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Cinema alone

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Fireonbutfrozen · 08/01/2026 20:43

Do you ever do it?

I have a couple of times and like it, but always feel a bit weird going in. Also-this is crazy, do you ever feel a bit scared on your own? Ive been in before when I was the only one in there, does that leave you vulnerable?

Planning to go tomorrow and sneak some treats in my bag from the shop, i’m thinking Revels or Minstrels and some Monster munch
What would you take?

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Christmaseree · 11/01/2026 17:39

YerArseInParsley · 11/01/2026 17:00

No, but I've bit the bullet and bought myself a ticket to go see a comedian on my own. Will be the first time I've ever done it. If I wait for someone to go places with me I'll never go anywhere.

That’s my thinking, I went to a Rick Astley concert the Christmas before last. Afterwards a few people said they would have gone with me but I’ve found in the past when I’ve asked friends to do stuff they usually say no especially if it’s out of their comfort zone.
So I booked myself a taxi each way, a front row ticket and treated myself to a lovely Christmas experience.

YerArseInParsley · 11/01/2026 17:00

Fireonbutfrozen · 08/01/2026 20:43

Do you ever do it?

I have a couple of times and like it, but always feel a bit weird going in. Also-this is crazy, do you ever feel a bit scared on your own? Ive been in before when I was the only one in there, does that leave you vulnerable?

Planning to go tomorrow and sneak some treats in my bag from the shop, i’m thinking Revels or Minstrels and some Monster munch
What would you take?

No, but I've bit the bullet and bought myself a ticket to go see a comedian on my own. Will be the first time I've ever done it. If I wait for someone to go places with me I'll never go anywhere.

Shell18celhave · 11/01/2026 11:22

I had a unlimited pass for a few years, used to go all the time especially straight from work whilst bf was on shifts. Used to grab a subway & coffee at the cinema. Once was just me & another guy, from the rustling sounds & the smell he was eating his tea too, fish & chips!
Go & enjoy it

Ferrfoxache · 11/01/2026 11:08

Hell Yes !! Done it a few times as my OH isn't a Cinema type of guy, Loved it !! Was weird the first time when i went to See 'Indiana Jones and the KOTKS' as i felt paranoid that everyone was staring at me. But then thought FK it !! Done it again for 'Sherlock Holmes GOS' more confident this time, big bag Maltesers, couple of packets of Cheese and Onion Discos and a bottle of Pepsi Max, Nobody cares, also safer going in the day time x

Alliod40 · 11/01/2026 11:02

FettleOfKish · 08/01/2026 20:47

All the time, more often than with anyone else actually. It’s my little escape, a night out of the house when I was single, and now I leave DH at home with the toddler and watch something for a couple of hours without scrolling on my phone. Never felt vulnerable or scared. Never felt weird about it.

I’m a die hard pick & mix fan though so I don’t take my own sweets, I get them there (although pertinent to note that you don’t have to sneak these days, it’s perfectly fine to take your own in the majority of cinemas!).

Absolutely love this and yes I'm a pick n mix fan too..if I'm going to cinema..I'm having this there..if I fancy choc also will bring that though..its a great way to enjoy a movie no phone time xx

miss79guided · 11/01/2026 10:32

Fupoffyagrasshole · 08/01/2026 20:53

I go alone weekly at least ! It’s my escape from toddler bed time and down time

my husband got me a membership for the Everyman cinemas for Christmas so I get lots of free and discounted tickets

free and discounted - like the quick sale isle at the supermarket
> want to get thru the door

MsOtisReflects · 11/01/2026 10:11

Why would random cinema staff have an opinion on people watching films on their own?

SlothCat · 11/01/2026 09:35

Yup, I go on my own all the time. I love it, I have an unlimited card and go most weekends. Occasionally with people, but mostly on my own. I see a lot of people on their own. Staff don't seem to think anything of it at all. Like someone else who posted above, I'm a massive pick n mix fan so mostly get that.

Peonies12 · 11/01/2026 09:31

Of course it’s totally fine. I don’t get needing to go with someone else! It’s much more feasible for me to go alone, as have a child so DH has to stay. And we have different taste in films

Camelia224 · 11/01/2026 09:16

FettleOfKish · 08/01/2026 20:47

All the time, more often than with anyone else actually. It’s my little escape, a night out of the house when I was single, and now I leave DH at home with the toddler and watch something for a couple of hours without scrolling on my phone. Never felt vulnerable or scared. Never felt weird about it.

I’m a die hard pick & mix fan though so I don’t take my own sweets, I get them there (although pertinent to note that you don’t have to sneak these days, it’s perfectly fine to take your own in the majority of cinemas!).

It's liberating. If I really wanted to see something and no-one was available, or they weren't interested I wouldn't hesitate. I will go to a restaurant on my own too. DH doesn't always share my interests, that's fine, I don't share all of his. Enjoy 🍫🍫

Pollabella · 11/01/2026 09:16

Fireonbutfrozen · 08/01/2026 20:43

Do you ever do it?

I have a couple of times and like it, but always feel a bit weird going in. Also-this is crazy, do you ever feel a bit scared on your own? Ive been in before when I was the only one in there, does that leave you vulnerable?

