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MrsSkylerWhite · 08/01/2026 13:19

ShawnaMacallister · 08/01/2026 13:18

Yeah, this is just not true though. Most people myself included absolutely still want to eat. I have an appetite, I get hungry. I have to make choices about what I eat. If you think WLI just remove people's desire to eat you've misunderstood badly.

It affects different patients in different ways.

wellcoveredsparerib · 08/01/2026 13:19

I lost 20kg on mounjaro over 6 months last year before coming off. I’ve maintained for 6 months until putting on 2kg over Christmas. Back low carbing now but feel positive. 2kg should be easy compared to 20!

ShawnaMacallister · 08/01/2026 13:18

RollOnSunshine · 08/01/2026 11:34

Completely unsurprising.

The weight jabs surpress your desire to eat. You learn nothing about nutrition or willpower.

I have no idea how anybody can be surprised about these findings.

Yeah, this is just not true though. Most people myself included absolutely still want to eat. I have an appetite, I get hungry. I have to make choices about what I eat. If you think WLI just remove people's desire to eat you've misunderstood badly.

MrsSkylerWhite · 08/01/2026 13:17

RedefineAllThoseBlues · 08/01/2026 13:09

Well, they are informed. All the information is on the leaflet. Prescribers provide warnings and advice on side effects and require users to complete ongoing monitoring (questionnaires, photos, video calls). It's no different to other prescribed medication in terms of information provided to the patient.

Unfortunately, not always so with private providers.

MargoLivebetter · 08/01/2026 13:16

@AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii if they were morbidly obese then their health will be in absolutely dire straits. They are not going to miraculously transform into healthy individuals immediately. Losing weight by eating less and smaller portions is a great start. It is not the end. The whole point of the paper published today was to generate discussion about how people could be better supported when they reach their weightloss goal.

It is not an admission that the WLI don't work to say that you may regain weight if you come off them, it is an admission that we have a tragically poor approach to the treatment of the chronic condition of obesity that is now a global epidemic.

How do you think your family members could be better supported to be successful?

ShawnaMacallister · 08/01/2026 13:16

ShawnaMacallister · 08/01/2026 13:03

Yes I know, I was agreeing with you 🫤

Oh wait no I wasn't. I was responding to someone else agreeing with them. You did say it was horrible, that's a direct quote

AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii · 08/01/2026 13:16

overthedale · 08/01/2026 13:14

Apart from eating less and smaller portions? 😂

Which may not continue if they come off the injection because their hunger will return? 🤷‍♀️ it’s more a will they just revert back to how they were before because of the very few changes they’ve made

Passingthrough123 · 08/01/2026 13:16

Dollyfloss · 08/01/2026 13:13

Yes, I often find posters who cannot come up with a cohesive response just report posts they don’t agree with instead.

I repeat - If you are this triggered by discussing WLI’s you shouldn’t be on the weight loss boards.

I'm interested in the topic and not at all triggered. You, however, have resorted to aggressively bullying people on a personal level. That's why you've been reported.

MrsSkylerWhite · 08/01/2026 13:16

MargoLivebetter · 08/01/2026 13:07

@MrsSkylerWhite how do you think people get these prescription medications? Why did you think that consent is not properly informed?

Our daughter’s MIL had three stone to lose. She bought them from an online provider and was so desperate to lose weight I doubt that she read the leaflets. Was then basically left to get on with it.
I fortunately, she had unpleasant side effects, pretty bad gastric effects, nausea, vomitting, diarrhoea. Lost the weight but now has the dilemma of whether to stop or not.

Entirely different for my diabetic husband who has had constant NHS support and help with any issues.

I’m concerned that because my morbidly obese friend has been turned down by her practice purely on funding grounds, that she may resort to a similar online provider.

SummerBreeze1980 · 08/01/2026 13:15

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I expect we will be using tablets by then!

Dollyfloss · 08/01/2026 13:15

RedefineAllThoseBlues · 08/01/2026 13:09

Well, they are informed. All the information is on the leaflet. Prescribers provide warnings and advice on side effects and require users to complete ongoing monitoring (questionnaires, photos, video calls). It's no different to other prescribed medication in terms of information provided to the patient.

But but but….they’re obviously not informed enough.

overthedale · 08/01/2026 13:14

AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii · 08/01/2026 13:13

How so? If they have to come off them at any point nothing will have changed and by all accounts the hunger will return?

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Apart from eating less and smaller portions? 😂

AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii · 08/01/2026 13:13

overthedale · 08/01/2026 13:12

neither has made much change to their lifestyle or diet other than eating less and slightly smaller portions

A positive change in the context of weight loss I’d say.

How so? If they have to come off them at any point nothing will have changed and by all accounts the hunger will return?

Dollyfloss · 08/01/2026 13:13

Passingthrough123 · 08/01/2026 13:07

Keep doubling down all you want. You've been reported.

Edited

Yes, I often find posters who cannot come up with a cohesive response just report posts they don’t agree with instead.

I repeat - If you are this triggered by discussing WLI’s you shouldn’t be on the weight loss boards.

SummerBreeze1980 · 08/01/2026 13:12

Cluckycluck · 08/01/2026 06:13

I've not used them but know people who have and the weight goes straight back on.

