deprived and under-privileged families to do a better job of meeting all of a child's nutritional needs is really important. It isn't about whether Felix should have an avocado or eggs or homemade muesli for breakfast, it's about adequately feeding the vast numbers of children who are at risk of malnutrition through poor diet. You can tell the parents of under-privileged children to provide salmon and eggs for breakfast until the end of time but in most cases it simply isn't achievable, for many different reasons.

Don't let perfect get in the way of good, or 'good enough'. The difference that would be made to many many children if they were able to adopt a diet similar to the guidance would be immense. Once they've managed that, maybe that is the time to build and start swapping in better alternatives.

FickleOcelot · 09/01/2026 10:29

Gahr · 09/01/2026 09:40

YANBU. I was not given food like that growing up, I only drank water (I hated milk) and was only allowed juice or cola on special occasions, ditto high sugar breakfast cereal. That was a holiday treat, normally I had granary bread or branflakes, or fruit and yoghurt. It's part of the reason I have never ever had a weight problem, I think.

And i ate cereal for breakfast every day growing up and I've never had a weight problem.

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:28

TheFairyCaravan · 09/01/2026 10:24

So what’s the alternative? Should they say “if you can’t afford salmon or eggs and your kids won’t eat porridge don’t feed them any breakfast at all?”

Is buying an apple really more expensive than buying apple juice? I'd say not, especially if considering the price in relation to the nutritional value.

But in any case the government could have an 'ideal' food list and then give alternatives like rice crispies for picky eaters/lower budgets. They shouldn't be blanket recommending cereal to everybody.

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 10:26

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:15

Well, it’s not because they have rice crispies and diluted apple juice for breakfast occasionally.

This won’t be popular but I think most of it is lifestyle related - too many snacks, too much screen time and not enough exercise and time out of the house.

I was in Iceland on my lunch break a few days ago. It's a very deprived area and a colleague (who is foreign) commented that the shoppers all looked ill. Pale, sunken eyes with dark circles underneath. They were mostly young women with at least one young child in a buggy. Their baskets were full of those microwaveable burgers, chicken nuggets, energy drinks and microwave pizza slices. I couldn't get over how many things you could buy for £1. People in prison have a similar look due to high carb/empty calorie food. This empty calorie food is a big part of the obesity crisis in children.

FruitWordSalad · 09/01/2026 10:25

MumofCandR · 09/01/2026 10:16

High sugar, fast absorption spiking blood sugar, zero nutrition and zero fibre. Nothing right with rice crispies - for anyone never mind children.

That's not true though...

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:24

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:19

If you’re going to sneer, at least get your facts right - rice crispies, like all UK cereals, are fortified and contain plenty of nutrition.

So rice crispies is so processed and devoid of nutrients that it has to be fortified with vitamins/minerals to make it at all nutritious. How is that a better choice than a pot of yogurt or cheese or an apple or whatever?

TheFairyCaravan · 09/01/2026 10:24

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:16

But does any of that mean that the government should be actively recommending rice crispies?

So what’s the alternative? Should they say “if you can’t afford salmon or eggs and your kids won’t eat porridge don’t feed them any breakfast at all?”

FruitWordSalad · 09/01/2026 10:24

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:03

It's packed full of sugar (especially if not freshly squeezed), bad for teeth and doesn't actually keep you full. Same with rice crispies.

The fact that so many posters don't understand why they're not a healthy choice explains why the obesity rates in the UK are where they are.

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I really don't think you can lay the UK obesity crisis at the door of foods like fruit juice and Rice Krispies Grin

I live in France, a country with one of the lowest obesity rates in Europe. White bread and pastries are staples here, yet far fewer people are fat.

It's thought that obesity rates are so high for a multitude of reasons:

Brits don't move enough, don't eat enough fruit and veg, don't stop for a proper lunch, snack too much and eat too many pre-prepared meals in the evening.

Dolphinnoises · 09/01/2026 10:22

Firstfood · 09/01/2026 09:25

I am literally about to feed my baby her first ever food and it was going to be this. I need answers

My baby’s first food was broccoli at six months. Put her in the high chair with a few florets and let her work it out for herself.

Baby rice is fine if you’re not baby-led weaning but going from baby rice to purées to normal food sounds like a major faff to me.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:22

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:21

But there are other options apart from elaborate home cooked meals. Instead of fruit juice they could recommend actual fruit. Instead of rice crispies they could say a slice of toast or whatever.

Do you honestly think a slice of processed, supermarket bread is better than a bowl of rice crispies in terms of nutrition?

A they do recommend whole fruit - one of the meals is weetabix with sliced banana.

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:21

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:18

Yes. Because advice needs to be realistic and appeal to the majority. Telling people they should be cooking scrambled eggs or whipping up pans of porridge every morning is not going achieve anything - it will just put them off.

But there are other options apart from elaborate home cooked meals. Instead of fruit juice they could recommend actual fruit. Instead of rice crispies they could say a slice of toast or whatever.

Lou7171 · 09/01/2026 10:20

HostaCentral · 09/01/2026 10:03

I find MN boggling at times. I am old, and yes advice changes but...... My DD's had cereal or (shock) biscuits dunked in milk for breakfast. They also had Nesquick added to the milk (faints). Both are slim healthy adults with no teeth or healthy issues.

Side note.... Biscuits with milk is very normal in Europe for children's breakfasts.

They were weaned at four months on baby rice with formula. Then on to veg and fruit purees. Then just ate what we ate.

I have never cooked a breakfast or eaten protein in the morning..... Just vom inducing.

We have however, never eaten ready meals or takeaways. Not a particularly juice drinking family either. So swings and roundabouts.

I agree. There's just a lot of neurotic behaviour around food nowadays.

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:19

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:17

Government advice needs to be realistic and to appeal to the masses though - it’s why we’re told to eat 5 bits of fruit and veg a day when the reality is that we should be having a lot more, but 5 is seen as realistic and not as off-putting.

Government advice should be accurate. If a first time mum googles what to feed her newborn she should be able to trust what the government tells her.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:19

MumofCandR · 09/01/2026 10:16

High sugar, fast absorption spiking blood sugar, zero nutrition and zero fibre. Nothing right with rice crispies - for anyone never mind children.

If you’re going to sneer, at least get your facts right - rice crispies, like all UK cereals, are fortified and contain plenty of nutrition.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:18

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:16

But does any of that mean that the government should be actively recommending rice crispies?

Yes. Because advice needs to be realistic and appeal to the majority. Telling people they should be cooking scrambled eggs or whipping up pans of porridge every morning is not going achieve anything - it will just put them off.

Lamentingalways · 09/01/2026 10:18

fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 09:07

Why does juice need to be introduced to young children at all? If you tried to send juice into school in a water bottle for your child it would be removed.

Most schools are moving towards a common sense approach with this now. They’re relaxing the rules and allowing sugar free squash (of course they don’t know it’s sugar free) I think the general consensus is that being hydrated by weak squash is better than kids not drinking at all as many choose to do if they can only have water.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 10:17

Thatsalineallright · 09/01/2026 10:14

But surely that's exactly why the government messaging should be clear: the ideal is nothing added to a newborn's bottle. Anything else is just confusing the issue. Same with healthy food for toddlers.

Government advice needs to be realistic and to appeal to the masses though - it’s why we’re told to eat 5 bits of fruit and veg a day when the reality is that we should be having a lot more, but 5 is seen as realistic and not as off-putting.

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