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To keep spreadable butter in the cupboard

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willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:05

Every time MIL comes round she moves the spreadable butter from the cupboard to the fridge and explains that it spreads straight from the fridge, so it needs to be kept in the fridge. Spreadable butter does not spread straight from the fridge though. None of the own brand ones do and Anchor doesn't. I don't know about Lurpak. MIL bakes all her own sourdough so maybe it spreads better on there. And it spreads okay on toast. But making a regular sandwich on supermarket sliced bread is a ridiculous experience with spreadable butter unless it's at room temp. I only keep spreadable butter in the fridge if the weather is hot enough to liquify the butter. Or if MIL has been round and I haven't put things right again.

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JudyMoncada · 08/01/2026 22:28

Your MIL is right. It is intended to be kept refrigerated.

Country Life spreadable is spreadable straight from the fridge.

I find if someone (DS) leaves the tub out for too long and it softens, then it stops being spreadable thereafter. Doesn't matter what brand, there is something about warming and cooling it that leads to a permanent change in consistency.

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 22:22

XenoBitch · 08/01/2026 22:15

It should be kept in the fridge. A big hint is that it is in a fridge in the shops to begin with.
I use Lidl spreadable butter. Is rather nice and is spreads well.

But the real issue is the one between yourself and your MIL.

Block butter is kept in the fridge in the supermarket too but people keep that out.

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HouseAshamed · 08/01/2026 22:22

The butter dish only needs washing when you put a new block of butter on it.
Even I am not that lazy.

XenoBitch · 08/01/2026 22:15

It should be kept in the fridge. A big hint is that it is in a fridge in the shops to begin with.
I use Lidl spreadable butter. Is rather nice and is spreads well.

But the real issue is the one between yourself and your MIL.

Flatandhappy · 08/01/2026 22:12

I keep Lurpak spreadable in the fridge and Kerrygold block butter in the cupboard but bearing in mind the forecast here today is 37 degrees and we are in the middle of a heatwave everything is currently in the fridge.

BeardedBarley · 08/01/2026 22:01

We only have actual butter and it lives in a butter dish in a cupboard.

StrawberrySquash · 08/01/2026 21:58

RunningNananananananananana · 08/01/2026 21:19

How the hell do you spread it? Ours has to go in the microwave for 10 seconds (portion sized) before it can go on bread.

Warmish modern house and not buying sliced bread.

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:56

Why should it be kept in the fridge though, it doesn't go bad within the time we use it

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QuietLifeNoDrama · 08/01/2026 21:55

Butter (spreadable or not) should be kept in the fridge. However if you choose not too that’s completely up to you. She doesn’t have to like it, she’s got no right to change things around in your home!

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:51

goingtotown · 08/01/2026 21:48

You’re paying for rapeseed oil in spreadable butter read the ingredients.

I'm paying for the tub really. It's annoying to keep it in the paper and I ain't washing a butter dish.

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minipie · 08/01/2026 21:50

goingtotown · 08/01/2026 21:48

You’re paying for rapeseed oil in spreadable butter read the ingredients.

“Spreadable mixed fats” wouldn’t sell as well.

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:50

minipie · 08/01/2026 21:49

Aw c’mon OP, you know a thread is a discussion and is allowed to go a little off topic right?

It went off topic within about 2 replies

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minipie · 08/01/2026 21:49

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:24

I don't really care about those of you who use block butter, it's not relevant. I didn't ask what butter everybody uses.

Aw c’mon OP, you know a thread is a discussion and is allowed to go a little off topic right?

goingtotown · 08/01/2026 21:48

You’re paying for rapeseed oil in spreadable butter read the ingredients.

Smartiepants79 · 08/01/2026 21:34

If I leave my spreadable out of the fridge it melts and splits and then it really doesn’t spread. Spreadable butters have buttermilk and stuff added and are meant to be in the fridge.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 08/01/2026 21:33

We keep our buttery spread in the fridge but IMO butter (and margarine and real butter ) should go in the bin. ( Few things trip my upchuck reflex than thick butter on bread products )

But I'm obviously quite bonkers !

BloodandGlitter · 08/01/2026 21:31

My lurpak doesn't spread straight from the fridge! Not unless I buy the "softest" one.

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:30

Pancakeflipper · 08/01/2026 21:30

Lurpax spreads straight from the fridge

That's what they want you to think.

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Pancakeflipper · 08/01/2026 21:30

Lurpax spreads straight from the fridge

BasilParsley · 08/01/2026 21:28

You lost me at "spreadable" - anything with that word before it is not TRUE butter.
Full-fat block butter (e.g. Lurpak slightly salted) is the only real thing. Mine sits in a lidded butter dish in the store cupboard to the right of the hob where I keep tins of things.
I also have my own Lurpak slightly salted butter mountain of frozen full-fat blocks in the freezer bought when it was on offer - defrosts a treat!

Starzinsky · 08/01/2026 21:27

Never put mine in the fridge as it doesn't spread so well from the fridge. I agree it's annoying when visitors move it to the fridge.

Copiousamountsofpulses · 08/01/2026 21:27

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:24

I don't really care about those of you who use block butter, it's not relevant. I didn't ask what butter everybody uses.

Fair enough!

I have a friend who also keeps her spread in the cupboard. MIL just needs to mind her own business!

searchforthesun · 08/01/2026 21:26

Don’t buy spreads, they are full of non necessary ingredients to make them spread. Just buy butter and leave it out. It’s better for you.

DiscoBeat · 08/01/2026 21:25

I use normal butter and just keep a small bit out of each day in a little butter dish. But I wouldn't leave a whole tub or packet out

willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:24

I don't really care about those of you who use block butter, it's not relevant. I didn't ask what butter everybody uses.

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