The problem is rarely do people use weightloss injections as part of a life overhaul. People aren't increasing exercise or implementing a healthy diet so as soon as the injections are stopped they go back to the same lifestyle that led them to gain weight in the first place.

Long term weightloss only happens with a commitment to changing lifestyle. Injections are a quick fix and without actual dietary change or exercise the weight will always go back on.

I don't think it is accurate that rarely do people make lifestyle change. Obesity specialists are saying these medications are really helping some people make lifestyle changes. However, lifestyle is only one part of a very complex disease. People can gain weight for many reasons. For me it is due to medication. I still had the same lifestyle of healthy eating and exercise. All interventions I had under the NHS were around lifestyle and when they would look at what I was eating and the exercise I was doing they couldn't find fault with it. A couple of times people suggested my lifestyle was too healthy and I should eat more and stop going to the gym. But I wasn't really happy with that as then there would be a knock on effect on my health and I knew it wouldn't help me lose weight as it was the medication that caused it!

overthedale · 08/01/2026 13:12

neither has made much change to their lifestyle or diet other than eating less and slightly smaller portions

A positive change in the context of weight loss I’d say.

Peridoteage · 08/01/2026 13:12

I know a few people who've come off them & regained weight fast.

My friend is a pt and said you tend to lose weight so quickly that a fair bit of what you lose is muscle mass. Muscle is a big factor in what drives your metabolism, so your metabolism can slow considerably when on them. So you stop & its very easy to gain weight again.

Also the GLP conceals your feelings of hunger and enables you to simply eat far less. Without this, its incredibly hard for human beings to ignore our bodies trying to tell us to regain weight. You can retrain your body to recognise a lower "set point" for your weight but its difficult and slow, it takes years of major lifestyle change.

Its much much easier to stay slim if you've never been bigger, than to lose weight.

MargoLivebetter · 08/01/2026 13:11

@Eyeshadow how do you think people get these prescription medications? Why do you think that consent is not properly informed?

safetychange · 08/01/2026 13:10

SlipperyLizard · 08/01/2026 06:28

I’ve lost 3 stone on them but always knew I would have to take them for life to keep it off - otherwise previous weight loss attempts would have worked!

The only surprise is that anyone thought that most people wouldn’t need them for life.

Absolutely. The "change your habits" brigade need educating on how this is not the solution for a lot of us. Oh if only we'd thought of moving more and eating more veg. What an epiphany 🙄

Eyeshadow · 08/01/2026 13:10

itsthetea · 08/01/2026 12:52

Why can’t people see that being forewarned is a good thing ? Why is that being seen as being jealous or negative?

or are you all not actually on the jags but instead are working for the pharmaceutical companies and don’t want to give people a fighting chance ? Because that’s what makes sense

Exactly!

There are multiple posters who are considering them or are on them and want to eventually come off.

Surely understanding the pros and cons, including research and individuals experiences, can only be a good thing.

When I buy something off Amazon I don’t just read the positive reviews as that would be stupid.

RedefineAllThoseBlues · 08/01/2026 13:09

MrsSkylerWhite · 08/01/2026 13:06

Absolutely! Informed consent. I actually think more people should be prescribed and have proper, medical supervision. Long term, will greatly benefit the NHS.
A dear friend in London is morbidly obese, has been for a long time. Her practice has outright refused because of funding. So short sighted.

But those who are prescribed must be made fully aware of possible implications, as they are with any other drug, before they commence.

Well, they are informed. All the information is on the leaflet. Prescribers provide warnings and advice on side effects and require users to complete ongoing monitoring (questionnaires, photos, video calls). It's no different to other prescribed medication in terms of information provided to the patient.

AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii · 08/01/2026 13:09

I have 2 family members on them, one paying £160 per month one paying £300 and neither has any answers for where it stops so I’m assuming they’ll both be paying for life. One was morbidly obese the other one overweight, from what I’ve seen when I’m with them neither has made much change to their lifestyle or diet other than eating less and slightly smaller portions

ive often wondered what would happen should they no longer be able to afford them? One works part time and the other hardly works at all

Dollyfloss · 08/01/2026 13:09

SushiForMe · 08/01/2026 12:44

I think what PP are suggesting is more transparency at the beginning of the WLI process. Make sure people are aware that they will probably need injections for life / stats about weight gain if they stop.
As would be the case with any other prescribed injection or medicine.

And to the poster asking if this is coming from a place of jealousy, definitely not. I’m interested as have suggested to a loved one that WLI could be the solution for them - even if it means lifelong treatment.

But no one is arguing with that. No one.

Posters who are more knowledgeable are correcting things that others say that are incorrect. That is all.

Such as “you cannot take them for life” etc. which is nonsense.

Of course people should be knowledgeable and do their own research to decide if WLI’s are right for them.

But these posters cannot spout opinions that are incorrect as fact and expect to not be corrected or have posters reading the links they have posted and explaining why it isn’t conclusive evidence.

MargoLivebetter · 08/01/2026 13:07

@MrsSkylerWhite how do you think people get these prescription medications? Why did you think that consent is not properly informed?

Passingthrough123 · 08/01/2026 13:07

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Keep doubling down all you want. You've been reported.