Planning to go tomorrow and sneak some treats in my bag from the shop, i’m thinking Revels or Minstrels and some Monster munch
What would you take?

Sure. If only to escape the nightly rubbish action movies at home. Vue i take snacks Savoy recently i didnt. Often if a film only Ill enjoy. Went for my birthday treat to me!
Never been empty.

Gnrdave · 11/01/2026 09:11

I go quite often on my own, I love it.... getting lost in the film instead of worrying if the person next to me is enjoying it. Take your snacks and settle in, I like popcorn with chocolate dumped into the bag or box and I wash it down with a beer or 2 or coke depending on my want.

PullTheBricksDown · 10/01/2026 16:54

BCBird · 09/01/2026 14:04

Hilarious 😂 Heard someone on radio say they once took a take away carvery in the cinema😂No problem going by myself. Would not take Monster Munch- they stink. My snack of choice would be peanut M and Ms.

Once arranged to go with a friend who brought a takeaway Nandos in to eat during the film. I was not overly happy with that! At least partly as it made me hungry 😆

SauceySally · 10/01/2026 14:38

DappledThings · 08/01/2026 20:48

It is completely normal and unremarkable to go to the cinema on your own.

I find it weird how often this comes up as a question. I've never considered it any different to going for a coffee on my own or getting a train or loads of other normal things.

Yeah I find it weird as well. Also the do you go to the pub or restaurant on your own questions. The pearl clutches show up with 'oh my goodness I would NEVER'

TheClocksFast · 10/01/2026 14:25

Our little cinema (not the main Cineworld one) does drinks (including a big mug of tea/coffee), cakes, snacks, etc. that you can take in to the film (and they have tables for your comestibles). No settees, sadly.

dottiedodah · 10/01/2026 12:37

Fireonbutfrozen Saw the Housemaid on Monday Afternoon really good .Quite a bit of tension built up toward the end, and a really good twist !

Toddlerteaplease · 10/01/2026 12:36

NormasArse · 08/01/2026 20:50

I love going to the cinema alone! Ours has sofas and little tables. I go to the 10:30am showing, and get myself a latte and three warm chocolate chip biscuits (I save one for DH).

Bliss!

Wow where is this?

TheeNotoriousPIG · 10/01/2026 12:20

I prefer it! I find most things easier on my own, because I don't have someone trailing along whinging behind me 😂Also, I do not have to share my snacks...

Of your snack options, I'd choose Minstrels and the red/yellow Monster Munch. Don't forget to take a drink in with you!

Meteorite87 · 10/01/2026 11:48

Fireonbutfrozen · 08/01/2026 20:43

Do you ever do it?

I have a couple of times and like it, but always feel a bit weird going in. Also-this is crazy, do you ever feel a bit scared on your own? Ive been in before when I was the only one in there, does that leave you vulnerable?

Planning to go tomorrow and sneak some treats in my bag from the shop, i’m thinking Revels or Minstrels and some Monster munch
What would you take?

I've previously gone to the cinema alone as my close friends are further away and have mixed responsibilities and schedules. It became a choice between going alone or missing films I wanted to see.

I've never felt "scared" but not have I been to late evening showings alone.

For snacks and soft drinks, take in whatever you fancy. I'm partial to cinema sweet popcorn but will take in a bottled fizzy, a water and a standard choc bar.

As per a pp, I'll make it a goal for 2026 to take a small cheesecake (plus spoon!) to enjoy at a time viewing 😄

OnTheBoardwalk · 09/01/2026 22:49

I went for the first time on my own for Oppenheimer and loved it. Nearly everyone was a single person and well behaved on a weds afternoon viewing

I went to 28 years later with friends and they all annoyed me

i'll be going on my own at a viewing that works for me next time I want to watch a film

DinoLil · 09/01/2026 22:34

Christ on a bike! I always go alone. Best way to go. No discussion as to where to sit, if and what snacks. YABU.

StoppingByWoodsOnAColdEvening · 09/01/2026 22:30

FettleOfKish · 09/01/2026 14:13

Ha, I wonder if anyone ‘felt sorry’ for me when I went to an evening performance of To Kill A Mockingbird in the west end. I hope not, because my excellent seat cost £19 on the day because it was a solo seat, they’d likely paid £100 each for the same row. I feel a bit sorry for them really… Grin

Yes, when I lived in London, one of my favourite things was getting a cheap day seat at the ROH or NT.

Some Mners are really odd about doing the most ordinary things solo.

mismomary · 09/01/2026 22:30

Ooooohhh I've never done this. But 2026 is the year I start.

Chinsupmeloves · 09/01/2026 22:30

A cinema is a 'safe' place to go alone, completely normal.

When I've travelled and been new to areas I've gone out on my own to explore, have a coffee, meal, even bars!

This was before having a mobile phone in your hand, I had a book or newspaper. No one really noticed or cared, even more so now. However, being a young woman, there were quite often men who asked why I was alone, or I would just get chatting to someone nearby, you just take it in your stride. Xx

TheClocksFast · 09/01/2026 22:29

I’m going alone tomorrow - I’m happier to go alone as I find having someone with me distracting (I tend to worry about whether they’re enjoying it).

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