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To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?

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fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 08:50

from the government in Northern Ireland that is published online? Surely we don’t do these things any more such as mixing baby rice with milk and advising people to feed their very young children rice crispies and cornflakes for breakfast and advising people to give juice with meals! Surely this is bad advice, I am honestly surprised that the government have been allowed to publish this crap. I have no doubt people still do these things which is an individual parenting choice but surely the government shouldn’t be advocating for this?

To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
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Kirbert2 · 09/01/2026 12:12

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 12:05

My DC was in hospital once and the boy in the next bed had had major surgery the previous day. When he woke up, he wasn't even 12 hours post op and his mum had brought him in a sausage roll, large mars bar and a bottle of iron bru. She was going on at him about eating and he kept saying he felt too sick to eat anything. She was shouting at him saying it was because the anaesthetic had curdled in his stomach and if he ate "a good breakfast" he'd feel better. The nurse had to intervene and say there was no need for him to eat anything as he was still on post op fluids, and that when he was feeling up to it toast would be much more appropriate.

I had the opposite when my son was in hospital. They told me as long as he had something, it didn't matter as long as he fancied it because it was better than him not eating.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:12

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:10

Privilege? Or just a reasonable sense of how to live a healthy life?

Nutritious food is not expensive. It's just that people in the UK are too lazy and ignorant to want it, buy it and make it. (And have a bizarre willingness to spend their meagre funds on vapes and alcohol and streaming and fillers and nails and you name it...)

Cornershop doesn't have healthy options? Get off the couch, switch off the tv and take a walk to a bigger supermarket. Plenty available there.

The fact is that obesity and other life style driven issues are off the charts in this country. The NHS pandering to people's feckless attitudes is a massive part of the problem.

Yes, privilege. But seeing as your post is filled with lazy stereotypes about vapes and fake nails, I won’t waste my time engaging with you about it.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:10

Happytap · 09/01/2026 12:01

Yes that's literally what I've just said I've realised

Fair enough - hopefully now you can understand the reality for many people and realise how fortunate you and your family are to be able to afford and eat the things you do.

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:10

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:00

Honesty, your posts reek of privilege. I know you’re probably only speaking from your own experience but many kids don’t even get breakfast before school, or they have something in the car or from the corner shop. A bowl of fortified cereal and a glass of diluted juice is way, way above the bare minimum for many families.

Privilege? Or just a reasonable sense of how to live a healthy life?

Nutritious food is not expensive. It's just that people in the UK are too lazy and ignorant to want it, buy it and make it. (And have a bizarre willingness to spend their meagre funds on vapes and alcohol and streaming and fillers and nails and you name it...)

Cornershop doesn't have healthy options? Get off the couch, switch off the tv and take a walk to a bigger supermarket. Plenty available there.

The fact is that obesity and other life style driven issues are off the charts in this country. The NHS pandering to people's feckless attitudes is a massive part of the problem.

PfizerFan · 09/01/2026 12:09

Huh? My toddler often has fortified cereal for breakfast.

Nutmuncher · 09/01/2026 12:08

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 11:11

@NutmuncherThose people aren’t reading the guidelines anyway. The rest of us deserve better nutritional guidance.

True, maybe it’s better to send them a TikTok instead

BeanQuisine · 09/01/2026 12:08

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:00

Educate me then!

Why is it that NI/UK kids are obese with mouths full of rotting teeth?

Quantity has a lot to do with it, but unlikely to be quantity of breakfast cereal as such. More likely a combination of what they have for main meals, plus between-meal snacks.

Childhood obesity was a lot more rare in the 1960s/70s etc. but if anything, sugary breakfast cereals were even more popular in those days.

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 12:08

I don't get the cost argument... surely juice costs more than tap water?

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:07

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 12:06

True, I do have more time now. But I've only wfh for the last few years... before that I was office based 5 days a week and still didn't feed my kids cereal and juice.

Good for you - you clearly deserve a medal for being so much better than everyone else 🙄

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:06

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:00

Educate me then!

Why is it that NI/UK kids are obese with mouths full of rotting teeth?

They’re not all like that though, are they? 🙄

But if you want to be educated - fine. There are children in this country who never see a dentist. There are children raised in families where dental hygiene is ignored. There are children who are raised on bottles of full fat Coke, bars of chocolate and beige oven food covered in ketchup and salt.

A bowl of low sugar, fortified cereal and a cup of diluted apple juice is not the reason there is an obesity crisis, and the fact that you think it is shows how bloody privileged you are.

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 12:06

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:58

Yes, but you still have more time available than those who have to leave at 7.30 to drop their kids at the childminder or breakfast club 🙄

True, I do have more time now. But I've only wfh for the last few years... before that I was office based 5 days a week and still didn't feed my kids cereal and juice.

Flowerlovinglady · 09/01/2026 12:06

A friend of mine is a dietician and when she moved house, I asked her if she was going to get a new job. She said in all conscience she couldn't work as a dietician anymore because she didn't agree with the advice she was handing out.

