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To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?

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fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 08:50

from the government in Northern Ireland that is published online? Surely we don’t do these things any more such as mixing baby rice with milk and advising people to feed their very young children rice crispies and cornflakes for breakfast and advising people to give juice with meals! Surely this is bad advice, I am honestly surprised that the government have been allowed to publish this crap. I have no doubt people still do these things which is an individual parenting choice but surely the government shouldn’t be advocating for this?

To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
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normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 11:11

Sesma · 09/01/2026 11:04

So which DC are having the government breakfasts that are being doled out at schools, I doubt they will be scrambled egg and overnight oats

I read a very sad OFSTED equivalent report about a school in our town. It has poor attendance, lack of parental aspiration and engagement in the educational journey (quote). As a means of boosting attendance, parents, siblings, grandparents and extended family are invited to a daily breakfast club where tea, toast and cereal is free for all. I can imagine the teachers in this school are completely run ragged trying to facilitate this. Unfortunately government funding doesn't stretch to smoked salmon bagels and nut butters.

usedtobeaylis · 09/01/2026 11:10

Falalalalaaaalalalalaaaa · 09/01/2026 11:04

This. I am wondering if it’s serious - who the heck eats avocado for breakfast (aside from the fact it’s incredibly bad for the environment due to the vast amount of water used to grow the avocados and the food miles involved).

All my children “barf” at the texture of chia and avocado. One of them likes porridge. One hates bananas. One just hates breakfast full stop - might have a slice of toast but nothing else.

So yes - we do eat Shreddies and Rice Krispies and, god forbid , sometimes a croissant or pancakes. With a side order of vitamins and maybe a slice of melon if I can persuade them.

Wait what's wrong with pancakes 😅

My daughter has chocolate milk and pancakes after her sport. Its almost like people can have a balanced and strategic outlook to what they eat and that maybe this advice isn't particularly for those people...

SeaUrchinHat · 09/01/2026 11:10

Why does juice need to be introduced to young children at all? If you tried to send juice into school in a water bottle for your child it would be removed.

Can you imagine what would happen if government advice was ‘no juice whatsoever’? This kind of reference material is generally for people who aren’t experts in nutrition so a flat ‘no you can’t’ would be daft: instead it’s more of a ‘if you’re going to’ - because that’s what’ll benefit kids the most in the long run.

Teainthekitchen · 09/01/2026 11:10

I don't give my kids juice very often because it's high in sugar and when I do, I dilute it if they are young. I don't think juice with meals as a daily thing is particularly healthy, it's high sugar and empty calories but every so often, fine.

Cereals are technically a UPF product but if you look at the ingredients in many like rice crispies and wheatabix, there isn't an extensive list of additive so they aren't too bad. Plus cereals are cheap and available for many families meaning they are a realistic option and are often fortified with nutrients.

I don't get the fruit juice thing though. I wouldn't be recommending it daily with meals. Water or milk is best and more affordable.

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 11:10

(Same as tinned soup)

Nutmuncher · 09/01/2026 11:09

I suppose this is making the best of a bad situation when UPFs are the foods of choice for so many people. What else do you expect when so many parents vape, drink energy drinks, make poor food decisions and have screen addictions…they’re suddenly going to be concerned by their children’s nutritional intake? lol

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 11:09

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 09:04

Juice with meals is recommended over drinking it alone. And what on earth is wrong with rice crispies?!

They are just crap in nutritional terms.

MikeRafone · 09/01/2026 11:08

usedtobeaylis · 09/01/2026 11:04

Pure orange juice has fructose, naturally occuring sugars. NOT refined sugar.

that doesn't matter, it still has the same affect on the liver

ChocolateLemons · 09/01/2026 11:07

fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 09:07

Why does juice need to be introduced to young children at all? If you tried to send juice into school in a water bottle for your child it would be removed.

The vit c in juice is great for iron absorption and anemia is a common issue in children.
Just brush teeth!

NinjaPaws · 09/01/2026 11:07

So Tim Spector and company ZOE - not pushing their own branded gut supplements and expensive diets then?

usedtobeaylis · 09/01/2026 11:05

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:00

This has to be one of the most MN things I’ve ever read 😂

Mumsnet is becoming synonymous with 'fucking oblivious'

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 11:04

Cazzovuoi · 09/01/2026 11:01

I’d die of hypoglycaemia if I ate that. They’re not filling at all, full of sugar (refined carbs) and awful in terms of nutrition. Diabetes anyone?

I'm sorry about your medical condition (and that apparently it's so poorly controlled) but having a bowl of Rice Crispies doesn't give anyone diabetes.

peanutbuttertoasty · 09/01/2026 11:04

Natsku · 09/01/2026 10:51

Why do British parents need advice that will appeal to them while parents in my country can get proper advice? Its like the uk government treats its populace like children who can't be expected to understand things or follow advice unless its easy and appealing.

Self discipline and success are not aspirational in modern UK culture.

Falalalalaaaalalalalaaaa · 09/01/2026 11:04

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:00

This has to be one of the most MN things I’ve ever read 😂

This. I am wondering if it’s serious - who the heck eats avocado for breakfast (aside from the fact it’s incredibly bad for the environment due to the vast amount of water used to grow the avocados and the food miles involved).

