Me and DH have had issues for a while, mostly his lack of financial contribution and laziness. He threw a tantrum the other night and theatrically went to “sleep” in the spare room after I told him not to snap at me. he came back when I was “asleep” and slept normally. Woke up like nothing had happened.
When I approached him later that day to talk about it (calmly) he got annoyed saying “you don’t want to escalate this”, “this isn’t shouting, you don’t want to see me shouting”. I stupidly said, “well if I get some answers then we will have to escalate it”
He then screamed “fucking shut your mouth, shut the fuck up”. I was sitting down and he was standing in front of me. Then he pulled a load of laundry off the bed and threw it over the room.
aibu to think this isn’t a “normal” way to argue?