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‘sober curious’, have a day off…

103 replies

ThatsVertigo · 07/01/2026 12:37

I’ve just seen an acquaintance post an instagram story labelling themselves as ‘sober curious’ and encouraging people to ask them questions and others to reassess their relationship with alcohol. I’m all for them making changes that make them happier and healthier, but the positioning of the whole thing just made me roll my eyes, not everything needs a label. And if you need to label yourself as ‘sober curious’ in order to cut back then maybe you’re avoiding a more accurate label ‘alcoholic’.

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5128gap · 07/01/2026 12:42

Is it just a fancy way of saying you've sworn off the sauce for January?

Dontdisrepectme · 07/01/2026 12:41

What on earth does it mean? Like you're curiously trying to be sober?

Jesus bloody christ on a bike.

OriginalSkang · 07/01/2026 12:39

I've noticed there's an option on Bumble to describe yourself as sober curious now. I think its a weird way to describe yourself tbh. Make your mind up before you announce it