All my children “barf” at the texture of chia and avocado. One of them likes porridge. One hates bananas. One just hates breakfast full stop - might have a slice of toast but nothing else.

So yes - we do eat Shreddies and Rice Krispies and, god forbid , sometimes a croissant or pancakes. With a side order of vitamins and maybe a slice of melon if I can persuade them.

Sesma · 09/01/2026 11:04

So which DC are having the government breakfasts that are being doled out at schools, I doubt they will be scrambled egg and overnight oats

usedtobeaylis · 09/01/2026 11:04

Pure orange juice has fructose, naturally occuring sugars. NOT refined sugar.

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 11:03

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:00

This has to be one of the most MN things I’ve ever read 😂

The lack of awareness of simply outstanding.

BillieWiper · 09/01/2026 11:03

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 09:26

They had porridge with cow milk, tbs ground almonds, raisins and a bit of cinnamon this morning.. with a glass of water (they both failed to drink the water but it was on the table...)

So not very protein based today.

They often have bagels with salmon and cream cheese or scrambled eggs. Occasionally they will have like a burrito with beans and eggs.

I have one veggie and one allergic to all fish and seafood so protein is tricky!

Ok so they're not babies/ toddlers? Bit different then. And maybe most people can't afford smoked salmon and ground almonds?

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:03

GoldMerchant · 09/01/2026 10:59

I'm shocked that so few people realise who this advice is for and what has to be considered when its written.

It's not for people who have the money, time, knowledge and capabilities to provide salmon, eggs and bagels for breakfast (to quote one poster above). The stuff they recommend has to be cheap and it has to be for sale in the local SPAR or whatever which will be the only shop many people can get to. So ground almonds just isn't possible! It has to be something children will almost certainly eat, or the response will be "Well I wasted £5 on that meal which was my whole food budget for the day, no one ate it, and so I won't do it again."

Also, all the people who are suggesting bran flakes without reading that high fibre is not recommended for small children... This is guidelines for early feeding not all children of all ages.

Cartons of juice are shelf-stable. If don't want to buy fruit that risks going off, this is one way that kids will get some of a five a day. It's not as ideal as an orange; it's better than no fruit at all.

Exactly this.

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 11:02

BeanQuisine · 09/01/2026 10:50

Most babies and children love scrambled egg. Very quick and easy to do in the microwave. You can add a little yoghurt to the egg, and add some spinach, beans or other vegetables (pureed or mashed for baby) to make a tasty scrambled egg mix-up, with a good balance of protein, fat, and fibre.

But the sample menu has eggs for three of the five suggested tea-time meals! If you actually look at the whole thing rather than just criticising the inclusion of rice crispies, they have tried to ensure that the day as a whole is balanced. Which is a much better aim than trying to ensure the macros in a baby's breakfast would please a TikToker.

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 11:01

I think the original question needs to be "AIBU to be shocked that not all parents care about nutrition".

The government is not formulating advice for mumsnet children, it's the ones who are still drinking bottles of milk redbull age 4 because it's easier for their parents than feeding them. Rice Krispies or a slice of (shock, horror) white bread is an improvement on their current diet. Many of their parents have never worked so in theory have time to mill oats/make sourdough, but they are doing what they know, and most probably their neighbours are doing it too.

Cazzovuoi · 09/01/2026 11:01

Lmnop22 · 09/01/2026 09:12

They’re a low fat, filling breakfast and with milk have sources of calcium, iron etc so they’re not the perfect breakfast of balance but it’s not bad advice to suggest your child might occasionally have them for breakfast!

I’d die of hypoglycaemia if I ate that. They’re not filling at all, full of sugar (refined carbs) and awful in terms of nutrition. Diabetes anyone?

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:00

Happytap · 09/01/2026 10:59

Could you have got up a bit earlier or prepped the night before?

We do chia pudding, overnight oats, porridge with seeds and nut butters, homemade beans on toast, avocado on toast etc before leaving for school at 7.45am.

It's so important for kids to have proper nutrition before school.

This has to be one of the most MN things I’ve ever read 😂

Falalalalaaaalalalalaaaa · 09/01/2026 11:00

TwinklyRoseTurtle · 09/01/2026 09:02

Juice with meals is recommended due to the acidity such as fruit juice only with meals, very common advice

Also because the vitamin C in juice assist iron absorption

Natsku · 09/01/2026 10:59

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 10:54

Because sadly there is a huge element of apathy. Why would you take the time to cook eggs or whip up porridge when you can hand your toddler a cereal bar instead? It's cheaper, doesn't need any gas/electric, preparation or cleaning up afterwards. Many say "well we were brought up like this and it didn't do us any harm".

That's why the advice should be honest and clear, so at least they know its not the best thing to feed their child. More in person advice and information in childhood would help too - we have regular health checkups throughout childhood here, where you are asked what your child is eating (amongst other things) and that makes you think about their diet and how ideal or not it is (and screen time and how much sleep they get and if they're eating their lunch at school and things like that)