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What’s going on in this situation?

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Thestormishere · 09/01/2026 06:43

Name change because of possibly very recognisable location.

Live just off one of the most expensive areas in London. Houses between £20 and £40mil.

Go for walks daily.

There’s always a car with someone inside, outside of a specific house. The house is not on the road with the very expensive ones, just off it, so not an ambassador/Middle Eastern royalty one, more like a £5/6mil one.

Lots of private security guards around with high viz jackets and marked cars patrolling by car or on foot.

‘They’, instead, have normal cars with always someone inside looking utterly bored, checking phones, listening to music. Never outside of the car, not even in summer. So cars and people inside change, but car with person inside there day and night, always in front of this house.

From the outside, you can see that inside the house there’s a tv showing cctv camera feeds. It feels like the tv was positioned so as to make it clear to outsiders that there are plenty of cameras in and around the house.

And a man often sitting by the window facing the road in an office/library room. Neither the man nor the room look fancy, but also not a guard.

What’s the deal?

(I know it sounds like the beginning of a badly-written short story, but it’s all real, I’ve been discussing this with my husband and I just can’t understand what’s going on but I pass in front of it every day so it’s hard to not think about it)

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outerspacepotato · 10/01/2026 22:42

Surveillance.

Although I love the team preventing people from parking on front of the house idea.

Hmm1234 · 10/01/2026 22:36

Thestormishere · 09/01/2026 06:43

Name change because of possibly very recognisable location.

Live just off one of the most expensive areas in London. Houses between £20 and £40mil.

Go for walks daily.

There’s always a car with someone inside, outside of a specific house. The house is not on the road with the very expensive ones, just off it, so not an ambassador/Middle Eastern royalty one, more like a £5/6mil one.

Lots of private security guards around with high viz jackets and marked cars patrolling by car or on foot.

‘They’, instead, have normal cars with always someone inside looking utterly bored, checking phones, listening to music. Never outside of the car, not even in summer. So cars and people inside change, but car with person inside there day and night, always in front of this house.

From the outside, you can see that inside the house there’s a tv showing cctv camera feeds. It feels like the tv was positioned so as to make it clear to outsiders that there are plenty of cameras in and around the house.

And a man often sitting by the window facing the road in an office/library room. Neither the man nor the room look fancy, but also not a guard.

What’s the deal?

(I know it sounds like the beginning of a badly-written short story, but it’s all real, I’ve been discussing this with my husband and I just can’t understand what’s going on but I pass in front of it every day so it’s hard to not think about it)

They have security and are important people? Why is that so abnormal for the houses/ area you have described? You sound like a bored housewife hoping for a murder mystery stop curtain twitching

Jesslovesengineering · 10/01/2026 21:50

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · 09/01/2026 09:47

Is it Dutch culture to have no curiosity at all? No wonder poor Van Gogh went mad! 😂

I'm British and share the Dutch woman's bewilderment. Genuinely shocked at the level of interest some people have in what random strangers do. I don't think curtain twitching would have improved Van Gogh's mental health.

Snakebite61 · 10/01/2026 19:31

Thestormishere · 09/01/2026 06:43

Name change because of possibly very recognisable location.

Live just off one of the most expensive areas in London. Houses between £20 and £40mil.

Go for walks daily.

There’s always a car with someone inside, outside of a specific house. The house is not on the road with the very expensive ones, just off it, so not an ambassador/Middle Eastern royalty one, more like a £5/6mil one.

Lots of private security guards around with high viz jackets and marked cars patrolling by car or on foot.

‘They’, instead, have normal cars with always someone inside looking utterly bored, checking phones, listening to music. Never outside of the car, not even in summer. So cars and people inside change, but car with person inside there day and night, always in front of this house.

From the outside, you can see that inside the house there’s a tv showing cctv camera feeds. It feels like the tv was positioned so as to make it clear to outsiders that there are plenty of cameras in and around the house.

And a man often sitting by the window facing the road in an office/library room. Neither the man nor the room look fancy, but also not a guard.

What’s the deal?

(I know it sounds like the beginning of a badly-written short story, but it’s all real, I’ve been discussing this with my husband and I just can’t understand what’s going on but I pass in front of it every day so it’s hard to not think about it)

I couldn't care less.

1clavdivs · 10/01/2026 16:47

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 10/01/2026 10:47

I still think security although what he'd doing against 2 or more.... 🤷🏼‍♂️

He’d call the police.

tommyhoundmum · 10/01/2026 12:37

There is often protection for jurists

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 10/01/2026 10:47

I still think security although what he'd doing against 2 or more.... 🤷🏼‍♂️

Thestormishere · 10/01/2026 10:44

Definitely not filming, there are loads of movies being made around here and central London and the set up is completely different, with vans, crews, props, people. Not a man in a car looking bored.

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MusicMakesItAllBetter · 10/01/2026 10:40

LucyClayton · 10/01/2026 10:07

Maybe they're making a film or box set. Who knows.. Why are you worried?

My thoughts.
Filming

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 10/01/2026 10:40

Thestormishere · 09/01/2026 08:01

Love these!
I do have a cat…

But why are they not sitting just inside by the door? Also, how are they actually effective if they look at their phone because they are bored? (I’d be too if I had to sit for hours there!)

"security"

LucyClayton · 10/01/2026 10:07

Thestormishere · 09/01/2026 06:43

Name change because of possibly very recognisable location.

Live just off one of the most expensive areas in London. Houses between £20 and £40mil.

Go for walks daily.

There’s always a car with someone inside, outside of a specific house. The house is not on the road with the very expensive ones, just off it, so not an ambassador/Middle Eastern royalty one, more like a £5/6mil one.