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 12:05

My DC was in hospital once and the boy in the next bed had had major surgery the previous day. When he woke up, he wasn't even 12 hours post op and his mum had brought him in a sausage roll, large mars bar and a bottle of iron bru. She was going on at him about eating and he kept saying he felt too sick to eat anything. She was shouting at him saying it was because the anaesthetic had curdled in his stomach and if he ate "a good breakfast" he'd feel better. The nurse had to intervene and say there was no need for him to eat anything as he was still on post op fluids, and that when he was feeling up to it toast would be much more appropriate.

Happytap · 09/01/2026 12:01

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:00

Honesty, your posts reek of privilege. I know you’re probably only speaking from your own experience but many kids don’t even get breakfast before school, or they have something in the car or from the corner shop. A bowl of fortified cereal and a glass of diluted juice is way, way above the bare minimum for many families.

Yes that's literally what I've just said I've realised

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 12:01

Lou7171 · 09/01/2026 09:26

A solitary satsuma apparently 😂

The satsuma and glass of water was in place of a glass of orange juice. Not to replace breakfast... in addition to.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:00

Happytap · 09/01/2026 11:57

Yes, I think you're probably right. Im finding it hard to believe that rice Krispies and orange juice aren't the bare minimum but yes, I can see if you're used to giving them a chocolate bar on the walk to school then that would be a huge improvement. Thanks for the thought challenge

Honesty, your posts reek of privilege. I know you’re probably only speaking from your own experience but many kids don’t even get breakfast before school, or they have something in the car or from the corner shop. A bowl of fortified cereal and a glass of diluted juice is way, way above the bare minimum for many families.

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:00

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:55

No, people are just being realistic. And if you honestly think that the occasional bowl of rice crispies and a cup of watered down juice with breakfast is why some kids are obese, then you’re just showing how incredibly ignorant you are about how many people live on a daily basis.

Educate me then!

Why is it that NI/UK kids are obese with mouths full of rotting teeth?

Nanny0gg · 09/01/2026 11:58

fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 09:07

Why does juice need to be introduced to young children at all? If you tried to send juice into school in a water bottle for your child it would be removed.

Because they would be drinking it during the day and it would be dreadful for their teeth?

Restrict children too much and watch what happens when they're teenagers!

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:58

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 11:55

my kids don't wfh... I still do the school run!

Yes, but you still have more time available than those who have to leave at 7.30 to drop their kids at the childminder or breakfast club 🙄

Happytap · 09/01/2026 11:57

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 11:52

Again, if you think that sample menu is what people already give then you live in a very privileged bubble. Look at the whole thing (not just the breakfasts). It is fairly nutritionally balanced, almost all home cooked and based largely on whole food. That is aspirational for a lot of people. It isn't for you, and it isn't for me - but the guidance isn't aimed at us. This is very much aimed at improving at what people would give without guidance, they are already doing what you suggest, you just can't recognise it.

Yes, I think you're probably right. Im finding it hard to believe that rice Krispies and orange juice aren't the bare minimum but yes, I can see if you're used to giving them a chocolate bar on the walk to school then that would be a huge improvement. Thanks for the thought challenge

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 11:55

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 11:44

This thread tells you everything you need to know about why this country (NI in particular) is the grip of a childhood obesity plus tooth decay epidemic...

It is genuinely mindboggling that people are this resistant to science and evidence and even plain common sense. But that the NHS continues to push this is actually negligent.

OP, I agree with you entirely.

No, people are just being realistic. And if you honestly think that the occasional bowl of rice crispies and a cup of watered down juice with breakfast is why some kids are obese, then you’re just showing how incredibly ignorant you are about how many people live on a daily basis.

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 11:55

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 09:32

Well, exactly, whereas lots of parents are in a rush to drop their kids at childcare or breakfast club and need something quick and that their kids are guaranteed to eat.

my kids don't wfh... I still do the school run!

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 11:52

Happytap · 09/01/2026 11:47

Fair enough. I think maybe a good option could be to suggest more options in the eating guides. So yes, include things that people know and give guidance on how to maximise the nutrition from them (pairing orange juice with iron fortified cereal etc) and also having other less processed options so for those where time/ money allows they know what they could also try

I know I've massively benefitted from reading the 'eat well' guides and they have given me ideas to improve the foods and variety I offer my children. So I suppose I was thinking from that perspective that if you are wanting to make changes it's good to have some ideas to start off from, rather than only being shown the foods you already give if that makes sense.

Again, if you think that sample menu is what people already give then you live in a very privileged bubble. Look at the whole thing (not just the breakfasts). It is fairly nutritionally balanced, almost all home cooked and based largely on whole food. That is aspirational for a lot of people. It isn't for you, and it isn't for me - but the guidance isn't aimed at us. This is very much aimed at improving at what people would give without guidance, they are already doing what you suggest, you just can't recognise it.

Somersetbaker · 09/01/2026 11:52

BeanQuisine · 09/01/2026 11:39

Surely in NI it would be a Full Irish or an Ulster Fry.

Now your talking, you can shove your chia seeds right where the sun doesn't shine.

MikeRafone · 09/01/2026 11:50

usedtobeaylis · 09/01/2026 11:33

You can believe whoever you want from your google searches that lead you confuse your sucrose and fructose.

you clearly didn't watch the video up thread and I will stick to the information supplied in the conference/lecture by the endocrinologist - not some random decided others are confused as it doesn't fit with their theory