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AIBU to be annoyed that my beginner tennis classes were stopped with no warning?

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TheRealGossipGirl · 07/01/2026 22:55

Around September last year, I was fed up of working from home and then doing absolutely nothing in the evenings - nap, wake up, TV, bed. So I found a coach at a tennis club that ran beginner group sessions every Thursday at 7pm. They were £20 a session and taught the basics in a group.

I absolutely loved it and quickly started looking forward to the sessions each week. On the coach’s recommendation, I also spent around £70 on a beginner racket.

Just before Christmas, the final session was cancelled. I texted the coach to check, and she said she’d cancelled it and said we could do 1-to-1 sessions in the new year if I was interested.

I said I’d think about it, as her 1-to-1 sessions are £50 per lesson and I already pay for the gym, personal training, and other bills. In this situation, one lesson per week would add up very quickly!

This week, I started wondering when the beginner sessions would restart, as I hadn’t heard anything. I checked the shared Excel sheet where we usually put our names down and saw a note saying: “Beginner sessions have now ended.” That was the first I’d heard of it.

There was no warning, no message, no heads-up that the beginner classes were stopping. I’m also annoyed as I bought a £70 racket on her recommendation, thinking this was a long-term thing.

I can see that a few people from the beginner group have moved on to evening improver sessions, but this wasn’t offered to me, and I don’t think I’m quite at that level yet.

AIBU to feel upset and annoyed by how this was handled? I’m not looking to do 1-to-1 lessons at the moment as they’re very expensive in London (£50–£100+), but if this had been communicated better I might have explored it, even if only once or twice a month. As it stands, I’m put off continuing with her.

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fashionqueen0123 · 07/01/2026 23:01

That’s rude of her. My DH works in a similar industry and he’d never just cancel like that.

Id ask or book onto the improver class, or find someone else!

Christmascaketime · 07/01/2026 22:59

Could there be not enough interest in beginner. It’s not really tennis season maybe they’ll offer it again in summer/wimbledon time. Could you ask about going to improver?