Lots of private security guards around with high viz jackets and marked cars patrolling by car or on foot.

‘They’, instead, have normal cars with always someone inside looking utterly bored, checking phones, listening to music. Never outside of the car, not even in summer. So cars and people inside change, but car with person inside there day and night, always in front of this house.

From the outside, you can see that inside the house there’s a tv showing cctv camera feeds. It feels like the tv was positioned so as to make it clear to outsiders that there are plenty of cameras in and around the house.

And a man often sitting by the window facing the road in an office/library room. Neither the man nor the room look fancy, but also not a guard.

What’s the deal?

(I know it sounds like the beginning of a badly-written short story, but it’s all real, I’ve been discussing this with my husband and I just can’t understand what’s going on but I pass in front of it every day so it’s hard to not think about it)

Maybe they're making a film or box set. Who knows.. Why are you worried?

NewAgeNewMe · 10/01/2026 02:06

If you need security why would you visibly sit in full sight. Also is there security at the back? I’ve always preferred the roads off Bishops Avenue. My favourite is Winnington. Never could afford it though.

Katflapkit · 10/01/2026 01:44

I reckon a 24hr chauffeur or car service.

ThisIsAGlobalPlayerOriginalPodcast · 10/01/2026 00:42

EmeraldRoulette · 10/01/2026 00:33

Am I the only person who wouldn't think anything of it?! Lots of people have security and it makes sense for them to work from the front window, surely?

@Thestormishere I left London a couple of years ago. The only place I actually miss is Hampstead. Love Hampstead. (then again, I could get there in a couple of hours so I guess I don't miss it that much as I haven't gone back yet)

I didn't used to walk around that side much though.

Honestly I could walk past every single day for ten years and I wouldn’t notice it 😬

ZenZazie · 10/01/2026 00:37

HelenaWaiting · 09/01/2026 06:57

Some of the smaller countries do have their embassies in fairly unremarkable buildings.

Things may have changed but IIRC the Eritrean embassy used to be near Sainsburys in Angel and the diplomatic vehicle was a Fiat.

EmeraldRoulette · 10/01/2026 00:33

Am I the only person who wouldn't think anything of it?! Lots of people have security and it makes sense for them to work from the front window, surely?

@Thestormishere I left London a couple of years ago. The only place I actually miss is Hampstead. Love Hampstead. (then again, I could get there in a couple of hours so I guess I don't miss it that much as I haven't gone back yet)

I didn't used to walk around that side much though.

mummygranny · 10/01/2026 00:33

I have given this some thought ….Could the 4-5 million pound house , with the security cameras off the road of the 20-40 million houses be a security hub for these other houses . The cameras are at the bigger houses and are watched on the screens at the other house . The guy outside ready to move to whichever house if required
if there not already doing this maybe we could pitch it
I only found Mumsnet last week I’m loving it

Oricolt · 10/01/2026 00:19

Could be a CEO of a company that does something controversial?

Could be a social media influencer? They attract stalkers.

Could be a whistleblower or an activist? Someone who has made enemies?

Could be a lottery winner who went public? Though that doesn't fit the CCTV set up and the man at his desk.

Someone involved in a legal case? A key witness? Or a lawyer or judge who sent some big crime boss down?

Just an ordinary person with a stalker?

Oricolt · 10/01/2026 00:14

I reckon it's just someone who has a reason to spend money on personal protection. Maybe they wrote books or articles that pissed off a demographic. Or maybe they have a stalker or a violent ex. If I could afford a 5k house, and I had reason to believe that a particular person might come for me at some point, I could probably find the money to pay for 24hr security. And I'd still just be a normal wealthy person with a normal car and a nice house and a bodyguard that I prioritised in the budget above upgrading my car.

Missstified · 10/01/2026 00:03

Noel and Liam Gallagher had to hire 24-hour security for their mum and her former council house during the run-up to their tour. This could be something similar.

GlasgowGal2014 · 09/01/2026 23:36

Could it be the home of someone important, but not massively rich, like a current or former member of government? Former PMs get protection, but I'm not sure whether it's as incognito or not. I have heard Gordon Brown is followed round the sleepy little town he lives in by a number of security guards in when he goes for his daily stroll.

Thestormishere · 09/01/2026 22:13

Mmm, the most likely option then is that he's a person who could easily not need a private guard stationed outside of his house 24/7 but due to work-related reasons he has one.

Still not sure about the very obvious and many camera feeds but I will have to let that go until I am able to find the courage to knock on their door and ask for direct questions about issues that have absolutely nothing to do with me.

For the pp asking, if you go on google maps and check out Wildwood road, where the houses are, not where it cuts through the extension, you will see that they are way too far from the road to see what's going on inside. On Ingram avenue, instead, they are very close to the road. At this time of the year, if you go for a walk after 4 you can see everything that is going on inside those houses because the lights are on and the rooms facing the road are very visible. I don't like walking in the Heath that much, I always go along the main roads, so there's plenty to see!

PS, remarkably few curtains too...

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Lizziespring · 09/01/2026 20:58

There's a security guard on my street sitting in his umarked car looking bored as I write. I wish the rich neighbour who for some weird reason pays a fortune for him, would give me the.money to curtain twitch instead. But hey.

herefortheclicks · 09/01/2026 20:39

two questions: what kind of a house it is that you can see in the front window, aren't they quite within the front yard and behind walls and gates? and 2. how do they heat these massive ball rooms or halls etc

DeathBanana · 09/01/2026 20:26

It’s a mumsnetter maintaining constant vigilance against dogs slobbering and pooing on their hydrangea or neighbours popping by to ask an innocuous question

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